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what do you do when your boy is treating his girl like shyt blatantly and shes a good woman? I cant look at him the same....he too old to fukk up a good thing...i tried to tell him to drop the hoes but he doesnt give a shyt....he been my boy for a long time, but im starting to lose respect for him honestly
Like breh said do nothing. If he asks for your opinion keep it 100 with him because that is your position as the homie. As far as his girl goes, she deserves what she allows. If she is staying with dude and he's not doing right then thats her fault for staying with him.

I can rationalize with you tho because i was in a similar situation a while back. But people are only gonna change when they want to. If shes such a good woman she should want better for herself than a dude who isnt faithful so dont save her she dont wanna be saved. :cape:
 

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as men one thing that we fail to do is look at things for what they really are. we overthink and we second guess whats right in front of our eyes. instead of counting role with whos in front of us and what theyre doing, we're spending our time looking at excuses and what could the reason be for this misbehavior. we try to get behind the mentality of these females and logically figure out what a woman could be thinking. we end up playing their game, going full cat and mouse. its one game that will only have you following her up and trying to juggle her emotions to keep it all in the air


I see it now, I see posts where we'll be sitting here wondering why shes not texting you back after she said right to your faces that shes down. we'll be thinking, why is it that we had such a good time but now shes hard to reach. why did she suddenly turn a cold shoulder and is hard to find. why do I have to keep everything live and functioning. why is it that like she says one thing and does another. why is it that theres no loyalty from these females if youre having a hard time. why do they feel so entitled to so much, and for so many favors, but then when they get it theyre not appreciative at all. why do they try to get a man to serve them, and then when they do, theyre not happy at all. why do they settle down with a man and effectively try to neuter him and make him a slave to her power. why do some women get a nice, healthy routine going on in their relationships, and it looks like they have it all, but then they have a desire to leave because its become boring to them. why is it that she wants to be friends with one type of man who will be a provider, a lover, and a listener, but diss him for a man who only wants to smash and leave her. why is it that we can see a man do so much for a woman, even help her out in life, yet she still checks out in a foul, deceiving way because she thinks that she sees a better deal. why does the concept of appreciation and reciprocity seem so foreign to females. why does no one want to be under their guidance. why do the feelings of others seem so irrelevant to them. its like 1 + 1 doesnt equal 2. we see a lot of times that we dont understand their thinking, and the truth is, many times niether do they. you see this is EXACTLY why women are not good leaders, and EXACTLY why you can not follow them


theres an old saying which goes, there are two things you do not chase: the bus or a woman, because theyll both just leave you behind


if you got rejected, good. if you feel you got abandoned, or left behind for no disconcernable reason, good. if you feel betrayed, and like you didnt deserve what you got, good. youve got your eyes opened now. the next thing to do is to never have your balls cut off in a relationship, and to never put yourself in a position where you can get ruined again. dont put your all into someone else. dont have yourself under a woman or anybody else. dont base yourself, your activities and your personal values around a woman and what she wants to do. never that. establish a goal for yourself that overrides a womans importance. have things that you enjoy. be about something. dont just be about bytches and make your life be based around them and what they like. they dont even like that, so cut it out. make yourself bigger than the need to chase women. dont tarnish your image in order to thirst and snare a woman. dont be out here setting up traps. be you. be secure and make sure you put your bid in, anything else, you let it go. be ready to walk on any of them. put down some real rules. follow them.


now that youve had your heartbroken, make sure that you remember what the future will hold if youre basing your happiness and life around a woman. youre just as likely to win the lotto twice as you are to find a woman who will "complete" you and never try you in some way. the only thing that will complete yourself, is your personal code and your ability to follow it. think with your brain, not your dikk. youll see that a woman is mostly just arm dressing and something to keep you warm at night. aside from that, if youre having troubles, you can always rent one or just get an extra blanket. p*ssy not what determines happiness anyways, so you should never act like that. theres plenty of men out there with bytches, but have a stressful life and one where theyre more or less trapped by their balls so they can not leave. many men would wish to be free, so dont get locked down into something you really dont like. dont let yourself be the neutered ox, a shell of himself and a fraction of what he could be; be the bull, with his strength respected and his power feared. show them what the fukk you can do when your not tied down by some form of weak thinking. what Im saying is - dont let these women make or break you. in the end, only you have the power to do that, and you dont have to be a willing participant of any of that.


