Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Virtuous_Brotha]

and yes i did simp a lil had bought her some vesarce perfume because i thought what we had going was legit.man i cant even confront her as i know damn well it will be flipped around and i will look like the bad one.

 

[92Inc]

you still want her? i mean what's the point engaging her if she with someone else.
and the fact that the bf knows only limits the chance that you're going to get anything real from her.

the likely scenario is dude approaches you and you jeopardize your health and/or freedom over a chick who you not with and who isn't even loyal to her current man. leave your ego out of it breh, talking to your ex while she has a bf sounds kinda playa on the surface but it doesn't benefit you at all.

 

[$$$HotBoyRonald$$$]

ite brehs heres the low down total confusion this valentines season.
to cut a long strory i been supposedly seeing this chick for the past couple months shes doing the usual bs saying how she loves me and wants to spend her life with me after knowing me since december().
we met up yesterday and went to the movies as she had work today to my suprise the bytch hands me a lil bag full of gifts (cologne,v day card.and heart shaped box of chocolate).
so i go on her facebook (she doesnt know that i know it) and i see a status from a couple days ago which says "single on valentines and i dont give a damn"
and another today saying her mom is her valentines you know the usual corny bs

wat the fuk does this mean brehs???im actually catching feeling for this broad but shes acting single on facebook shes religious and works goes to college my type looks wise

and to top it off she texts me while im on my way home yesterday saying shes mad that i didnt kiss her and say happy v day but bytch you talking bout your single on facebook

breh throw it in her face that you saw that shyt on facebook when you went to add her. She probably gonna put it on all you tho saying "YOU WONT COMMIT"

 

[BreezyH]

ite brehs heres the low down total confusion this valentines season.
to cut a long strory i been supposedly seeing this chick for the past couple months shes doing the usual bs saying how she loves me and wants to spend her life with me after knowing me since december().
we met up yesterday and went to the movies as she had work today to my suprise the bytch hands me a lil bag full of gifts (cologne,v day card.and heart shaped box of chocolate).
so i go on her facebook (she doesnt know that i know it) and i see a status from a couple days ago which says "single on valentines and i dont give a damn"
and another today saying her mom is her valentines you know the usual corny bs

wat the fuk does this mean brehs???im actually catching feeling for this broad but shes acting single on facebook shes religious and works goes to college my type looks wise

and to top it off she texts me while im on my way home yesterday saying shes mad that i didnt kiss her and say happy v day but bytch you talking bout your single on facebook

at minimum it's attn whoring - a cry for a bunch of thirsty dudes to see her update and offer her something.

women like to get very literal with tittles so watch that. if you two aren't officially together she'll have a reasoning for being a fb whore. if yall are together, she have a reasoning for talking to the next man - "well i don't see a ring on my finger!"

these chicks is johnny cochran with the wording when it's convenient brehs.

i wouldn't even confront her, she'll just get defiant and pressure you into making some kind of rash decision about yall future right then and there. just start building up the roster so you can be prepared to send her on an all-expenses paid trip to the bushes

 

[DaRealness]

Yo seriously so much knowledge in this thread. Thank you dudes so much for posting some of this shyt. My pops was a simp ass nikka, after he and my mom were divorced he married some young chick, showered her with presents, provided her with everything, and then eventually got her knocked up. The chick left him for whatever reasons after they had the kid, took the BMW, the big screen TVs, etc., and was probably fukking some other dude while they were still legally married. This dude met some chick in Chicago and started doing the same shyt, I heard him talking to her about buying her a thousand dollar bag and some shoes and some other shyt. I don't talk him for other reasons right now, but last I heard he was getting back together with the chick who took half of everything from him and made his life a living hell.

Of course my dad never taught me any lessons about women. All through my teenage years (ages 15-20) I was a simp ass nikka just like him...and would rarely get any girls. I always wondered why? I'm a good looking dude, why can't I get these women to stay interested in me? My mentality was fukked up, I would metaphorically castrate myself to please women, because that's what I was sold as what works. I had to go through getting thrown through the mud and getting treated like trash during this time period in my life and learn the truth about how the game really works the hard way, and realize the things I learned as a teenager had been a lie.

