Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RealAssanova]

@RealAssanova
@61 Corpses

heres a gist of it

back story one of the coolest girls i ever dated wasn't all that in the looks department but had a heart of gold, but she got distant , so i pulled away and cut the cord, heard nothing for like 2 months popped up yesterday and today, she tried guilt tripping me at the end sending me a bunch of "sweet" text messages i sent her but .

I never go back, look back, give closure.

Spoiler

these hoes man

fukk her

tryna flip the script

she ain't kno da nikka she was fukkin wit. Rein

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

I always debate this......How much should you have in common with your significant other or someone you're dating?

 

[CASHAPP]

I always debate this......How much should you have in common with your significant other or someone you're dating?

I think alot...o ways thought the opposites attract thing was kind of cliche and not aplicable...I meam beyond you as the man being dominant and the girl follpwing your lead...you should be similar...cant be with some girl partying every sec and your more of a kobe or duncan vibe wise..

 

[CASHAPP]

We should invite more members in this thread to spice it up for those saying it has been redundant

 

[CanesMiamiLakers]

I always debate this......How much should you have in common with your significant other or someone you're dating?

U don't need to much in common but more so respect and understanding. I think that goes a long way if she respects and has an understanding of certain things you like to do y'all can go a long way

 

[MikelArteta]

for me it depends, im quiet laid back and a homebody, i usually like my women opposite than me. I think though goals, financial aspirations, family, budgeting etc. are stuff that you need ot have in common

I always debate this......How much should you have in common with your significant other or someone you're dating?

 

[Turbulent]

How do you fellas deal with females who are indecisive about what they want out of life and just generally lack ambition?

you don't.

 

[TheArchitect]

first time in a min. I've felt about not having any females to talk to man it sucks ..

yeah, man, it sucks and gets to be boring being alone...best I do is improve myself personally....

 

[Mike Ock]

do you have any concrete advice for when that woman is your mother ...as in my case...long story short she is just a difficult person and im tied down because I want to leave but have no way of ...we all know the story already of how 2014 is different than the 80s and people live with their parents several years longer....I got to get out of this hell and try all the time to keep my cool with her...on a side note fathers day is coming up you guys lets remember to check any women who try to clown guys about how it gets no attention and give respect to any fathers you know whether or not it is your own...show brotherly love since mainstream society wont do it for them.

Trust me man I been thru it with my mom. I'm the middle child- older bro and younger sis. After 2years of going away too a good college, I messed up and got kicked out of school. I think after, my parents expected me to be a failure. Ended up getting a new major and getting my bachelor's in finance. I'm stable financially and able to do whatever and go where I want. Not sure if my parents are happy or maybe a little envious of my life. Because as soon as I mention something to my mom she'll just hit me with negative reasons not to do so. She's very square so I tend no to mention too much to her. Also with relationships in my case, she'll try to turn it on me like it was all my fault for a relationship gone wrong. I pretty much don't really talk about them to her anymore. It's my mom and I lover her, but I'm old enough to understand that some personalities just don't mesh. Out of all 3 of u siblings, my bro and sis know I get the most hell from her for anything at this point. I've always recognized it, but its good to see they recognize it too. So I don't be trying to be at her house like that. Maybe once every 2 or 3 weeks I'll come thru and chill for a while. Also I think she feels threatened with me having a serious chik. Women always want that full attention no matter the age.

 

[Bobby Reds]

So how do you let a girl know that you're concerned of her hygiene? I never noticed it was like this until I had her over my place but she was over my place and we were fukking every day Fr-Sun. She only took one shower, while I took a shower and brushed my teeth every night. I'm not even sure she brushed her teeth. And what is even more mind boggling to me is that she took a shower but that strange smell of moth balls was still on her. She's a real nice girl but what the fukk is with this smell I don't think I can deal with it.

You better go get checked out bruh.

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

I think alot...o ways thought the opposites attract thing was kind of cliche and not aplicable...I meam beyond you as the man being dominant and the girl follpwing your lead...you should be similar...cant be with some girl partying every sec and your more of a kobe or duncan vibe wise..

for me it depends, im quiet laid back and a homebody, i usually like my women opposite than me. I think though goals, financial aspirations, family, budgeting etc. are stuff that you need ot have in common

Y'all know I haven't dated much of my 20s.....just been smashing randoms but that's gotten old so I'm cool with actually dating girls now, talking regularly, getting to know them......

I'm dating a girl right now and personality wise I can see we are compatible...seem to have similar values.

but honestly we have no common interest.....She's not into sports (literally had no clue about the heat vs spurs), not really into hip hop culture (didn't know who dame dash was) or into the same music, hasn't seen the majority of movies I've mentioned to her. She's def a fun girl to be around. She's younger than me so I doubt it'll be a long term thing since we're at like different points of our lives....I'm not really trying to date seriously anyways but it makes me think how much should you really have in common with someone? I do think it's cool to actually learn about someone else and gain new interest from someone you're dating/your SO......but at one point does one find themselves compromising too much? I had an ex girlfriend who felt the same way and I remember her feeling like she lost herself being with me......

 

[OaklandCertified]

I was looking for videos of simps crying and ran across this dude and his videos. Simps Anonymous..he's kinda country, but he drops jewels.





Link to his video page

Sidenote, i want slap this nikka here...POWER SIMP!

 

[MikelArteta]

I was looking for videos of simps crying and ran across this dude and his videos. Simps Anonymous..he's kinda country, but he drops jewels.





Link to his video page

Sidenote, i want slap this nikka here...POWER SIMP!

simps are pathetic

 

[Motife43]

My fellow Atlanta brehs I needed this reaffirmation. I got this chick I'm feeling, been choppin it up the past week and she been throwing hints and whatnot. At this point I'm glad I even picked up on em to even pursue. Now I'm trying to feel her out, but don't want to come off as co-worker creep. Well tomorrow I'ma straight up ask her how she feels about me. Can't be treadmillin with this one, when it's plenty options outchea

UPDATE

Asked shawty what's good, she said she's "taken," I'll humbly move on. But I still think I can smash

Posted this damn near a month ago and decided another update was in order.

I went with my mind and blocked out all self-doubt and I was right, I can still smash. Last week shawty told me she broke up with her dude. I saw this was my in so I've pressed and put my bid in. One of my older homies told me "persistence beats resistance" and in this case it's worked. Felt up on her in a discrete location and she was with it. just gotta schedule a rendezvous so I can clap them petite cheeks.

Word the wise my friends, one of the surest way to avoid the friendzone is talk sexually with the chick, either she'llor she'll fukk with it. It won't guarantee you buns, but signals will never get mixed.