Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Some dudes aren't direct because they worry about how the female is going to take said information.
I think if people like each other, they should make it known and not assume the other person can catch these "hints" people throw around

So many dudes would get shytted on if they let these women know they like em.

 

[jadillac]

I've got a ton on matches on Tinder, . Seriously, nice looking girls. I harrdly even go on there b/c I'm just not motivated to go thru thru the whole process of small talk and "getting to know them". It's always the same conversation.

Such a waste of time.

 

[Jahmal]

Brehs say I get a girl's number. What's the quickest and most effective way to get in them guts. Inquiring minds need to know

Spoiler

I'm tired of being patient

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/how-many-of-you-have-stopped-taking-women-out-on-dates.206093/

 

[Busby]

I've been a lurker on this thread for a while and there are A LOT of dimes being dropped on here. However I myself got a story about how some of these females got me fukkED up

So a few weeks ago I hollered at this chick on FB, we had some chit chat here and there but long story short we ended up swapping digits. After texting each other back and forth for a few weeks we decided to talk on the phone.

We had a pretty long covo and she seemed like a cool ass person because we shared a lot of the same interest that I do. I can tell she was really feeling a nikka because she was laughing at a lot of my jokes and loved my dry sarcasm. So then the next day I'm working on some shyt and so texts me that she was doing some "thinking" and I'm like, "About? "

And she says "About kicking it together"....she then proceeds to tell me that she is off for the weekend and says that she gets off work late on Friday late. She also tells me that she is gonna pop some Molly and she doesn't want to be high by herself and that she needs a "cuddle buddy"

I then ask her if can sleep over and she says "Duh!" and in my mind I just go

To push it even further she tells me that when she is on that pill she becomes VERY "frisky, touchy, and horny" and she was on a "dikk diet"..so when I came over she told me no matter WHAT happens..do NOT make the moves on her because she is not that kind of girl...

All I told her was "Well, whatever happens...happens "

In my head I was thinking "This bytch better not be thinking that I am just gonna come over and just have a slumber party with her "

But fukk it

So that night I get to her house and by that time she already popped that pill so she is already feeling herself. I told her we should watch a movie or something but she goes and says "We not gonna watch the movie for more then 10 minutes c'mon now "

And in my mind I was thinking "SHE KNOWS! "

So within a few minutes we eventually got it in like

But through out the night she would tell me to stop and be like "you won't suppose to be doing this to me " while she was fingering her p*ssy and feeling up her titties like I'm not suppose to do nothing

So the next day after I roll out I text her that I had a good time and then she texts me back saying that she was "disappointed" in me

She goes and says that I took advantage of her after I "promised" that I wouldn't and that I betrayed on her trust

Now remember...this girl INVITED me over to HER house and said that she was going to pop HER molly. She also told me that when she is high she gets VERY horny and not only that she told me that I could SLEEP over in HER room in HER bed UNDER the covers.

WHAT THE fukk YOU THINK WAS GONNA HAPPEN?!

I didn't even respond to her texts cuz I was just so shocked that she had the NERVE to try and BLAME me for taking "advantage" of her when SHE put herself in that position.

The things these bytches do to convince themselves that they ain't no hoes man...it's crazy!

 

[Jahmal]

I've been a lurker on this thread for a while and there are A LOT of dimes being dropped on here. However I myself got a story about how some of these females got me fukkED up

So a few weeks ago I hollered at this chick on FB, we had some chit chat here and there but long story short we ended up swapping digits. After texting each other back and forth for a few weeks we decided to talk on the phone.

We had a pretty long covo and she seemed like a cool ass person because we shared a lot of the same interest that I do. I can tell she was really feeling a nikka because she was laughing at a lot of my jokes and loved my dry sarcasm. So then the next day I'm working on some shyt and so texts me that she was doing some "thinking" and I'm like, "About? "

And she says "About kicking it together"....she then proceeds to tell me that she is off for the weekend and says that she gets off work late on Friday late. She also tells me that she is gonna pop some Molly and she doesn't want to be high by herself and that she needs a "cuddle buddy"

I then ask her if can sleep over and she says "Duh!" and in my mind I just go

To push it even further she tells me that when she is on that pill she becomes VERY "frisky, touchy, and horny" and she was on a "dikk diet"..so when I came over she told me no matter WHAT happens..do NOT make the moves on her because she is not that kind of girl...