one of the best posts in this entire thread
 

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as men one thing that we fail to do is look at things for what they really are. we overthink and we second guess whats right in front of our eyes. instead of counting role with whos in front of us and what theyre doing, we're spending our time looking at excuses and what could the reason be for this misbehavior. we try to get behind the mentality of these females and logically figure out what a woman could be thinking. we end up playing their game, going full cat and mouse. its one game that will only have you following her up and trying to juggle her emotions to keep it all in the air


I see it now, I see posts where we'll be sitting here wondering why shes not texting you back after she said right to your faces that shes down. we'll be thinking, why is it that we had such a good time but now shes hard to reach. why did she suddenly turn a cold shoulder and is hard to find. why do I have to keep everything live and functioning. why is it that like she says one thing and does another. why is it that theres no loyalty from these females if youre having a hard time. why do they feel so entitled to so much, and for so many favors, but then when they get it theyre not appreciative at all. why do they try to get a man to serve them, and then when they do, theyre not happy at all. why do they settle down with a man and effectively try to neuter him and make him a slave to her power. why do some women get a nice, healthy routine going on in their relationships, and it looks like they have it all, but then they have a desire to leave because its become boring to them. why is it that she wants to be friends with one type of man who will be a provider, a lover, and a listener, but diss him for a man who only wants to smash and leave her. why is it that we can see a man do so much for a woman, even help her out in life, yet she still checks out in a foul, deceiving way because she thinks that she sees a better deal. why does the concept of appreciation and reciprocity seem so foreign to females. why does no one want to be under their guidance. why do the feelings of others seem so irrelevant to them. its like 1 + 1 doesnt equal 2. we see a lot of times that we dont understand their thinking, and the truth is, many times niether do they. you see this is EXACTLY why women are not good leaders, and EXACTLY why you can not follow them


theres an old saying which goes, there are two things you do not chase: the bus or a woman, because theyll both just leave you behind


if you got rejected, good. if you feel you got abandoned, or left behind for no disconcernable reason, good. if you feel betrayed, and like you didnt deserve what you got, good. youve got your eyes opened now. the next thing to do is to never have your balls cut off in a relationship, and to never put yourself in a position where you can get ruined again. dont put your all into someone else. dont have yourself under a woman or anybody else. dont base yourself, your activities and your personal values around a woman and what she wants to do. never that. establish a goal for yourself that overrides a womans importance. have things that you enjoy. be about something. dont just be about bytches and make your life be based around them and what they like. they dont even like that, so cut it out. make yourself bigger than the need to chase women. dont tarnish your image in order to thirst and snare a woman. dont be out here setting up traps. be you. be secure and make sure you put your bid in, anything else, you let it go. be ready to walk on any of them. put down some real rules. follow them.



now that youve had your heartbroken, make sure that you remember what the future will hold if youre basing your happiness and life around a woman. youre just as likely to win the lotto twice as you are to find a woman who will "complete" you and never try you in some way. the only thing that will complete yourself, is your personal code and your ability to follow it. think with your brain, not your dikk. youll see that a woman is mostly just arm dressing and something to keep you warm at night. aside from that, if youre having troubles, you can always rent one or just get an extra blanket. p*ssy not what determines happiness anyways, so you should never act like that. theres plenty of men out there with bytches, but have a stressful life and one where theyre more or less trapped by their balls so they can not leave. many men would wish to be free, so dont get locked down into something you really dont like. dont let yourself be the neutered ox, a shell of himself and a fraction of what he could be; be the bull, with his strength respected and his power feared. show them what the fukk you can do when your not tied down by some form of weak thinking. what Im saying is - dont let these women make or break you. in the end, only you have the power to do that, and you dont have to be a willing participant of any of that.


