Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[HabitualLineSteppa]

Cats need conditioning. Once you're okay with being alone, everything will make sense.

Everything said in this thread will become easy and second nature to you.

You don't need a woman. You can easily get p*ssy without the headache.

That's all you technically need. Everything else is for the benefit of the woman.

I would recommend that you date, but never commit. Not until a woman has proven herself.

Even if you feel like you are ready to have kids, wait until she has proven herself.

I think the fact that many of us get to an age where we feel we want or need to settle down is the main cause of our demise. We start settling and having plans to make a family with the first woman who we feel is decent.

You want a woman who will put her child before herself. You want a woman who is not vengeful and try to destroy you God forbid the relationship goes bad.

Child support and visitation is no joke. Half of these married dudes won't tell you this, but even when the relationship is on it's last two legs, they stay because they'd be finished after being reduced to a sponsor with visitation.

Breh I think I just caught the holy ghost reading this

On another note, unlike a larger than reasonable amount of my peers, my old bird had mad gems for ya mans on deck cause she wasn't in the business of raising simps, whores, downtrodden weak minded people, or mediocre black men (she said that shyt to my older bro when I was 8 and I just so happened to be playing Super Mario World in the living room that evening....Needless to say I been ever since).

One piece of advice that has gotten me through and kept me from fukking up majorly with women and all aspects of my life:

"Do not PERSONALLY learn all the lessons life has to teach you.."-Mama

Tatted in blood brehs...We HAVE to recognize and gain an understanding of our history and the triumphs and pitfalls of previous generations in order to gain a foothold on our present and future...Simply knowing that this "man -woman thang" is stacked against the man is not enough. Implementation of the knowledge and gems in this thread and any RELATIVE information you can absorb will only solidify this fact and in turn make us all better men, leaders, and for some, fathers and husbands...

Keep on with the blessings fellas...I've been taking heed and noticing the warning signs based off many of posts in this thread...


to all involved...

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

 

[winb83]

Cats need conditioning. Once you're okay with being alone, everything will make sense.

Everything said in this thread will become easy and second nature to you.

You don't need a woman. You can easily get p*ssy without the headache.

That's all you technically need. Everything else is for the benefit of the woman.

I would recommend that you date, but never commit. Not until a woman has proven herself.

Even if you feel like you are ready to have kids, wait until she has proven herself.

I think the fact that many of us get to an age where we feel we want or need to settle down is the main cause of our demise. We start settling and having plans to make a family with the first woman who we feel is decent.

You want a woman who will put her child before herself. You want a woman who is not vengeful and try to destroy you God forbid the relationship goes bad.

Child support and visitation is no joke. Half of these married dudes won't tell you this, but even when the relationship is on it's last two legs, they stay because they'd be finished after being reduced to a sponsor with visitation.

Given the types of women I've dealt with in life I'm burnt out. I've reached a point where if I never date another woman again it doesn't make a difference to me. Social conditioning had me chasing p*ssy to try and find myself feeling like if I wasn't in some type of relationship something was wrong with me.

these days I see it like this; if the best I can find is the kinda women I've found in the past I'm straight.

I'd rather grow old alone and not settle for something I don't want than be trapped in a bad relationship.

 

[twan83]

If you feeling a female you go for it but don't go spilling your guts the first time you meet her THIS IS NOT A MOVIE.

Chill for a bit you will know when its the right time if not holla at me and i will tell you my honest opinion.

Dont go on LOOKS AS THE PRIMARY FACTORY your being Shallow as hell and you be very surprised that a normal looking female can be even sexier just cuz of her PERSONALITY ALONE

Be honest and upfront with your intentions with her from day 1 so your not wasting her time or yours

DONT RUSH GETTING INTO A DAMN RELATIONSHIP LET IT HAPPEN OR LET IT COME TOO YOU (your showing that your settling then and YOU WILL REGRET IT LATER)

When your not ready to have a gf but want to still explore other options tell her upfront hey we can kick and go on dates but we aint EXCLUSIVE you do you and i do me and if things are too my liking then WE CAN BE EXCLUSIVE :shake:

