Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Sometimes women act like they don't want you to show that you don't take respect.

Another day when we were at dave and busters she complained and said somebody bumped into her. I stopped what I was playing and looked around to see if I could tell who it was. I told her that I would catch them at some point. Not too long after I saw my woman glance at somebody and I said YOU WAS TALKING ABOUT HER? It was some ol Hispanic broad witha child. I started walking towards thd woman strong and my woman grabbed my wrist and told me to leave it alone.

You would assume she would want me to go off so she could see I wasn't a bytch.
:wow:
I wish I could rewind time cuz I woulda got on that hoe something serious. :ufdup:


and yeah sometimes they act like, or say, theyre "not like that"


yet we know what the truth is :lolbron:


at some point it turned into being a thing where women acted like what they really want is a soft, gentle, caring, nurturing and sensitive man. someone like a woman.

and for whatever reason, a lot of men started thinking that was how they should be. but what really happens is men like that get regulated into "friend" status or are treated like hes one of the girls. pretty much a straight gay friend of the girls.

the only thing a woman really wants is a man, so be that. listen to your instincts. if she cant roll with that then shes most likely playing you or is the type that wants to be in charge. theres no reason to entertain that or be a part of that. you say what you have to, do whats needed, and let your nuts hang on these women.
 
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So this past weekend I was hanging out with my female friends. One of them is single and the other one has a boyfriend....

I noticed a couple of things...

My single friend can sometimes be bitter about or towards people, but she will look out for you if she knows you are a real friend to her.

The one with a man talks a lot of shyt, creates dramatic scenes out of nowhere and begs for attention... but she will be there for you when you need her comfort.

Both of them try to get away with a lot of petty shyt, and I noticed that if you put your foot down, they will stop. They will also listen to you, and they will respect you. They will also appreciate the things you say and do for/to them and stay in touch with you... but this is my issue..

I have to check my female friends here and there in order to let them know that there are consequences to their actions. Some of them are taken, single, and married... but they all act the same ( in a way). Is there something I am not noticing? Or do I care about my friends too much that it makes me think about things like this?
 

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Today, I've had 2 experiences of how girls behave when you don't bend over backwards to agree with them. It's so childish how they act all moody and then don't want to talk to you because you see things from a different POV. Something so simple as a difference in opinions is actually enough to put a girl into a legitimate bad mood.
 

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Today, I've had 2 experiences of how girls behave when you don't bend over backwards to agree with them. It's so childish how they act all moody and then don't want to talk to you because you see things from a different POV. Something so simple as a difference in opinions is actually enough to put a girl into a legitimate bad mood.
I know this all too well :snoop:
 

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and yeah sometimes they act like, or say, theyre "not like that"


yet we know what the truth is :lolbron:


at some point it turned into being a thing where women acted like what they really want is a soft, gentle, caring, nurturing and sensitive man. someone like a woman.

and for whatever reason, a lot of men started thinking that was how they should be. but what really happens is men like that get regulated into "friend" status or are treated like hes one of the girls. pretty much a straight gay friend of the girls.

the only thing a woman really wants is a man, so be that. listen to your instincts. if she cant roll with that then shes most likely playing you or is the type that wants to be in charge. theres no reason to entertain that or be a part of that. you say what you have to, do whats needed, and let your nuts hang on these women.


This shyt be confusing breh.
I be wanna adjust myself to make sure my woman is happy.
I don't wanna just go all out and be too "I dont take shyt-ish" cuz then she'll stay mad and not want to go places with me in public because Im always getting into over something.

"damn he got us kicked out cuz he fought that dude who skipped us"
"damn he got us kicked out cuz he fought that dude that stepped on his shoe"
"damn now everybody in the restaurant looking at us funny cuz he making a big deal over his drink. im uncomfortable"
"damn i need to just break up with him cuz he crazy. he always yelling at me and he might hit me"
*all this while the dude is thinking "Im winning breh. Im showing her I dont take shyt :steviej:"
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Today, I've had 2 experiences of how girls behave when you don't bend over backwards to agree with them. It's so childish how they act all moody and then don't want to talk to you because you see things from a different POV. Something so simple as a difference in opinions is actually enough to put a girl into a legitimate bad mood.

My woman has done that a few times.
"you always want to try and correct somebody. If im wrong let me be wrong :mindblown:"
 

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finish the story... :comeon:

what did u say in response?

:ohlawd:

The backstory(I've posted this story on here already),- She works in my building, i got at her a while ago and tried to set up something, I call on a Saturday to confirm the dinner date, she didn't respond to my text or pick up my phone call...I see her the following Monday at work and she's just carrying on with her friends as if she didnt just curve a nikka. So I put her on block on the iphone that day.

Today when she was like "Did you get my text?" i'm like ":what: text?", she says she sent me a text a few days ago and that she will resend it, I'm like ohh ok :mjpls: and kept it moving.
 

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It's probably been mentioned before, but have you guys ever read through this http://shrink4men.wordpress.com/a-shrink-for-men-index/ website? I was checking out some of the articles today and a few qualities of an abusive woman can be applied to my ex.

Getting ridiculously upset over miniscule issues? Yep.

Flipping the script and/or downplaying their outbursts? Yep.

Rarely accepts responsibility for mistakes or mistreatment? Yep.
 
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The backstory(I've posted this story on here already),- She works in my building, i got at her a while ago and tried to set up something, I call on a Saturday to confirm the dinner date, she didn't respond to my text or pick up my phone call...I see her the following Monday at work and she's just carrying on with her friends as if she didnt just curve a nikka. So I put her on block on the iphone that day.

Today when she was like "Did you get my text?" i'm like ":what: text?", she says she sent me a text a few days ago and that she will resend it, I'm like ohh ok :mjpls: and kept it moving.
If u messin w/ other girls then keep hittin her up till she says yes

if she is the only chick you are talking to at the moment, i would ignore her b/c this shyt will fukk w/ ur emotions
 
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If u messin w/ other girls then keep hittin her up till she says yes

if she is the only chick you are talking to at the moment, i would ignore her b/c this shyt will fukk w/ ur emotions
??? I've already tossed her into the bushes, I'm dealing with someone else at the moment.
 

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U guys are all about "checking" women, buy, are real vague about it :mjpls:

My woman has done that a few times.
"you always want to try and correct somebody. If im wrong let me be wrong :mindblown:"

Read a great book on relationships

Women sometimes just wanna express themselves and sometimes they have promblems

Always capin', and tryin to give a solution is demeaning, as if she can't handle it

Soetimes she just wanna talk..yea, weird, but they're different than us
 
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