All I told her was "Well, whatever happens...happens "

In my head I was thinking "This bytch better not be thinking that I am just gonna come over and just have a slumber party with her "

But fukk it

So that night I get to her house and by that time she already popped that pill so she is already feeling herself. I told her we should watch a movie or something but she goes and says "We not gonna watch the movie for more then 10 minutes c'mon now "

And in my mind I was thinking "SHE KNOWS! "

So within a few minutes we eventually got it in like

But through out the night she would tell me to stop and be like "you won't suppose to be doing this to me " while she was fingering her p*ssy and feeling up her titties like I'm not suppose to do nothing

So the next day after I roll out I text her that I had a good time and then she texts me back saying that she was "disappointed" in me

She goes and says that I took advantage of her after I "promised" that I wouldn't and that I betrayed on her trust

Now remember...this girl INVITED me over to HER house and said that she was going to pop HER molly. She also told me that when she is high she gets VERY horny and not only that she told me that I could SLEEP over in HER room in HER bed UNDER the covers.

WHAT THE fukk YOU THINK WAS GONNA HAPPEN?!

I didn't even respond to her texts cuz I was just so shocked that she had the NERVE to try and BLAME me for taking "advantage" of her when SHE put herself in that position.

The things these bytches do to convince themselves that they ain't no hoes man...it's crazy!

Anti-Slut Defense


Quick Definition: Women’s internal mechanism to create plausible deniability before sex with a new man. It ensures that she doesn’t appear (to herself and others) that she’s too easily seduced.

Full Definition:

ASD is a conscious or unconscious process that women, especially younger women, go through to avoid the perception of being “slutty” or “too easy.” Women will often go out of their way to portray themselves as “nice girls,” even going so far as to proclaim indifference or even aversion to sex, when in fact the opposite is true. AFCs will often take such proclamations at face value, instead of considering the sub-communication. This leads to frustration for both parties.

 

[jadillac]

brehs, what are your reactions when you see stuff like this on twitter, other social media

My immediate reaction is always followed by


Women post this with statements like, "I wish these men out here realized this" or "If only I could find this man" etc. Like they have no blame in any situation for getting with/staying with an irresponsible man.

When you've likely passed up a dude who exhibits these behaviors(at least partially) in favor of the ones who consistently hurt you/play you bad enough that you needed to post this in the first place.

Now you're looking to another man to advise you on how men should act when you've likely already had the man he's describing in your face at some point.

 

[Rich Spirit]

I've been a lurker on this thread for a while and there are A LOT of dimes being dropped on here. However I myself got a story about how some of these females got me fukkED up

So a few weeks ago I hollered at this chick on FB, we had some chit chat here and there but long story short we ended up swapping digits. After texting each other back and forth for a few weeks we decided to talk on the phone.

We had a pretty long covo and she seemed like a cool ass person because we shared a lot of the same interest that I do. I can tell she was really feeling a nikka because she was laughing at a lot of my jokes and loved my dry sarcasm. So then the next day I'm working on some shyt and so texts me that she was doing some "thinking" and I'm like, "About? "

And she says "About kicking it together"....she then proceeds to tell me that she is off for the weekend and says that she gets off work late on Friday late. She also tells me that she is gonna pop some Molly and she doesn't want to be high by herself and that she needs a "cuddle buddy"

I then ask her if can sleep over and she says "Duh!" and in my mind I just go

To push it even further she tells me that when she is on that pill she becomes VERY "frisky, touchy, and horny" and she was on a "dikk diet"..so when I came over she told me no matter WHAT happens..do NOT make the moves on her because she is not that kind of girl...

All I told her was "Well, whatever happens...happens "

In my head I was thinking "This bytch better not be thinking that I am just gonna come over and just have a slumber party with her "

But fukk it

So that night I get to her house and by that time she already popped that pill so she is already feeling herself. I told her we should watch a movie or something but she goes and says "We not gonna watch the movie for more then 10 minutes c'mon now "

And in my mind I was thinking "SHE KNOWS! "

So within a few minutes we eventually got it in like

But through out the night she would tell me to stop and be like "you won't suppose to be doing this to me " while she was fingering her p*ssy and feeling up her titties like I'm not suppose to do nothing

So the next day after I roll out I text her that I had a good time and then she texts me back saying that she was "disappointed" in me

She goes and says that I took advantage of her after I "promised" that I wouldn't and that I betrayed on her trust

Now remember...this girl INVITED me over to HER house and said that she was going to pop HER molly. She also told me that when she is high she gets VERY horny and not only that she told me that I could SLEEP over in HER room in HER bed UNDER the covers.

