Lol i kno i tend to overthink some times
I try to stop doing it but sometimes it just happens
especially with some girls like heri mean whats her motives behind this b
I'm confused to why you think you fukked up tho???
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I'm confused to why you think you fukked up tho???
Beerus
Banned
That's the thing i don't know. i mean maybe i shoulda said something else iono man
like if what I did is ok i guess its ok. then again this chick being
prob got me overthinking now?? still confused bruh.. she texted you, then you texted her back, i don't see the problem ...That's the thing i don't know. i mean maybe i shoulda said something else iono man
like if what I did is ok i guess its ok. then again this chick being
hit her up tomorrow or something seeing if she wants to chil l
Beerus
Banned
yeah that wont happen i know it. anyways im prob gon forget about her by tommorow or as soon as I see another nice chick
I mean what had me confused is why would she text me out of the blue on after midnight ?
DaRealness
I think very deeply
I don't really understand what the problem is here either, but just do what you have to do without losing any sleep over it. If she wants to hit you up, she knows where to find you. If not, keep it moving. It's not worth worrying about, believe me.
Here is what happened: you showed her attention and she liked that. Then she told you she wasn't going on a date with you and you stopped bothering. No more attention, she didn't like that. So she started to wonder how she could get your sttention back and decided to send you a message to remind you of what you where missing out on. Looks like it worked. Keep her in the bushes, or, if you decide to pursue, throw her back in the bushes at the smalles sign she's playing games. This type of religious girls is torn between wanting attention and trying to follow the rules. Best thing is to stay away because they will fukk with your head.
There's no reason behind it, stop looking for motives behind everything.yeah that wont happen i know it. anyways im prob gon forget about her by tommorow or as soon as I see another nice chick
I mean what had me confused is why would she text me out of the blue on after midnight ?
Besides you mentioned she is Muslim, I could have already told that this wasn't going anywhere beyond platonic friendship. Keep dreaming
think about this. these women have had your number for centuries... never hit you up, but all of a sudden they pop out of the blue extra friendly. why is that? More times than not, the real options she is trying to vibe with aren't paying her attention and she needs a guy to 'tide her over.' She'll act like she's interested for a little while. She might be cool for a week at the longest, and then she'll disappear back to wherever she really wanted to be. If she doesn't need a back-up, most likely she needs a favor. What in the world makes her want you now when she didn't want you any of the other months prior?
On another note, stop over thinking. If you like a woman and you're in contact with her, tell her to come cool it with you. if she ain't with it, take it to another woman. Sometimes women put up a lil resistance because they need to get comfortable, but for the most part, women are down to go out with men they are interested in.
On another note, stop over thinking. If you like a woman and you're in contact with her, tell her to come cool it with you. if she ain't with it, take it to another woman. Sometimes women put up a lil resistance because they need to get comfortable, but for the most part, women are down to go out with men they are interested in.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
That's exactly what I was thinking too.
Beerus
Banned
Yall coli brehs 
This thread
This thread
This is the kind of women you attract when you're a simp and too nice and I'm gonna keep highlighting shyt like this til I'm blue in the face:
My estranged wife is so nasty and spiteful.
She’s determined to make our divorce as difficult and toxic as possible.
Everything I suggest is met with a wall of insults and hostility.
I’ve offered her half of the house, a lump sum, the car and various goods, but she keeps saying that she wants everything and that she’s determined to squeeze me “until the pips squeak”.
I keep warning her that the lawyers will end up with everything if we’re not careful but her vindictiveness and bloody-mindedness over-ride her common sense.
I very reluctantly told her that I wanted to part last summer. I’ve never considered myself a quitter and when I married her, I was determined to stick by her side for life.
But things haven’t turned out as I would have liked. Far from being a loving, caring wife, she’s been tricky and hurtful from the get-go.
She had two affairs in our first year of marriage alone. Then she secretly spent £5,000 on clothes and another £4,000 on a gambling website. Things came to a head when I discovered that she was sleeping with my ex-boss and she blamed me for being “lame” in bed.
I left that night and by the morning she’d thrown every single item of mine on to the front lawn – clothes, records, shoes, books and toiletries were either completely ruined or stolen. She laughed when I cried and told her how upset I was.
