Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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people are afraid to be alone at the end of the day. when people are alone they have no one to look at but their true selves and they dont like that what they see.good p*ssy and a nut aint worth the hassle. gotta have knowledge of self

pretty much look at the word settling down, it means you settle. Loneliness is all a state of mind and if you depend on soemone else for your happiness in the long run you will end up even more alone.

Women are excellent and i mean excellent of playing the right tunes, that nice beautiful girl whose only into you, to draw you in. Many men have rules and don't stand for disrespect but then they get a blowjob or some puzzy and suddenly they don't have the courage to let it go even when they know its going to end horribly.

Life is short and it's sad people don't take advantage of it, that's why I love travelling by myself, depending on no one
 

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just like how women have to be smart in choosing the right guy, as you can end up with a abuser ( 1 in 4 women are abused by their domestic partner), cheater, deadbeat, crazy guy who can't let go and ends up killing you etc.

Men have to be smart in choosing women they surround themselves with, dayum she's so hot hen you are stuck with 18 years child support, or she uses you for money, or she's psycho like Jodi Arias stabbing you to death, or shooting you to death like steve mcnair.

Jodi Arias had me like :merchant:. The chick is crazy as a barrel of bananas with 10 drunk monkeys in it. She literally made mincemeat out of ole dude, yet she looks like butter wouldn't melt in her mouth.
 

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Need some outside perspective on a weird scenario I got going on.

My homeboy, who's this new age hella liberal open minded type dude, was together with this chick for like a year. They broke up, but now they're in this weird open relationship thing where they give each other space and let each other talk to other people while being "together". Homie had a party like a month ago and I ended up talking to the chick and we vibed really well, she asked me for my number straight up in front of him too...felt awkward giving it to her but it's whatever. She's really cool, smart, attractive, cultured, everything I look for in a chick, but that open relationship shyt has me turned off.

I thought nothing of it and never really had her on my radar because of their weird situation. This past month she's been hitting me up trying to get me to come to some parties that my homie is throwing, obviously wanting to have a reason to come kick it with me again without blatantly asking. The past two I said maybe, with no intentions of actually showing up and doing anything with her. She hit me up again this week telling me to come through this weekend, no excuses this time, and I was like aight sure I'll def roll through.

Would it be some wack shyt for me to get at her? I know my homeboy fukks with other chicks besides her, so I'm not sure if she's just trying to use me to make him jealous or if it's for real. She can fukk with any dude that she wants out there...why choose one of "boyfriend"'s friends? What do y'all think about this?
 

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Have to commute from home next year :beli:

I officially retire from the p*ssy game my nikkas. How can I bring girls home from party with my whole family there and dem tings. :beli:

I don't go out like a successful veteran, I go out on some Chris Duhon shyt :beli:

FML :beli:

Mad as hell sad as hell :beli:





@jjiscooler I'd leave that alone :whoa:
 

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Need some outside perspective on a weird scenario I got going on.

My homeboy, who's this new age hella liberal open minded type dude, was together with this chick for like a year. They broke up, but now they're in this weird open relationship thing where they give each other space and let each other talk to other people while being "together". Homie had a party like a month ago and I ended up talking to the chick and we vibed really well, she asked me for my number straight up in front of him too...felt awkward giving it to her but it's whatever. She's really cool, smart, attractive, cultured, everything I look for in a chick, but that open relationship shyt has me turned off.

I thought nothing of it and never really had her on my radar because of their weird situation. This past month she's been hitting me up trying to get me to come to some parties that my homie is throwing, obviously wanting to have a reason to come kick it with me again without blatantly asking. The past two I said maybe, with no intentions of actually showing up and doing anything with her. She hit me up again this week telling me to come through this weekend, no excuses this time, and I was like aight sure I'll def roll through.

Would it be some wack shyt for me to get at her? I know my homeboy fukks with other chicks besides her, so I'm not sure if she's just trying to use me to make him jealous or if it's for real. She can fukk with any dude that she wants out there...why choose one of "boyfriend"'s friends? What do y'all think about this?

Leave that alone breh
 

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Need some outside perspective on a weird scenario I got going on.

My homeboy, who's this new age hella liberal open minded type dude, was together with this chick for like a year. They broke up, but now they're in this weird open relationship thing where they give each other space and let each other talk to other people while being "together". Homie had a party like a month ago and I ended up talking to the chick and we vibed really well, she asked me for my number straight up in front of him too...felt awkward giving it to her but it's whatever. She's really cool, smart, attractive, cultured, everything I look for in a chick, but that open relationship shyt has me turned off.

I thought nothing of it and never really had her on my radar because of their weird situation. This past month she's been hitting me up trying to get me to come to some parties that my homie is throwing, obviously wanting to have a reason to come kick it with me again without blatantly asking. The past two I said maybe, with no intentions of actually showing up and doing anything with her. She hit me up again this week telling me to come through this weekend, no excuses this time, and I was like aight sure I'll def roll through.

Would it be some wack shyt for me to get at her? I know my homeboy fukks with other chicks besides her, so I'm not sure if she's just trying to use me to make him jealous or if it's for real. She can fukk with any dude that she wants out there...why choose one of "boyfriend"'s friends? What do y'all think about this?

Even if they are in an 'open relationship', it's probably at her behest, and he'll be very mad if one of his boys is knocking down his woman. Too many women out there to lose one of your boys over or create an awkward scene over.
 

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A lot of men were never taught right or never learned. They were taught lame things like coochie runs the world or if she offers her company, you better take it. Nah. The only time you let a woman into your life is if she can add joy. If there is drama entering into your life that wasn't there prior to her entering, you tell her to cut it out or you tell her to keep it moving. Why men are willing to go into financial ruin or lose their lives over these women who don't care about them boggles the mind.


Speaking of men going into financial issues because of women check this shyt out....

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/keli...-publicly-these-females-are-heartless.206489/

he is my fav emcee but this is something that u cannot c/s...getting with this woman and his idiotic reason why he went far( seeing her scream in a music video :wtf: )

Saying dumb shyt about how you wanna make love to her...etc

Seeing that "poor thing" just disgusts me and ahows u how rotten women can be....you see the type of person raising that 4 year old(Nas son) right now?
 

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Speaking of men going into financial issues because of women check this shyt out....

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/keli...-publicly-these-females-are-heartless.206489/

he is my fav emcee but this is something that u cannot c/s...getting with this woman and his idiotic reason why he went far( seeing her scream in a music video :wtf: )

Saying dumb shyt about how you wanna make love to her...etc

Seeing that "poor thing" just disgusts me and ahows u how rotten women can be....you see the type of person raising that 4 year old(Nas son) right now?

Pretty sad man, which is why you always have to have extremely tough filters for women entering into your life. it's sad that they don't call theft for what it is.
 

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@jjiscooler Leave that well alone. The mere fact you have to ask shows deep down you know it's not a good idea. I just wouldn't get involved with her at all. She sounds like trouble.

In fact don't involve yourself with any woman who's part of this so called open relationship malarkey, no matter how cool the dudes appear to be with it.
 
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