@EnzoG
Stop in ya tracks fam. You're skating on thin ice here, cut her off entirely.
With that said...
Tips on how to take a girl from another nikka? Dude is much lower quality than the female and he's really not on her level so I feel like I can swoop in and take her but I have no idea where to start. She seems to have interest since I was able to nab a # and have been going places with her (that or I'm legitimately a male friend)
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As with any subject, after a while, there's only so much you can say about it, so obviously you will start veering off into repetition. That's one of the reasons I veer off into 'self-improvement', which, although has benefits when it comes to women, is not directly related to women. You want these tips and tricks, they have countless PUA forums that have discussed everything verbatim, but you can only be a trickster for so long before it wears thin on you. You have a lot of guys in those communities who eventually wonder, "What am I doing all of this work for?" These guys end up spending all of this time and effort to be 'next in line.' After they do their thing with this woman for one night, what do they have? A memory? I much prefer looking for a woman that I will always make new memories with rather than one that will be a memory after one night.
When it comes down to it, it's all about your priorities. Is your first priority peace of mind or to pursue a bunch of women? My priority is peace of mind. If yours is different, my ideology probably won't suit you. Here's what you do. You never adopt mine or another man's philosophy verbatim. You analyze it, see what applies to your situation and take what's useful and discard what's not. It's sort of like Jeet Kune Do. Something that works for me might not work for you and something I'm attempting to achieve, you might not be attempting to achieve, so becoming a carbon copy of me and my philosophies will only be to your detriment.
I don't want to be around disrespectful, drama-filled people and therein derives my philosophy of be careful who you let in your life and let drama convicts go. To me, I much prefer waking up and not having to deal with 'craziness' of any sort. I don't like having to play games or wonder what such and such is doing. Truly, you can have much more quantity if you put up with the disrespect or if you can tolerate more drama, but when it's said and done, is the attention of a woman really worth that? Are you that thirsty for attention? Having to watch your back for jealous ex's, vindictive husbands or boyfriends, having someone who constantly criticizes and talks down on you, someone who wants to get your money? Wondering what this woman is doing when you're not around and why she's turned up busy? As you get older, your tolerance for ambiguous situations drastically lessens.
This is why I stress the importance of establishing yourself and who you are as a man. A lot of guys are coming in with the question, "What do I do to be what women like." The problem with that question is that different women like different things, just like different people like different foods and there's not too much you can do to change that. Instead of being the best steak you can be, a lot of guys are trying to change their nature and be something synthetic. You're discarding the authentic (who you are) and trying to become a tv dinner (fake food) in order to appeal 'outside of your market.' You are wasting your time trying to sell a hardcore vegan steak, especially when there's countless other people who love steak. Why try to give that steak to that vegan when there's a huge audience that will appreciate that steak? Same thing with women.
Instead of being something you're not and always being confused as to 'what to do next' and what script to run next, what you really need to focus on is answering the question, "Where do I need to be to really find those women who dig my style?" You need to answer the question, "What do I want to do with my life? Is my level of manhood on point?Is my relationship with God right?" When you establish who you really are as a man and what you want to do with life, you have a broader context in which to let a woman fit into your life who is wants to do what you want to do. In essence, that will put you in a position of natural leadership where you and your woman are working towards mutual goals. Confidence doesn't come from these scripts and tricks because when you come across a situation you don't have the ready-baked answer for, you will end up confused, and ultimately, you will be a vagina slave because the only question in your mind will be, "What does this woman want me to do next so I can win her over?" Do not spend all this time thinking about how you can do what women want. ESTABLISH WHO YOU ARE and a woman who likes what you will do will fit herself into your context.
When it comes down to it, it's all about your priorities. Is your first priority peace of mind or to pursue a bunch of women? My priority is peace of mind. If yours is different, my ideology probably won't suit you. Here's what you do. You never adopt mine or another man's philosophy verbatim. You analyze it, see what applies to your situation and take what's useful and discard what's not. It's sort of like Jeet Kune Do. Something that works for me might not work for you and something I'm attempting to achieve, you might not be attempting to achieve, so becoming a carbon copy of me and my philosophies will only be to your detriment.