Again she called me weak and pathetic and vowed to ruin me. Well, she’s certainly giving that threat her best shot. I’ve just had another letter from her solicitor demanding more cash and I’m losing the will to live.
Now read the response:
JANE SAYS: There’s no doubt that you made a huge mistake when you married your cruel and vindictive wife but there’s no point in looking back now.
What you have to do is stay strong and focus on getting through this horrible divorce and planning for the future.
What you can’t do is allow her to rob you of every shred of confidence and self-work you still retain.
Tell her today that no matter how clever she thinks she is that she’s not above the law. She can’t draw this divorce out for ever and one day (soon, hopefully) you’ll both be free to start again.
I get the impression that she’s always been contemptuous of you because you’re too reasonable and too nice. Something of a pushover, even? You turned a blind eye to the two affairs she conducted in the first year of your marriage and even let her get away with massive overspending.
It was only when you flipped over your ex-boss that you walked out and even then she got her childish revenge by trashing your stuff.
Maybe it’s time for you to really man up and show her that you’re a force to be reckoned with.
Make sure that you’ve got the best and toughest solicitor you can afford and start showing your teeth.
See what I'm talking about? Women HATE AND DESPISE men like this. I'm sure this same dude was a simp who saw the signs from day one but chose to ignore them and instead spent a whole bunch of money on her from the get go, chauffering her around, telling her all his business and letting her boss and backchat him around while he thought he could change and tame her. Women simply don't have a sense of honour. Go through the thread 'how did you find out your girl cheated' and look at the patterns in all the stories. It was always the guys who gave their women leeway and moved heaven and earth for them, only to come home and catch her with some rag-tag, no job having dusty ass canerow head dude tearing it up in their bed.
Then you got these manginas in that other hot topic thread talking about: **weak ass, low testosterone voice** "I-I-I-I don't want a submissive woman or pet, I want an equal......a-a-a-and who's to say a man is worthy of having a submissive woman in the first place when men (except myself and fellow simps) aren't worthy". fukking R&B, Ralph Transvestite-ass dudes. You never see these types anywhere surrounded by women and getting any play - tell me I'm lying? The most they ever get is "awwwww", that's it. Women may "like" nice guys like them, but they RESPECT men with balls and testosterone who manage to emit pheremones. When you exercise manhood, these fakkit ass dudes are always the ones to call you out as being brutish or "insecure and emasculated". Then you got those other dudes on this board who always laugh at another man's L as if they're immune to the same shyt happening to them or worse.
I used to think the men who had a somewhat @sshole-ish attitude to women were the bad guys and thought they were just ignorant and immature, but now that I'm older and wiser, I realise these men simply had the right idea. Of course, I'm not talking about men who are outright cruel and abusive physically and verbally. but let's face it, then men who are the @ssholes are the ones who always get chicks.
You have to stop doing these women favours and turn down their requests. They either like the things that you like, or they don't. Simple as that. If you're into Go Kart racing, tell them they can come watch you on the track for 45 minutes then chill afterwards. Get #HOH for 2014 with no exception. Some might say, well doesn't that make a woman apprehensive to ask you favours or suggest anything? My answer to that is, so what?When you start a new job you really like and want to hold on to, you don't go asking your manager for days pff or favours, or a payrise and more responsibilities three weeks into it. You know better than to get presumptuous. Likewise in a relationship; naturally as a man, you do a bit more for the woman as time goes by as she proves herself more and more. A REAL MAN - the kind these cape wearing manginas think they are - wouldn't be doing bullshyt like driving across town to her house in the middle of the night to comfort her because she thought she saw a mouse in her kitchen and bullshyt like that or give her money for a supposed "girl's night out".
Just like how all the airports around the world have gotten harder on all flyers post 9-11, get harder on women post waking-the-fukk-up and learning gems from yours and other people's experiences. So what if a few women get hurt feelings along the way? They don't give a fukk about YOU when they throw you under the bus after you've served your purpose. Airports don't give a fukk when a few passengers complain about having to take their shoes off or getting bodily scans. Likewise, know that you're doing this to sift out potential emotional terrorists like the woman in the article. fukk what the manginas have to say. Let them get hurt by the same women they're so eager to get daps from so they can see the light too - if ever.
