Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Forget hoes fam. Just take 1 year and fix that mind and body. 1 year which will translate into a lifetime of happiness and content.

No hoes durin dis period. No chasing, nada. If the odd one comes along begging to fukk, handle her...but immediately get back on ur grind. 365 days in a year. Mark each day off by strengthening your mind and body.

And another thing, stop worrying what other people be doing and saying. They have no effect and control on your life whatsoever. Shyt will just fukk with you.

I guarantee you do this, and this time next year you will be the one dropping gems on us.
I've been doing this for the past 3-4 months, and I've been noticing slow subtle changes...A liiiiiiiitle more conversational with females, getting a little more looks, etc. I'm still not sure exactly where I stand with females in general, but at the same time I haven't been looking that hard. There are like maybe 3 in particular that I would LIKE to try, but I'm not really sweating it like that. I'm just anticipating how things are going to be come winter, my favorite season....
 

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Whats everyones opinion on younger chicks like 18-19.

Do you still holla if you're a lil older? :sas2:

I ask that because theres this club that is gonna be packed with fine ass youngins. It doesnt hurt that I look like a college student still but I just couldnt see myself doing any club thats not 21+ and up.
 

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Whats everyones opinion on younger chicks like 18-19.

Do you still holla if you're a lil older? :sas2:

I ask that because theres this club that is gonna be packed with fine ass youngins. It doesnt hurt that I look like a college student still but I just couldnt see myself doing any club thats not 21+ and up.
Nah man can't do it. My range is 23 & up
 

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My fellow Atlanta brehs I needed this reaffirmation. I got this chick I'm feeling, been choppin it up the past week and she been throwing hints and whatnot. At this point I'm glad I even picked up on em to even pursue. Now I'm trying to feel her out, but don't want to come off as co-worker creep. Well tomorrow I'ma straight up ask her how she feels about me. Can't be treadmillin with this one, when it's plenty options outchea

UPDATE

Asked shawty what's good, she said she's "taken," I'll humbly move on. But I still think I can smash :takedat:
 

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i've been talking/hanging out with a girl I use to date from high school on and off for the past 2/3 years. We dated my sophomore year of HS but I never smashed. We run in the same social groups so it usually happens we strike a convo/chill from time to time. I used to be a super nice simp and I tried to date her back in 2010 but she wouldn't give me time of day or would play really hard to get.

Fast forward to today "I miss the old you, you're kind of a jerk now to be honest." When I asked her about why she's interested in me now "I was in my early 20's and I wasn't ready for a mature relationship". She says this despite trying to change some lame so she could have her kids by 25. Now she's 28 looking at the shot clock like :dwillhuh:



:pachaha::sas2:

You couldn't find a scale light enough to count the lack of fukks I give. I was 22 in 2010. That's when I finally caught a clue you can be a nice guy buy you need an edge dealing with 20 yr old women.
 
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Whats everyones opinion on younger chicks like 18-19.

Do you still holla if you're a lil older? :sas2:

I ask that because theres this club that is gonna be packed with fine ass youngins. It doesnt hurt that I look like a college student still but I just couldnt see myself doing any club thats not 21+ and up.

Harlem Nights? Or was that the college party spot last night?
 

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That was yesterday. Tonight Twitter is buzzing with Club Lacura from all these fine hoes but they could be bots.

Word. Don't even know where that's at lol

Taken but agreed to go out on a date?

They not loyal

Shieet that aint my problem to deal with

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Whats everyones opinion on younger chicks like 18-19.

Do you still holla if you're a lil older? :sas2:

I ask that because theres this club that is gonna be packed with fine ass youngins. It doesnt hurt that I look like a college student still but I just couldnt see myself doing any club thats not 21+ and up.

I wouldn't wife, just take it casual, don't get to invovled. Because they are attn whoring on instagram and are on tinder and dating sites.

Many men get caught up with younge chicks and then get emotionally involved and burn.
 

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Also, Im gonna start grocery shopping at places close to me but more near the city.

More chances to meet.

the beauty of life, you can meet women anywhere. Grocery stores are great, because you can just say, hey where did you get that juice or bread etc. and can tell by her reaction if you should :kony: or :shaq:
 
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