I don't want to be around disrespectful, drama-filled people and therein derives my philosophy of be careful who you let in your life and let drama convicts go. To me, I much prefer waking up and not having to deal with 'craziness' of any sort. I don't like having to play games or wonder what such and such is doing. Truly, you can have much more quantity if you put up with the disrespect or if you can tolerate more drama, but when it's said and done, is the attention of a woman really worth that? Are you that thirsty for attention? Having to watch your back for jealous ex's, vindictive husbands or boyfriends, having someone who constantly criticizes and talks down on you, someone who wants to get your money? Wondering what this woman is doing when you're not around and why she's turned up busy? As you get older, your tolerance for ambiguous situations drastically lessens.
This is why I stress the importance of establishing yourself and who you are as a man. A lot of guys are coming in with the question, "What do I do to be what women like." The problem with that question is that different women like different things, just like different people like different foods and there's not too much you can do to change that. Instead of being the best steak you can be, a lot of guys are trying to change their nature and be something synthetic. You're discarding the authentic (who you are) and trying to become a tv dinner (fake food) in order to appeal 'outside of your market.' You are wasting your time trying to sell a hardcore vegan steak, especially when there's countless other people who love steak. Why try to give that steak to that vegan when there's a huge audience that will appreciate that steak? Same thing with women.
Instead of being something you're not and always being confused as to 'what to do next' and what script to run next, what you really need to focus on is answering the question, "Where do I need to be to really find those women who dig my style?" You need to answer the question, "What do I want to do with my life? Is my level of manhood on point?Is my relationship with God right?" When you establish who you really are as a man and what you want to do with life, you have a broader context in which to let a woman fit into your life who is wants to do what you want to do. In essence, that will put you in a position of natural leadership where you and your woman are working towards mutual goals. Confidence doesn't come from these scripts and tricks because when you come across a situation you don't have the ready-baked answer for, you will end up confused, and ultimately, you will be a vagina slave because the only question in your mind will be, "What does this woman want me to do next so I can win her over?" Do not spend all this time thinking about how you can do what women want. ESTABLISH WHO YOU ARE and a woman who likes what you will do will fit herself into your context.
On a side note, what does your fragrance game look like? My collection is nearing an end it seems. I only got a few left to cop before I pretty much have the ones I want.
I still need to cop this. I like this better than the original fahrenheit because it's more subdued.
I still need to cop this. I like this better than the original fahrenheit because it's more subdued.
Saw this quote under a TMZ-like article that showed Game with a new woman younger than his ex-fiancee:
Now tell me yall, where is the upside to marriage again? When even your average woman understands what happens in time
Now tell me yall, where is the upside to marriage again? When even your average woman understands what happens in time
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Saw this quote under a TMZ-like article that showed Game with a new woman younger than his ex-fiancee:
Now tell me yall, where is the downside to marriage again? When even your average woman understands what happens in time
even reading that quote should show men something as well, if a woman is giving you that commitment stop hanging around, cut your losses.
men in teh friendzone for years and years thinking one day things will change, are just like women who dont get a ring and stay for years and years.
Different is women waste their prime youthful years and dude just gets a younger model
And obviously I meant "what could be the upside to marriage" but yall got the point.
As the old saying goes "plenty women turn 18 everyday". Being a male is like staying the senior with a new flock of freshmen every semester while the ugly old hoes graduate out
As the old saying goes "plenty women turn 18 everyday". Being a male is like staying the senior with a new flock of freshmen every semester while the ugly old hoes graduate out
are you trolling or do we really have to tell you to stay the fukk away from this bytch?
one of these tinder bytches told me i was gorgeous. lmao.
Not trolling breh
I have my moments but i think i definitely have progressed i been getting at a lot of women lately...3 dates in 10 days
These responses was worth it 
. This was a worthwhile experiment.
Not wife in that sense but basically just see her from time to time on some real casual shyt. Don't think it'll work out even if I was to make moves and get her to cave in, so I'm done with this little project.
What's really sad is that I'm in a 10 month relationship
. I'm losing interest and I'm thinking that I wasn't made for long-term relationships just yet. Just yet.
. This was a worthwhile experiment.Not wife in that sense but basically just see her from time to time on some real casual shyt. Don't think it'll work out even if I was to make moves and get her to cave in, so I'm done with this little project.
What's really sad is that I'm in a 10 month relationship
. I'm losing interest and I'm thinking that I wasn't made for long-term relationships just yet. Just yet.