Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

guys i propose something. lets make a Red Flag Blueprint. post ur experiences sure, but lets try to drop some clear simple knowledge for some pages.

Red Flag #1: She wasnt raised in a strong 2 parent household and even if so, the parents are no longer together

i keep telling people about women not raised in two parent households or a household that was dysfunctional dont do it

i equate it to like professional teams usually not winning until a vet is added someone with experience whose been there before, many of these woen from broken homes or dysfunctional households never been there before they never had a good relationship dont put your pearls befor swine.


another if she was molested or raped and did not get therapy run,

if shes never had a good relationship or bashes her ex run - women lie all the time women choose the man they stay with and end most relationships. i gurantee you can treat a woman good and she hceates etc. next guy she dates she will bash you oh my ex was horrible he was never there for me bla bla not mentioning how she cheated and dumped him

if she got kids

if she has male friends that are not homosexuals

if she talks to a ex

 

[Turbulent]

Them simps would tell you, "Man you need to be confident and trust yo woman. Don't ever go through her phone or check up on her." Knowing how women get down these days, occasionally seeing what she's doing when you're not around can save you from raising another man's baby or getting trapped into financial slavery by a traitor. It's funny how so many guys will say they are some kind of playa on one hand and sleep with other guy's girls on a regular, but somehow their own woman doesn't do all that because they feel they got some knid of swag.

Now if you broke up with a woman, then there's no need to check up on her. Cut her out and keep it moving.

i'm not really down with the keylogger though. As far as being insecure, i feel like we are all that to some level and it's ok. The way i see it, if i start doubting too much, fukk getting proof, i'll just bounce. No need to confirm anything.

 

[Turbulent]

double post

 

[kevm3]

I don't really believe in the term 'insecurity' as it's often used in the dating world. it implies that one feels inferior about themselves and lack confidence, so that is the reason they are checking up on their 'significant other'. In every other arena, you look at someone's reputation and you verify whether the party you are engaging in a transaction with has integrity. Relationships should be no different. A man who checks up on his woman every now and then can be VERY secure, because he views his time as so valuable he doesn't want a second of it wasted by a traitor.

That saying, "A relationship is built on trust" is nonsensical trash. A relationship is built on trustworthiness. Huge difference. Trustworthiness means each side does what it takes to be worthy of trusted. Going in a relationship just trusting from the get-go leaves you to be done real bad. The term conman is short for confidence man, or in words, someone who gains your trust so they can fleece you.

If you're thinking about investing and you see some guy saying he knows how to invest money for a high return, there is no way you will just hand over your money without verifying this guy has a history of getting results and without investigating if he has a fraudulent history. The same should be done for relationships. Some guys could have saved years of their lives and avoided things like paying for another man's child or getting smashed in divorce court by a liar and a cheater.

I agree when you just meet a woman and things come up funny, you just up and dip out... but when you get invested with a woman and you are a couple of years in, it's not nearly as easy to just up and leave. Cats will want confirmation she is doing something dirty before they leave.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yeah its harder when there are emotional ties.

Like you dating a chick for a few months find out she's chatting to a guy easier to just cut it off thslan if it was 3 years.

Thing men need to realize is women cant stop they do it once they will keep doing IG again and again and again. She will just get better at hiding it from you.

 

[Medio]

I hate when a dude has a pic wit a girl on a social network site, being his new girlfriend or fiancée or something and people are like 'you picked a good one'..

how the fukk are you really judging off a picture?????? you know nothing about that girl except for her looks, so shallow, it truly disgusts me.

 

[MikelArteta]

Give it 3-6 months and it will be gone

I hate when a dude has a pic wit a girl on a social network site, being his new girlfriend or fiancée or something and people are like 'you picked a good one'..

how the fukk are you really judging off a picture?????? you know nothing about that girl except for her looks, so shallow, it truly disgusts me.

 

[Mike Ock]

Honestly, if you've broken up with her, it's best to leave it alone, because anything you find if you do find anything will only make you extremely angry, and it won't necessarily help you move on, but it will get you in a mindset where you want to get revenge.

Yup. I guess I was lucky. Left that relationship with no trust issues. My girl now, we were friends like 1yr and a half before we decided to become a couple. So far so good, as far as I know and it's been a little more than a yr. But shyt happens, and I'm not naive enough to think it can't.

 

[DaRealness]

I hate when a dude has a pic wit a girl on a social network site, being his new girlfriend or fiancée or something and people are like 'you picked a good one'..

how the fukk are you really judging off a picture?????? you know nothing about that girl except for her looks, so shallow, it truly disgusts me.

Then when the relationship breaks up they have to deal with the embarrassment of explaining "what happened to x" because they put their business out there.

Unless the relationship is serious I wouldn't even dream of posting up a pic with my SO. But I'm not on FB anyway, so.

 

[DaRealness]

Drake is a classic lame ass simp:

This that shyt I'm saying.....talking to these chicks in this long, drawn out, beating around the bush way is not gonna get you them drawz or even their attention.

They need to make testosterone shots mandatory for some dudes.

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[yo moms]

Drake is a classic lame ass simp:

This that shyt I'm saying.....talking to these chicks in this long, drawn out, beating around the bush way is not gonna get you them drawz or even their attention.

They need to make testosterone shots mandatory for some dudes.

are you questioning drakes ability to get p*ssy?

 

[DaRealness]

are you questioning drakes ability to get p*ssy?

I'm sure he's begged and pleaded and managed to get some sympathy punani.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I hope you guys understood my analogy about being last one to know when your girl breaks up with you.

 

[SubLyminalz]

how does this keylogger shyt work brehs