Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yeah, that's what they do, no matter the age group....and they only do it as some kind of challenge to see if they can overcome you somehow. This broad had the nerve to insult me just because 1) I wasn't simping over her like she thought I would and 2)because I told her I was just gonna study and relax this past weekend - so basically a man who is studying in order to further his career and better himself is "boring" - and this is the opinion of a thirty something year old chick? SMH. Then when I basically tell her to kick rocks and forget I ever existed now she wants to keep hitting me up even more. The old me would have caved in and messaged her back, but I vowed to turn over a new leaf for real in 2014 and I'm sticking to it. No doubt if I ever did message her back she'd feel she got one over me, then I wouldn't hear from her again. Nah, DaRealness learns from his mistakes. I'm not playing silly games with people, I'm too old for that nonsense.



I wouldn't even bother troll that broad you set up a meet with. I mentioned the same thing happening to me when I was in the DR last year. When I saw the chick again I didn't even ask her any questions, I just kept it pushing and enjoyed my holiday. It's not even worth it, even if she does call you just tell her you're not interested and leave it at that. I notice that's another game they like playing. Tariq talks about that a lot.
 

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is there a chance to hit this?

so my friend introduced me to this girl, we became kind of cool but she knows that I do talk to multiple girls and shyt, she always jokes around and says i'm a player but is kind of serious. This girl likes hanging out with me and stuff though. She's told me that she always falls for bad guys too but is trying to find a nice guy now, she's 24.

Chance I can hit?
 

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is there a chance to hit this?

so my friend introduced me to this girl, we became kind of cool but she knows that I do talk to multiple girls and shyt, she always jokes around and says i'm a player but is kind of serious. This girl likes hanging out with me and stuff though. She's told me that she always falls for bad guys too but is trying to find a nice guy now, she's 24.

Chance I can hit?
what they say is just noise.
 

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My clueless ass gotta take it back to the basics :wow:

What cues/body language says that a girl is interested? Not while spending time with her but before that...seeing her on the street/around school type of thing...
 
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My clueless ass gotta take it back to the basics :wow:

What cues/body language says that a girl is interested? Not while spending time with her but before that...seeing her on the street/around school type of thing...

eye contact and a smile. if they hold eye contact and flash a smile, that's your cue.

I know it's easier said than done, as i'm just as clueless when it comes to meeting woman, but it's just practice till you comfortable enough.
 

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Im at a weird point in my life, I enjoy being single... and after this last break up with the only love of my life and simpin hard :snoop: I just don't have that same enthusiasm for getting to know chicks. I don't enjoy any females company enough just to have over and chill without wanting to smash at some point or them annoying me to death. I don't want a relationship right now, and I unlike most nikka I aint really into casual sex week after week with different chicks.


I'm 31 about to be 32 this year, and I feel like if I don't lock something up soon im end up with a :flabbynsick: chick.... Not that it should matter really. But I guess it does for me, I don't even have crazy high standards I just like what I like.... I feel like waiting and trying to shake off all emotions to this break up is dumb but needed.



Every time I get ready to holla at a chick something in my head stops me and I'm like nahhh whats the point right now.:sadbron:
 

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A chick that loves you like for real will stick by your side and follow you into the depths of hell because of that love. Basically that love is gonna keep her on lock..


A chick that respects but doesn't love you doesn't care about your well being, life or concern's. If I wanted just respect I'd get a dog or something.
 

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A chick that loves you like for real will stick by your side and follow you into the depths of hell because of that love. Basically that love is gonna keep her on lock..


A chick that respects but doesn't love you doesn't care about your well being, life or concern's. If I wanted just respect I'd get a dog or something.
 
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