Stop trying to give the female the best sex the first time you get with her give her a solid B game and that will be enough to satisify her cuz if you give her your BEST she gonna expect that shyt ALL THE DAMN TIME

If she aint ready to have sex and wants to wait RESPECT THAT you be surprised how much of a turn on that is to a woman. Dont tease her dont try to start it let her start all that stuff and when she says i gotta stop YOU STOP and majority times its on like donkey kong cuz you RESPECTED HER if not so what RESPECT HER DECISION

BUT if she teasing you all the damn time i wouldn't even waste my DAMN TIME ON HER and ON TO THE NEXT ONE cuz she playing games YOU DESERVE BETTER

Never fukk with someone in a relationship or married. What you think gonna happen if you get with them they do the same shyt too you or GUY GONNA BEAT YOUR ASS OR KILL YOU LITERALLY.


I'll drop more gems later got PLENTY

 

[MikelArteta]

Given the types of women I've dealt with in life I'm burnt out. I've reached a point where if I never date another woman again it doesn't make a difference to me. Social conditioning had me chasing p*ssy to try and find myself feeling like if I wasn't in some type of relationship something was wrong with me.

these days I see it like this; if the best I can find is the kinda women I've found in the past I'm straight.

I'd rather grow old alone and not settle for something I don't want than be trapped in a bad relationship.

Amen

 

[G-Zeus]

If a woman doesn't have a good relationship with her dad, she will likely be highly combative.

If you think she did something wrong and her story doesn't add up, keep questioning her. Never accept an answer that doesn't add up just because it feels good.

Women that you only want to chill with don't need to meet your people.

Always give her your number first. If she goes out of her way to call(not text), then she is ready to take the game further.

i am sorry to tell you... its the same even if it's their mom.. or a sibling...
anyone that kept them from being the happiest they think someone can/should be (makes sens?)

basically.. some women wants to.. emancipate... even if it doesn't makes sens..

*makes more money then her colleagues*
*reads in paper in the same field women still make 18% less then men*
*bitterness sets in*
*looks for men they can break easy*

 

[Sharp]

I'm gonna start sharing some personal experiences with cats.

As we speak, there's this female that I used to date before I met my ex-wife. We dated for a couple of months, and it didn't work out so I broke up with her. We remained associates. What I mean by that is that we kept in touch, but we didn't really hang or talk on a consistent basis. So now that she knows that I got divorced, she starts telling me

"You were a gentleman and I regret messing things up with you. I didn't realize what I had and sometimes I wonder if it's too late.. blah blah blah"

I live in NJ, and she lives somewhere in Maryland. So now she calls me and texts me all the time. Sends me racy photos. The broad even told me to come to Maryland and live with her and she'll take care of me.

In reality, the only she could do for me is f*ck me, and even that is questionable. The point that I'm trying to make is that woman make it look like they're doing you a favor and providing you some type of luxury, when all they're really doing is setting you up for the trap. If I even thought about moving down there I would become her b*tch and be at her mercy. No matter how good it sounds, you don't want no woman to take care of you in ways that you can't take care of yourself.

Never understood why dudes allowed a woman to put a roof over their head. She got you by the balls.

Never understood why dudes allowed a woman to pay his cell phone bill or car note or car insurance. She got you by the balls. These are all tactics used to get control in a relationship.

If something looks too good to be true, then it probably is. Now granted, shorty is a CPA and makes good money, but is it worth the price of my freedom? It shouldn't even be an option.

B*tches with money will try to buy you and trophy your a**. These cats running around yelling the gigolo life are liars. They are simps being used for their dikk and put on an allowance. Be your own man and never depend on a woman for any necessity in life.

 

[twan83]

Gonna start posting stories bout my single life the GOOD, THE BAD, & THE UGLY. Even Stuff I did that was fukkED UP WILL BE POSTED. I just want to keep it REal with you fellas NO GAMES OR GIMMICKS

You will see and learn from my mistakes and see also the good things that can happen too you. I think it will benefit a lot of you guys in the long run and ill even post some current stuff in my marriage.