This is one of the best posts I've ever read on the coli
Language I want us to get out of our vocabulary this year. "What does a woman like?" "What does a woman want?" Honestly, who cares? What in the world is she bringing to the table for a man to cater to what she likes? Why would you sacrifice who you are in an attempt to impress some woman who 20 other guys probably have already knocked down? Why attempt to impress a woman in the first place? Let's keep it simple. Either she wants to mess with you or she doesn't. Either she's willing to take to the table what you're bringing to her or she isn't. If she isn't, stop lingering around and take yourself elsewhere.
As a man, your thoughts should be INDEPENDENT and higher than what a woman likes or thinks. We have to many 'cater to u' type of dudes out here who spend all their time and money turning into some fantasyland creation of what they perceive women like. What kind of way is that to spend your life? You will never be confident if you are looking to external sources for validation. You can only truly be confident when you embrace and accept who you are and lose your need to impress. Stop worrying about what the broads will think or this and that. Worry about how to become a better man.
As a man, your thoughts should be INDEPENDENT and higher than what a woman likes or thinks. We have to many 'cater to u' type of dudes out here who spend all their time and money turning into some fantasyland creation of what they perceive women like. What kind of way is that to spend your life? You will never be confident if you are looking to external sources for validation. You can only truly be confident when you embrace and accept who you are and lose your need to impress. Stop worrying about what the broads will think or this and that. Worry about how to become a better man.
Here's something I've found. Sometimes, the more cavemanish and brutish you are, the better. I'm not talking about fighting and other ignorant behavior, but it's more along the lines of just going out and going after what you want.
In school, we're taught to be eggheads to think everything in explicit detail and look for this perfect plan to do things. We're taught to constantly cater to others and to make whatever we do appeal to some authority figure. This creates a neutered man who is always looking for others for approval and is constantly looking for the perfect plan before acting. It creates a man who is stuck in the 'safe zone' and never acts because the perfect opportunity as envisioned in his plan, never arises. He is forever left calculating and formulating in his head.
Sometimes you have to say screw the critics, screw what everyone has to say, and screw failure. I'm going to go do it. Did you learn to ride a bike by reading up on the history of bicycles, learning the material composition of a pedal and reading on the proper ways to perfectly rotate your legs to propel the bike forward? Did you look at falling down as something that was to be so dreaded that you couldn't fall at any cost? If you had that mindset, you would have never rode the bike in the first place... People would say that's a stupid attitude... and yet so many people carry this attitude towards all kinds of different endeavors, whether it is dealing with the opposite sex or business. You learned to ride a bike because you got on and rode it. You won't get results with anything else unless you just go out and do it and don't care for failure. Overthinking is just as bad as underthinking. Go do it.
In school, we're taught to be eggheads to think everything in explicit detail and look for this perfect plan to do things. We're taught to constantly cater to others and to make whatever we do appeal to some authority figure. This creates a neutered man who is always looking for others for approval and is constantly looking for the perfect plan before acting. It creates a man who is stuck in the 'safe zone' and never acts because the perfect opportunity as envisioned in his plan, never arises. He is forever left calculating and formulating in his head.
Sometimes you have to say screw the critics, screw what everyone has to say, and screw failure. I'm going to go do it. Did you learn to ride a bike by reading up on the history of bicycles, learning the material composition of a pedal and reading on the proper ways to perfectly rotate your legs to propel the bike forward? Did you look at falling down as something that was to be so dreaded that you couldn't fall at any cost? If you had that mindset, you would have never rode the bike in the first place... People would say that's a stupid attitude... and yet so many people carry this attitude towards all kinds of different endeavors, whether it is dealing with the opposite sex or business. You learned to ride a bike because you got on and rode it. You won't get results with anything else unless you just go out and do it and don't care for failure. Overthinking is just as bad as underthinking. Go do it.
To preserve you from the evil woman, from the smooth tongue of the adulteress. Do not desire her beauty in your heart, and do not let her capture you with her eyelashes; for the price of a prostitute is only a loaf of bread, but a married woman hunts down a precious life.