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This is why I think every man should at some point in his life practice celibacy/abstinence and fasting. It helps you build mental, spiritual, emotional and physical discipline whatever your spiritual/religious beliefs may be. It's like that 90 day no fap thread. Dudes who may have been habitual masturbators took the challenge on and have described the numerous benefits and how it's helped them to have more self respect, clarity and mental focus.

I think for a lot of us as we get older we become more anxious about finding the right woman and worrying about sifting through all the bullshyt out there to get to the right one, but anxiety never brings results. It's better to just let things flow and see where life takes you with or without a woman....
 

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What is the difference between an escort and a regular girl if all they offer is the same thing? I am not at a point where i am looking for a relationship as I am focused on other things in life. For those in the same boat as me, view every trick as a transaction. You pay an escort and she gives you what you want. So, If you give something (ie. your attention) to a girl and you do not get what you want, why continue? Don't get mad, don't call her out. Just stop. But the key here is, you had to have made your intentions known from the get otherwise it will be your fault for voluntarily giving something out for free.

***This doesn't apply to those looking for meaningful relationships.
 

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when will god bless me with the chick that i genuinely love and adore? :to: brehs man-whoring gets old after a while and i just turned 23. :snoop:

You gotta pray on that.In meantime work on YOU. Learn to enjoy you.One thing about relationshps is they are SERIOUS WORK. Yea you may get a meal,kiss etc...but bruh you are going to have to do everything for your woman. Be her police officer,listen to her,buy her this and that,fix her car etc you see where im going.You have to make sure your out the way first. Think of it like this...when Lebron plays basketball he make sure he gets his points (reason why you dont see Lebron ever score 5 points in a game). He make sure he looks out for HIM first before he looks out for others (assists,being a leader). Im saying get yours ($,traveling)etc and worry about women later.
 

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bruhs we gotta start putting our women problems in God's hands.I dont know yall religious beliefs and if we disagree so be it.Man there is way too many issues in this world.I see a young man worryng about initiating convo with a woman.If your on that level its time to re-evaluatate your life.You should be more worried about which is the best travel destination,or the best stock for me?Also stop counting..brehs. "Oh man that 3rd woman to reject me in 1 day". Thats like Peyton Manning watching film on all his interceptions this season. Think positive brehs!
 

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eye contact and a smile. if they hold eye contact and flash a smile, that's your cue.

I know it's easier said than done, as i'm just as clueless when it comes to meeting woman, but it's just practice till you comfortable enough.

Me - just eye contact is enough for me go in, but smile is more obvious

it may be something in her eye but to me she winking!
I ain't never been randomly smiled at in my life I got work to do :heh:
 

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Brehs its so hard

On one side the dime chick, with the 2,000 followers, loves attention, her body :noah:

On the other side , the :ehh:, not that attractive but a heart of gold , doesn't even do social media, a little overweight, is into me like crazy.

I know lookwise ive always done better not bragging but I've dated models and not club booty models, hell my ex fiancé looked like Anna kournikova but with bigger boobs.

:lupe:
 

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one of the best posts in this entire thread
as men one thing that we fail to do is look at things for what they really are. we overthink and we second guess whats right in front of our eyes. instead of counting role with whos in front of us and what theyre doing, we're spending our time looking at excuses and what could the reason be for this misbehavior. we try to get behind the mentality of these females and logically figure out what a woman could be thinking. we end up playing their game, going full cat and mouse. its one game that will only have you following her up and trying to juggle her emotions to keep it all in the air


