Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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a mans count to me is totally different than a women.

It may sound sexist etc. but ah well, women deal with emotions men with logic.

RIP but you saw that mandela video "Mandela: In his own words" and his reasoning for winnie cheating on him? how we have to remember she was a young woman at 24 and he was a man in his 40s and she gave into her temptations at that age :wtf: :mindblown:

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I like how he said though that "She got caught with her pants down" :pachaha: we should start using that line with women more
 

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then why is she single :lupe:

Recently discovered that she has a man claiming her as his girl :lupe:

But as we've been in touch more and more, her feelings have developed for me. She said she "couldn't believe this could happen" when she was involved with someone already, and that she didn't see a future with him. From what I know, she broke up with him around spring time, and recently they got back together.

I told her that we can't deal with other on that level until she has definitely ended it with the man she's involved with. She came over yesterday afternoon/evening, apparently to tell me that she was involved with him, but she ended up in tears as she said she had developed feelings for me, and that she couldn't believe that I came into her life and that she got into this situation.
 

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All I see is redflags

Recently discovered that she has a man claiming her as his girl :lupe:

But as we've been in touch more and more, her feelings have developed for me. She said she "couldn't believe this could happen" when she was involved with someone already, and that she didn't see a future with him. From what I know, she broke up with him around spring time, and recently they got back together.

I told her that we can't deal with other on that level until she has definitely ended it with the man she's involved with. She came over yesterday afternoon/evening, apparently to tell me that she was involved with him, but she ended up in tears as she said she had developed feelings for me, and that she couldn't believe that I came into her life and that she got into this situation.
 

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The girl is confused. In the past month we've been getting closer, and I don't actually know what her relationship is with this other guy. I told her recently that I wasn't opposed to marriage, if I found the right woman - previously this was something that made her hesitant about me.

She just got herself into a situation she wasn't prepared for - she should've kept her feelings in check or been more upfront with the man she's involved with.

On a similar note - has anyone met a woman who isn't insecure on some level? On some real shyt, I don't think I ever have. I've found that even the "best" women on some level feel inadequate.

She has a man claiming her as his girl. She's drawing you in with your the best thing ever don't worry about him we haven't been together since the spring yet they broke up and got back together recently. Now your the best thing ever and she can't decide but she really wants you .
 

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Your making excuses for her behavior she has you already.

I guarantee if you date this girl exclusively you'll find out she's smashing this other dude behind your back


The girl is confused. In the past month we've been getting closer, and I don't actually know what her relationship is with this other guy. I told her recently that I wasn't opposed to marriage, if I found the right woman - previously this was something that made her hesitant about me.

She just got herself into a situation she wasn't prepared for - she should've kept her feelings in check or been more upfront with the man she's involved with.

On a similar note - has anyone met a woman who isn't insecure on some level? On some real shyt, I don't think I ever have. I've found that even the "best" women on some level feel inadequate.
 

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The Timeline For A Girl Of Average-Or-Better Looks (Version 2013)

Age 15

By this age, most girls—with the exception of the latest of bloomers—will have gotten their first taste of the power of their femininity. Boys at their school will have already started doing things for them, in lame attempts to win their favor, and men on the outside will have started to lavish them with attention–setting off a long flow of ego-stroking validation. But, most girls will still be new at manipulating this new tool that’s fallen into their lap. What’s more, their underage status limits their opportunities to hone it, though Facebook, cell phones, and general social permissiveness has accelerated this process in recent years.

Age 17

By their senior year in high school, most girls have at least two years of experience using their female power. As a result, they’ve developed intermediate girl-game, which places them (a conservative) 8-10 years ahead of boys her age in terms of social intelligence. They spend a lot of their day admiring their own (and their peers’) beauty—mostly by constantly snapping pictures of each other and attention-whoring them out to their growing chorus of fawning admirers in the digital world
 

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Age 22

The four-year carnival called college is coming to a close. During this time, she’s enjoyed the absolute ride of her life—non-stop parties, trips, and gorging herself on the buffet of cock available to an American college girl—without the uncomfortable social stigmas of generations past. At a time where previous generations of women were getting nervous if they hadn’t snared a husband, today’s girl is “just getting started.” At this age, today’s girl is irretrievably drunk on her power. Any cautionary advice will be greeted with hubristic ridicule and disbelief



Age 25

The first alerts—which go unheeded—that this ride isn’t forever start to rear their heads. The combination of a few harsh pump-and-dumps, and the knowledge that some of her smarter friends are getting hitched, start to impart a hard edge on her personality. Still, with ample beauty left over, most girls will continue to draw from the bank account with impunity.

Age 29

After repeated pressings of the snooze button, it starts getting harder to ignore the clangor of the alarm clock. Having gotten her fill on the party lifestyle—and starting to feel, if not fully understand, the diminished effectiveness of her fading looks—she declares herself “ready to settle down.” Regrettably, the combination of having very little beauty-capital remaining and impossibly high standards—the product of years of enjoying the high life at the expense of her future solvency—will conspire to keep her single.
 

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You're being too cynical reincar; she definitely made a mistake in getting close to me when she was still involved with him. Let me put this into context: she's 24, parents are still together, close family, religious beliefs (recently went on pilgrimage), waiting until marriage, only kissed one other man in her life. We were talking about intimacy and I asked her if she masturbated and she said no. If anything, she's a prude.

By the way, she left my house in tears last night because of her conflicted feelings. I told her though, that if it could happen with him then it could happen with me. Hell, I've already had a woman lie directly to my face before, so I'm not revisiting that.

Your making excuses for her behavior she has you already. I guarantee if you date this girl exclusively you'll find out she's smashing this other dude behind your back
 

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Age 32

The magical years are officially gone, and the long descent to complete invisibility to the opposite sex is well underway. Thanks to social programming (e.g., Sex in the City and the myth that “a woman’s sexual prime is in her 30s”), she can rationalize that her “Mr. Right” will arrive any minute. However, she’s likely to become little more than a second- or third-stringer in a player’s long roster of options. A few of these women will get bailed out by blue-pill betas, who still buy into the marriage trap, and don’t realize (or care) they’re buying a used car with the odometer rolled back. But this marriage is almost certainly doomed to divorce-failure, since nothing can ever compete with her 15-year prime-time binge. She will be nagged by dissatisfaction the moment her last party–her wedding–ends.
 

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Women will tell you whatever you want to hear to soothe your concerns.

Your not dating her, never even losses, there's another guy on the picture she has feelings for but your still ready to go in

By all means like I said I've seen this song and dance before



You're being too cynical reincar; she definitely made a mistake in getting close to me when she was still involved with him. Let me put this into context: she's 24, parents are still together, close family, religious beliefs (recently went on pilgrimage), waiting until marriage, only kissed one other man in her life. We were talking about intimacy and I asked her if she masturbated and she said no. If anything, she's a prude.

By the way, she left my house in tears last night because of her conflicted feelings. I told her though, that if it could happen with him then it could happen with me. Hell, I've already had a woman lie directly to my face before, so I'm not revisiting that.
 
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