I want to be able to help out people as much as possible i feel i have the tools and resources to do that to share my knowledge



Fellas there are times no matter how on point you are on or what most say your game is you will not always get the female you want

There was this bad as female i mean she was on point the sexiest of them all in the club i was at that night in Roppongi (its near Tokyo) anyways she was feeling me but on that bs playing games so i got to the point like ya know fukk her their are plenty of other females out tonite i can get at. So i walked away and she was telling me before i left maybe next time she will give me her number

so i went outside and saw this cute as female with curly hair just chillin at the steps and my roommate was tryin to get at her but failed so instead i came in just a civil convo and got the digits. Me and her would end of dating for a couple weeks. Curly hair, hazel eyes, bout b cup, a lil booty in the back not bad a solid 8. As time went buy she had a attitude problem that would give me hell she was very protective and insecure shyt would drive me nuts but i just dealt with it as time went by. One night i go out to the club with her and that same bad female is out and come to find out they were best friends That female was like so your the one she would always talk about no way and then at that time me and curly hair girl didnt stay together the rest of night at the club cuz she had to bounce family emergency and she wanted me to stay and keep her friend company even though i offered her i would go.
Her friend straight up wanted that dikk now and i mean NO was not a option for her. She was sweating me so bad. We talked and danced and what not but i wasn't having it for one reason even though me and curly hair werent EXCLUSIVE and her friend free game. The thing was i didn't want her friend just cuz she wanted me cuz i was messing with her friend. had me looking at her like DONT CARE HOW FINE YOU ARE but u playing games got me thinking you are straight .
So no fellas i never smashed her sexy ass friend while messing with curly hair because of that ALONE, the games she was playing and that can show you at times how grimey females can be and it wont matter just because they are friends no matter how close they are.

To conclude this story her friend said i was hitting on her all night curly hair didnt believe me on saying it was vice versa so I CUT HER LOOSE

P.S. I smashed the friend a month later and she wanted something serious and said na i just wanted to fukk she knew that up front she got feelings not my problem

 

[Ohene]

hmmm Ferraro is of Italian descent according to wikipedia. Figures...I always gravitate toward them

 

[Shameonyou]

Don't live your life for women boys. You might lose it.

 

[twan83]

Sometimes when you have a good woman and you know it but she don't fit your mold of what you want and you know YOU GOTTA LET HER GO

You deserve better and so does she

I know its hard but be the mature one and let her go

 

[winb83]

Sometimes when you have a good woman and you know it but she don't fit your mold of what you want and you know YOU GOTTA LET HER GO

You deserve better and so does she

I know its hard but be the mature one and let her go

The term good woman and even good man bothers me. What is a good woman? one who's principals and interest align with yours one who's character you approve of? to me there's women you're compatible with and women you aren't. Yall not being compatible doesn't make her good or bad.

 

[twan83]

The term good woman and even good man bothers me. What is a good woman? one who's principals and interest align with yours one who's character you approve of? to me there's women you're compatible with and women you aren't. Yall not being compatible doesn't make her good or bad.

I think a good woman or man is somebody who is respectful, honest, knows what they want to do with their life.

They have a good character and there are many other things i could say what makes some one a good man or good woman.

Everybody has their own opinion of that. It has nothing to do with if they fit your criteria its just overall theme.

 

[Swing]

Someone answer this for me, I've run into alot of females that in the beginning keep asking me what I'm afraid of... fukk is up with that?

 

[twan83]

Someone answer this for me, I've run into alot of females that in the beginning keep asking me what I'm afraid of... fukk is up with that?

We'll it could mean this imo that you are shy and they wanting you to make the first move or you seem scared to them to make any moves period.

Im not saying your shy its just what they are thinking

ive had that happen to me a few times and it only happens with me if i can't get a good read of the female so i just fall back and let her make all the moves cuz i can't tell whats her deal with me so i wont just reach in give a kiss or start the sex scene first if i dont get a decent feel where she coming from to play it safe and be respectful but once she tells me are you shy dont be afraid

i get that look you just dont know im far from it and i go all in for the kill and she leaving like this that night