Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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You are overthinking breh. If your co-worker is used to dudes talking to her at work...it's going to peak her curiosity with you not following suit of the other nikkas.

If you are getting on women's nerves on the phone..remember most like to talk. They aren't usually good listeners. :pachaha:

So is being quiet usually key though
 

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Depends on your style...I usually don't tell more that what's necessary unless I'm comfortable with whom I'm talking to.

Well Im comfortable with my woman but it seems like the more i talk/speak my mind on her actions the more we argue.
She's been mad at me for weeks now because of me telling her my thoughts
 

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There's two types of dudes when it comes to relationships. You got the dudes that are looking for excuses to keep a chick. And then you got the dudes that are looking for an excuse to get rid of a chick. the former is a simp. the latter increases his odds of prospering because he automatically has a higher standard and compromises a lot less on what he wants and his happiness.

this one might sound a little extreme but whatever.
 
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Brehs do you think its possible that if you and woman are in public *mall/store* and she randomly grabs your hand/arm that she saw a woman looking at you and wants to show you are hers? :patrice:
Yes. It's also possible that you've just got a cute, sweet ass girl. More context needed.
 

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There's two types of dudes when it comes to relationships. You got the dudes that are looking for excuses to keep a chick. And then you got the dudes that are looking for an excuse to get rid of a chick. the former is a simp. the later increases his odds of propserring because he automatically has a higher standard and compromises a lot less on what he wants and his happiness.

this one might sound a little extreme but whatever.
a little extreme, but i thought about this myself. ive been in relationships where im with a good girl, all the qualities for a wife/mother, but i know she's not the one i could be for the rest of my life. ive wasted a decent amount of time (like 2 years) in a relationship like that, where the same problems identified in the first 6 months were the same problems at the 2 year mark. realized dragging things on like that wastes 2 peoples' time
 

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Idk what other context to give.
Wasn't nttn special happening.
We was just walking and I was quiet then it happened.
could happen if she's a little jealous. could happen if she's always wanted it, but its early in the relationship. could be a bit of both.
 

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Breh im starting to think that if a female catches you doing something wrong she'll always stay with you if you act like you ain't faded.

Her: fukk you sending pictures of yo dikk to bytches fuh? :damn:

You: :yeshrug:

Her; :upsetfavre: :wow:

You: :manny:

Her: :sadcam: *I love him though*
 

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Breh im starting to think that if a female catches you doing something wrong she'll always stay with you if you act like you ain't faded.

Her: fukk you sending pictures of yo dikk to bytches fuh? :damn:

You: :yeshrug:

Her; :upsetfavre: :wow:

You: :manny:

Her: :sadcam: *I love him though*
yeah, this is true to some degree. if you try to argue w/ a woman, she'll take that as an indication that you reall fukked up. you ever catch a female in a lie and the indignation and then tears come out? well, you caught her lying. when she shes you doing this, it's familiar to her. it's the same shyt she does when she KNOWS she's wrong. ive talked to female friends about it. it's the way it is. So reacting like that underscores how wrong you were in the situation. on the other hand, playin it cool fries her circuit a bit because she starts wondering if SHE is the one w/ the issue.

ive heard it from ex's...

her: "you don't react or anything and it makes me feel* like the crazy person".

me: "i can't control the way you feel, i just have nothing to say about it beyond what i've already said."

her: :damn:

*women are addicted to feelings, good or bad.
 

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yeah, this is true to some degree. if you try to argue w/ a woman, she'll take that as an indication that you reall fukked up. you ever catch a female in a lie and the indignation and then tears come out? well, you caught her lying. when she shes you doing this, it's familiar to her. it's the same shyt she does when she KNOWS she's wrong. ive talked to female friends about it. it's the way it is. So reacting like that underscores how wrong you were in the situation. on the other hand, playin it cool fries her circuit a bit because she starts wondering if SHE is the one w/ the issue.

ive heard it from ex's...

her: "you don't react or anything and it makes me feel* like the crazy person".

me: "i can't control the way you feel, i just have nothing to say about it beyond what i've already said."

her: :damn:

*women are addicted to feelings, good or bad.

So pretty much never try to convince her otherwise?
 

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So pretty much never try to convince her otherwise?

trying to convince a woman you're in a relationship of something by providing a well reasoned argument is just going to piss her off. it's like talking to the wind. never argue about an event, an incident, etc. if she's a good woman, just bring it back home and talk about the fundamentals of the relationship...

"baby do you think i would do anything to hurt you?"

"i trust you and I assume you trust me..."

yeah it's a little "game", but in a good relationship, these things should also be true. you're just short circuiting the usual male/female disconnect that happens when you try to argue your case.
 
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