I see it now, I see posts where we'll be sitting here wondering why shes not texting you back after she said right to your faces that shes down. we'll be thinking, why is it that we had such a good time but now shes hard to reach. why did she suddenly turn a cold shoulder and is hard to find. why do I have to keep everything live and functioning. why is it that like she says one thing and does another. why is it that theres no loyalty from these females if youre having a hard time. why do they feel so entitled to so much, and for so many favors, but then when they get it theyre not appreciative at all. why do they try to get a man to serve them, and then when they do, theyre not happy at all. why do they settle down with a man and effectively try to neuter him and make him a slave to her power. why do some women get a nice, healthy routine going on in their relationships, and it looks like they have it all, but then they have a desire to leave because its become boring to them. why is it that she wants to be friends with one type of man who will be a provider, a lover, and a listener, but diss him for a man who only wants to smash and leave her. why is it that we can see a man do so much for a woman, even help her out in life, yet she still checks out in a foul, deceiving way because she thinks that she sees a better deal. why does the concept of appreciation and reciprocity seem so foreign to females. why does no one want to be under their guidance. why do the feelings of others seem so irrelevant to them. its like 1 + 1 doesnt equal 2. we see a lot of times that we dont understand their thinking, and the truth is, many times niether do they. you see this is EXACTLY why women are not good leaders, and EXACTLY why you can not follow them


theres an old saying which goes, there are two things you do not chase: the bus or a woman, because theyll both just leave you behind


if you got rejected, good. if you feel you got abandoned, or left behind for no disconcernable reason, good. if you feel betrayed, and like you didnt deserve what you got, good. youve got your eyes opened now. the next thing to do is to never have your balls cut off in a relationship, and to never put yourself in a position where you can get ruined again. dont put your all into someone else. dont have yourself under a woman or anybody else. dont base yourself, your activities and your personal values around a woman and what she wants to do. never that. establish a goal for yourself that overrides a womans importance. have things that you enjoy. be about something. dont just be about bytches and make your life be based around them and what they like. they dont even like that, so cut it out. make yourself bigger than the need to chase women. dont tarnish your image in order to thirst and snare a woman. dont be out here setting up traps. be you. be secure and make sure you put your bid in, anything else, you let it go. be ready to walk on any of them. put down some real rules. follow them.


now that youve had your heartbroken, make sure that you remember what the future will hold if youre basing your happiness and life around a woman. youre just as likely to win the lotto twice as you are to find a woman who will "complete" you and never try you in some way. the only thing that will complete yourself, is your personal code and your ability to follow it. think with your brain, not your dikk. youll see that a woman is mostly just arm dressing and something to keep you warm at night. aside from that, if youre having troubles, you can always rent one or just get an extra blanket. p*ssy not what determines happiness anyways, so you should never act like that. theres plenty of men out there with bytches, but have a stressful life and one where theyre more or less trapped by their balls so they can not leave. many men would wish to be free, so dont get locked down into something you really dont like. dont let yourself be the neutered ox, a shell of himself and a fraction of what he could be; be the bull, with his strength respected and his power feared. show them what the fukk you can do when your not tied down by some form of weak thinking. what Im saying is - dont let these women make or break you. in the end, only you have the power to do that, and you dont have to be a willing participant of any of that.

I literally sat there reading this like...:ohhh::blessed:
 

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So last week someone on my block passed away from a stroke. It was an older retired dude. My ex would sit and talk with him at times when I was busy at work or in the house. This is when we lived together. Anyway, she was cool with the dude so being that he died I figured I let her know, even though we hadn't communicated in like a year. She tried reaching out to me but I would just not respond. So I send her a text about the death...no respond. In my head i'm thinking, I know we hadn't spoken in a while but she should at least respond about dude's death. So I figured she mighta changed her number. So I asked a friend of her's via fb if she did, come to find out she didn't. The friend asked why I wanted to know, and told me my ex thinks that I hate her since I never would respond to her. Yesterday the ex calls to give her condolences and we chat very briefly and I told her that I don't have any bad feelings or hate towards her. She responded that that me telling her that, made her day. I just told her take care after that. I dunno, but it felt good letting her know that there's no bad blood between us. Figured we'd just leave it at that.
 

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Brehs its so hard

On one side the dime chick, with the 2,000 followers, loves attention, her body :noah:

On the other side , the :ehh:, not that attractive but a heart of gold , doesn't even do social media, a little overweight, is into me like crazy.

I know lookwise ive always done better not bragging but I've dated models and not club booty models, hell my ex fiancé looked like Anna kournikova but with bigger boobs.

:lupe:

Try them both right? See if the first one is really into you. If she's not - bushes.

It's always nice having a girl who is genuinely into you.
 
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