Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

Looks like everyone is getting on the same page of not chasing women around or dealing with those who aren't really paying you much attention.

 

[Mr.Plan B]

ring finger is on the left hand, next to the pinky, yeah definitely check for that, i've learned the hard way on two occassions

those girls in the kitchen sound kind of young, nevertheless they are plotting though, you can probably eat well with at least a couple from the group if you're into dealing with chicks at the job.

it was the right hand .....

I was helping them plate up the food and one of the other cooks was like

Spanish fat lady cook:lildikk aww you got dimples .....that cute

Me:

Girl with the rings on her hand:Looks at the fat chick and rolls her eyes say something slick out the side of her mouth.

Spanish fat lady cook:Well you the one who told me he had dimples. Remember when you saw him smiling....

Guess the cards been laid on the table to bag or not to bag............

 

[EA]

I was at a gathering last night and the girls started opening up about things once we started playing drinking games and I was actually shocked at how many of them said that sexual enjoyment lands squarely on the guy's shoulders and that they would only make the effort if he was good to begin with. I was sitting there like " and y'all wonder why dudes just hit it and don't wife you chicks". The level of arrogance was astounding.

On the plus side, I managed to start building with this cute East African chick and obviously it seemed to work because another girl noticed our chemistry and asked me about it today. I'm gonna play this one really neat and tidy.

 

[Shameonyou]

every dime has a dude shes chasing...no matter how aloof she is, there is one guy that she is doing the chasing towards....this is why its better to let them choose...all those bullshyt sayings of "you gotta express interest" bla bla dumshyt is putting dudes in positions they dont need to be in....maybe its just me, but i cant see that there is a guy that dont gotta do shyt and have some halle berry looking chick all over his nuts, and at the same time have myself chasing that same chick.....every man deserves to have their personal biggest fan...dont bandwagon on someone elses when you can have your own fanbase.

 

[MikelArteta]

every dime has a dude shes chasing...no matter how aloof she is, there is one guy that she is doing the chasing towards....this is why its better to let them choose...all those bullshyt sayings of "you gotta express interest" bla bla dumshyt is putting dudes in positions they dont need to be in....maybe its just me, but i cant see that there is a guy that dont gotta do shyt and have some halle berry looking chick all over his nuts, and at the same time have myself chasing that same chick.....every man deserves to have their personal biggest fan...dont bandwagon on someone elses when you can have your own fanbase.

this is the truth, i can think back to all the relationships i had in my life and how the girls were so into me, there literally wasn't anything i couldn't do.

that same dime you chasing after who takes long to reply to your texts, won't text first, is always busy, wants to take it slow etc. is checking her phone every second for treyvathian text, saying good morning and good night, cooking him food, always avialable to go out and sucking his dikk on the first night and giving it up whenever he wants it.

its why some dudes dont understand when they see a dime chick and she keeps staying with that nygga who cheats on her, hits her treats her like crap, while he's there listening to her problems, buying her flowers doing all the good things NAH.

 

[kevm3]

Pretty much, which is why I advocate focusing on yourself and getting your life together... Obviously you will have to talk and interact with females, but when you get to a certain level, your interactions with women are so much easier. All of that begging for attention is nonexistent because she likes you so much, she WANTS to be in your vicinity.

The normal guy is out here chasing, doing backflips and begging for attention and she might give him a minor dose for all of his efforts, but on the other hand, there is some other guy who barely pays her any mind and she is just crazy about him and will go out with him without him asking twice. You win by being that guy who focuses on the women who look at you as the star.

 

[MikelArteta]

Looks like everyone is getting on the same page of not chasing women around or dealing with those who aren't really paying you much attention.

its like going to a plaza and there are four car dealerships side by side, you have money and you plan on buying a car today brand doesn't matter, you go into one. The dealership is dead there are sales associates walking around but no one is paying you any mind, you go to the counter and the person is on their phone talking to a friend, finally someone talks to you but the say uh can you wait half hour, you look around and a homeless bum comes in from the cold and right away hes getting looked after. Every customer would feel insulted and leave the dealership and go to the next one next dealership pulls the same stunt and you go into next one this time every sales associate is rushing to you, asking how your day is offering you coffee and donuts, taking you for a test drivem why? because they view you as valuable.

And that's the way it should be like with women, screw the women who tell you to wait for me, screw the women who are putting other worthless men in front of you, screw spending a dime, your time, anything to do with those type of women. Because it could just be next door, up the street, at the grocery store, online etc. that you will find a woman who will be like that car dealership as soon as she meets you she is into you, knowing your value and treating you as such.

I'm not even saying I'm better than anyone, i've been that breh at the first car dealership saying excuse me, waiting around, taking disrespect instead of just exiting, I'm happy I know much better now.

 

[Jesus]

Dumb broad is trying to the put the genie back in the bottle, get her the fukk out of here!