This all came to a pinnacle with this girl I met my freshman year of college when I was 19. She was a beautiful mixed chick, well-spoken, not the brightest but she knew how to act in public and present herself in a professional/respectable manner. I was so nice to her, she would even comment on it, I'd bend over backwards to make her happy, and I thought as a result of being nice she'd want me and like me as a potential bf. We basically start talking and things heat up after a few weeks and I hook up with her. After hooking up with her, the girl of my dreams who I borderline thought I loved, she left the next morning and was like "please, don't like me in the future." I was crushed. She told me I was nice, that I was handsome and cute, that I was good dude, that she wished more guys were like me, what did I do wrong? If I'm doing all of this, why don't you want to be with me for real instead of just using me to comfort your loneliness?

I'm 22 and happy she did this to me though, now in retrospect, because it made me so much stronger of a man. A millions times stronger of a man than my father is. I don't worship women, I don't pander to them, I get a decent amount of attention from chicks (pops did give me those handsome genetics, can't hate him for that haha) and ask myself "what value are you bringing into my life? Why should I make you a priority?" Having a vagina and offering me sex isn't enough to make me want to involve you in my life and have influence on my decisions. I find women are more attracted to me now, they want me to be their mate and they'll put themselves out there and initiate things now that I'm not simping and am focusing on building a better future for myself as a man. Reading through these posts just validates that experience I went through, I just wish I had a male figure break all of this down for me when I was 14. Thanks for being a positive and solid resource for how the game is actually played, this could save another dude from going through a tough, confusing period like I did.

Then other male posters in this forum who don't post here wanna throw shade at us and call us bitter lol (even though I know damn well they're reading this thread and taking notes while putting on a different face to get daps from the coli chicks) .

It's a shame about your dad because it sounds like he's not even learning the hard way, but he's already chosen his path. At least when you got burnt it happened earlier in life and not into your 30s or 40s.

I never really had a father who was around much or any male role model that would kick this kind of knowledge. I grew up around females, so like the dude who wrote that article I posted all I got was a bunch of pander-to-females-and be-a-gentleman bullshyt that put me in bad stead as well as witnessing firsthand female bullshyt. I'm 34 and it's only ever since my marriage broke up a few years ago when I REALLY woke up. I've learned so much about myself since and from threads like this and speaking to so many other dudes online and offline that there's no chance of going back now and tripping over the same rock again. I've also seen the vast difference in behaviour of women who see that you're not like the rest and that you carry yourself as someone who has value and don't chase after them like Wiley Coyote unlike the other thirsty simps they have on a leash.

There's a thread on this forum asking why females go crazy when you refuse sex and one of them basically admitted that because they expect men to want sex all the time they get confused when a man turns them down. As a man, you have to stand out and put YOUR interests and needs first. However, you also have to be prepared for the barrage of insults and shaming tactics that may come your way from some women and weak ass men who won't like you stance. You have to take that on the chin and ignore people like that. Real men and women will respect you for it and it will make you stand out and attract the right people in your life.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

breh throw it in her face that you saw that shyt on facebook when you went to add her. She probably gonna put it on all you tho saying "YOU WONT COMMIT"

i told her i dont do fb so id fukk around and look like a real stalker if i told her i found it thats outta the question breh but i will be keeping close tabs on it and acting accordingly

 

[$$$HotBoyRonald$$$]

i told her i dont do fb so id fukk around and look like a real stalker if i told her i found it thats outta the question breh but i will be keeping close tabs on it and acting accordingly

get a coli breh you trust to start flirting with her facebook to get more evidence against your case

 

[kevm3]

i told her i dont do fb so id fukk around and look like a real stalker if i told her i found it thats outta the question breh but i will be keeping close tabs on it and acting accordingly

you see how different a woman acts when she's by herself and doesn't think anyone is looking? I might be wrong, but I think she has multiple guys she's talking to so she doesn't want to bust herself out by calling any one of them her valentine.