WHAT THE fukk YOU THINK WAS GONNA HAPPEN?!

I didn't even respond to her texts cuz I was just so shocked that she had the NERVE to try and BLAME me for taking "advantage" of her when SHE put herself in that position.

The things these bytches do to convince themselves that they ain't no hoes man...it's crazy!

by texting her you had a good time

 

[Busby]

by texting her you had a good time

fukked up thing was I actually lightweight was feeling her..but after she sent them text messages

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

So many dudes would get shytted on if they let these women know they like em.

 

[jadillac]

fukked up thing was I actually lightweight was feeling her..but after she sent them text messages

be careful with mentally unbalanced chicks like that breh.

Especially when they're high or drunk. They might claim you raped them. She already said you "took advantage of her", so in her mind her version says you did her wrong.

And ultimately it'd be your word against hers, which is NEVER a good thing.

 

[Busby]

be careful with mentally unbalanced chicks like that breh.

Especially when they're high or drunk. They might claim you raped them. She already said you "took advantage of her", so in her mind her version says you did her wrong.

And ultimately it'd be your word against hers, which is NEVER a good thing.

I thought about that same shyt..and I already got my ammo ready...so I'm chilling...

 

[kevm3]

Man, cut that broad off slowly but surely. Be cordial and friendly with her, but slowly distance yourself from her.

Next time, if a woman says no, don't push the issue. Never go any further. I don't care if you think she she really means 'yes' or she's giving all the signs of meaning yes. You do not want to give a woman the kind of power over you where you can be painted as a rapist for something that she mutually participated in.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Come on now, you see it on movies, tv shows, cartoons, real life, etc.
Its the dudes who aren't being thirsty who gets the girl's attention.
Shoot look at The Last Dragon.
When Laura Charles came out the building with all them people in her face and she noticed Leroy just standing there not sweating her.
He had her right there.

 

[NerdNash]

@kevm3 Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 22 (By KevM3) | The Nerd At The Cool Table

 

[Mike Ock]

I've been a lurker on this thread for a while and there are A LOT of dimes being dropped on here. However I myself got a story about how some of these females got me fukkED up

So a few weeks ago I hollered at this chick on FB, we had some chit chat here and there but long story short we ended up swapping digits. After texting each other back and forth for a few weeks we decided to talk on the phone.

We had a pretty long covo and she seemed like a cool ass person because we shared a lot of the same interest that I do. I can tell she was really feeling a nikka because she was laughing at a lot of my jokes and loved my dry sarcasm. So then the next day I'm working on some shyt and so texts me that she was doing some "thinking" and I'm like, "About? "

And she says "About kicking it together"....she then proceeds to tell me that she is off for the weekend and says that she gets off work late on Friday late. She also tells me that she is gonna pop some Molly and she doesn't want to be high by herself and that she needs a "cuddle buddy"

I then ask her if can sleep over and she says "Duh!" and in my mind I just go

To push it even further she tells me that when she is on that pill she becomes VERY "frisky, touchy, and horny" and she was on a "dikk diet"..so when I came over she told me no matter WHAT happens..do NOT make the moves on her because she is not that kind of girl...

All I told her was "Well, whatever happens...happens "

In my head I was thinking "This bytch better not be thinking that I am just gonna come over and just have a slumber party with her "

But fukk it

So that night I get to her house and by that time she already popped that pill so she is already feeling herself. I told her we should watch a movie or something but she goes and says "We not gonna watch the movie for more then 10 minutes c'mon now "

And in my mind I was thinking "SHE KNOWS! "

So within a few minutes we eventually got it in like

But through out the night she would tell me to stop and be like "you won't suppose to be doing this to me " while she was fingering her p*ssy and feeling up her titties like I'm not suppose to do nothing

So the next day after I roll out I text her that I had a good time and then she texts me back saying that she was "disappointed" in me

She goes and says that I took advantage of her after I "promised" that I wouldn't and that I betrayed on her trust

Now remember...this girl INVITED me over to HER house and said that she was going to pop HER molly. She also told me that when she is high she gets VERY horny and not only that she told me that I could SLEEP over in HER room in HER bed UNDER the covers.

WHAT THE fukk YOU THINK WAS GONNA HAPPEN?!

I didn't even respond to her texts cuz I was just so shocked that she had the NERVE to try and BLAME me for taking "advantage" of her when SHE put herself in that position.

The things these bytches do to convince themselves that they ain't no hoes man...it's crazy!

Sounds like you prolly should have taken heed and just laid there with blue balls or rub one out in her bathroom bro.