Paid for dinner last time and she said she would the next time. Will go for my free meal then the bushes tonight...bytch chose an expensive steakhouse. Hope she remembered her promise.

No fukking before relationships...then nikkas need to be on no free meals unless wifey.

 

[The 10th Letter]

its like going to a plaza and there are four car dealerships side by side, you have money and you plan on buying a car today brand doesn't matter, you go into one. The dealership is dead there are sales associates walking around but no one is paying you any mind, you go to the counter and the person is on their phone talking to a friend, finally someone talks to you but the say uh can you wait half hour, you look around and a homeless bum comes in from the cold and right away hes getting looked after. Every customer would feel insulted and leave the dealership and go to the next one next dealership pulls the same stunt and you go into next one this time every sales associate is rushing to you, asking how your day is offering you coffee and donuts, taking you for a test drivem why? because they view you as valuable.

And that's the way it should be like with women, screw the women who tell you to wait for me, screw the women who are putting other worthless men in front of you, screw spending a dime, your time, anything to do with those type of women. Because it could just be next door, up the street, at the grocery store, online etc. that you will find a woman who will be like that car dealership as soon as she meets you she is into you, knowing your value and treating you as such.

I'm not even saying I'm better than anyone, i've been that breh at the first car dealership saying excuse me, waiting around, taking disrespect instead of just exiting, I'm happy I know much better now.

I was in a similar situation earlier this year/last year.

When I finally smartened up, I saw that this chick was gonna keep running back to the same fool who treated her like shyt. I told myself from that point forward that wasnt gonna deal with that shyt because I deserved better. Stopped hitting that broad up immediately and im glad I did.

Now her and women like her get thrown in the bushes. I refuse to give these idiot broads and iota of my time.

Since then, I got my money right, im in the gym and im lookin like an action figure, they all on me. Now im very selective, if see they aint willing to appreciate shyt,

Im a naturally selfless person but putting "me" before "we" was the best thing I've done in a long time. Especially in regards to these women.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I was talking to a young lady and I asked her why do sistas have attitude.She says it's because the white man treat them bad.I replied yet most of y'all will support "Scandal" she immediately try to backtrack

 

[MikelArteta]

I was in a similar situation earlier this year/last year.

When I finally smartened up, I saw that this chick was gonna keep running back to the same fool who treated her like shyt. I told myself from that point forward that wasnt gonna deal with that shyt because I deserved better. Stopped hitting that broad up immediately and im glad I did.

Now her and women like her get thrown in the bushes. I refuse to give these idiot broads and iota of my time.

Since then, I got my money right, im in the gym and im lookin like an action figure, they all on me. Now im very selective, if see they aint willing to appreciate shyt,

Im a naturally selfless person but putting "me" before "we" was the best thing I've done in a long time. Especially in regards to these women.

been there myself with my ex years about 4 years ago, treated her great, loved by her parents and her broken family as i was the only dude that never used her. She was crazy dysfunctional i dont even know why i stayed, anyways she dumped me and went back to her cheating ex who cheated on her again, i was such a simp , that even when she needed a place to stay she lived with
me and my parents at the time rent free.

sad thing it was only 2 years ago i finally cut her out of my life as i wasn't even dating her but the drainage and having to deal with that ish, while she kept going back to that cheating dude.

 

[Mr210]

keep dropping the knowledge, the things ive read in here is helping me with my current gf and our relationship is doing great

 

[The 10th Letter]

been there myself with my ex years about 4 years ago, treated her great, loved by her parents and her broken family as i was the only dude that never used her. She was crazy dysfunctional i dont even know why i stayed, anyways she dumped me and went back to her cheating ex who cheated on her again, i was such a simp , that even when she needed a place to stay she lived with
me and my parents at the time rent free.

sad thing it was only 2 years ago i finally cut her out of my life as i wasn't even dating her but the drainage and having to deal with that ish, while she kept going back to that cheating dude.

My ex was like that. She was supreme dark lettuce. She made me pay for EVERY sin of her ex boyfriends, and I never gave her a reason to. She couldnt trust me when I was probably the only guy outside of her dad who genuinely had her back. Occasionally she tries to get back with me but I will forever decline. I want her to realize how fukked up it is to take good people for granted. Plus im in a better place now. I dont need that dark lettuce potentially ruining that.

 

[Reality]

keep dropping the knowledge, the things ive read in here is helping me with my current gf and our relationship is doing great

sadly, this probably means she's somewhere talkin to her gfs like:

he don't be returnin my texts...it's like i'm not important to him
girl i dont know what's goin on upstairs with him, he's hard to read
i mean i don't even know if he's into me like that

i don't think he would cheat...but sometimes i dont know

im afraid he might leave

 

[Jesus]

Women and the "I was/am on my period" excuse...