 

[The ADD]

ite brehs heres the low down total confusion this valentines season.
to cut a long strory i been supposedly seeing this chick for the past couple months shes doing the usual bs saying how she loves me and wants to spend her life with me after knowing me since december().
we met up yesterday and went to the movies as she had work today to my suprise the bytch hands me a lil bag full of gifts (cologne,v day card.and heart shaped box of chocolate).
so i go on her facebook (she doesnt know that i know it) and i see a status from a couple days ago which says "single on valentines and i dont give a damn"
and another today saying her mom is her valentines you know the usual corny bs

wat the fuk does this mean brehs???im actually catching feeling for this broad but shes acting single on facebook shes religious and works goes to college my type looks wise

and to top it off she texts me while im on my way home yesterday saying shes mad that i didnt kiss her and say happy v day but bytch you talking bout your single on facebook

Her telling her business on FB aside.
Sounds like she is single since you didn't say you were together
You didn't get her anything (not that you should have)

 

[Mike Ock]

i told her i dont do fb so id fukk around and look like a real stalker if i told her i found it thats outta the question breh but i will be keeping close tabs on it and acting accordingly

Have you actually came out and told her you wanna be more than just friends? If so, did she give you a straight reply?

 

[Mike Ock]

you see how different a woman acts when she's by herself and doesn't think anyone is looking? I might be wrong, but I think she has multiple guys she's talking to so she doesn't want to bust herself out by calling any one of them her valentine.

Yeah, it seem like she keeping her options open. Chiks usually like to broadcast when they get into a relationship. But if dude didn't make it clear to her where he was trying to take things, then she might have a reason to think she is single. It's better for him to come out and say it asap then try to play it too cool and another dude starts getting her interest.

The same type of thing happened to me in HS. The chik ended up getting with another dude. I told her after how I felt and what I wanted with her. She hit me with the: I should have told her back then because she liked me also and was waiting for me to make that move. She was basically happy with the next dude at that point and mushed me back into the bushes. lol ...A lesson was learned.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

at minimum it's attn whoring - a cry for a bunch of thirsty dudes to see her update and offer her something.

women like to get very literal with tittles so watch that. if you two aren't officially together she'll have a reasoning for being a fb whore. if yall are together, she have a reasoning for talking to the next man - "well i don't see a ring on my finger!"

these chicks is johnny cochran with the wording when it's convenient brehs.

i wouldn't even confront her, she'll just get defiant and pressure you into making some kind of rash decision about yall future right then and there. just start building up the roster so you can be prepared to send her on an all-expenses paid trip to the bushes

yep u right same chick who was giving me the "i hate fake people" talk when we first started talking
these chicks have no logic what so ever

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

you see how different a woman acts when she's by herself and doesn't think anyone is looking? I might be wrong, but I think she has multiple guys she's talking to so she doesn't want to bust herself out by calling any one of them her valentine.

this here is a prime example of whatg you were saying about them acting different behind closed doors.but the total confusion is we are meant to be official she even went outta here way to buy me valentines gifts and over the past couple weeks has been sending me voicemails telling me she loves me and all that.

 

[kevm3]

reason i'd keep tabs is because i had a similar situation happen to me... woman telling me she loved me all the time... sounded real sincere. I discovered one of her social media joints and around that time she was telling me all that, someone asked her has she ever been in love and she said something like 'what is love?' A lot of females will tell you that lovey dovey stuff in private, but they are dealing with multiple guys, so they will keep their options open on social media, especially if they don't know you know about it.

I can't say for sure that's what she's doing, but it's worth keeping an eye on.

 

[The ADD]

this here is a prime example of whatg you were saying about them acting different behind closed doors.but the total confusion is we are meant to be official she even went outta here way to buy me valentines gifts and over the past couple weeks has been sending me voicemails telling me she loves me and all that.

What does that mean fam?