do you have a steady income? if so, the first thing you should do is make a budget. this budget becomes part of your code for the time being. you do not break the budget unless it's a matter of life or death. this will help you not be broke and get you in a position where you feel less stressed. Being less stressed will make your sight and your mind clearer and sharper so that you can spot the opportunities more easily. opportunities to make more money, to get p*ssy, to prosper, to find love, to find happiness, to accomplish, etc. but it all starts with a budget.