Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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A Pound & A Prayer
@EA thats what my friend was saying in the car. He was pissed at his girl (he was pissed at her all day apperently), and called to tell her he wasn't coming over. His girl was mad as hell at that.
My friend:"wenzel, your a nice guy, it pisses me of that she used you with no intention of actually wanting to be with you"
Me:"No need to be mad at your girl bro, It was my fault for being a simp, tricking out my money
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My friend:
Me:
I know how your friend feels. I've been on his end before and it's really frustrating when you see one of your boys get taken advantage of. This is one of the reasons why I don't like setting my boys up with girls because I'd feel partially responsible if it goes sour.
Also, She tends to have a usual frustration that happens towards the end of the nights as well.For example, like I mentioned, She was all
I think that was more of a lashing out @ my lack of aggression in closing the deal on multiple occasions. For her to hit my boy, who is right beside me (she might have been looking directly at me while she said it) and take the spot of her sister, and come with the
Which brings up another point...I have a problem closing out brehs
For example, like I mentioned, She was all"Why don't you drop wenzel off and come through" even though it wasn't her place to suggest that.
I think that was more of a lashing out @ my lack of aggression in closing the deal on multiple occasions. For her to hit my boy, who is right beside me (she might have been looking directly at me while she said it) and take the spot of her sister, and come with the"Why don't you drop Wenzel off". Makes me think she is calling me out.
Which brings up another point...I have a problem closing out brehs
the close out is easy if you take the initiative in the beginning...
Whatever your "game" is, you play it to your advantage...
Im hella laidback, but I use my "arrogance" and charm to my benefit.....
Then its a matter of reading the signs and going from there...
You have to maximize your strengths and hide your deficiencies
her frustration comes from the fact that she's dependent on you for the night. it's like you're taking care of her as far as her food and drinks but you're not her man, she doesn't see you as a close friend, not her family so the guidelines aren't clear. she doesn't know exactly how she should act around you. this is what's frustrating her. she feels insecure around you cause she knows you could throw that shyt in her face at some point. it's like she's trying to punk you before you punk her. defence mechanism on her part. you have to check her on her disrespect and hold to your guns if she thinks you're bluffing. she will continue challenging you if there are no consequences. that chick is too comfortable around you breh. i made a post earlier about awkwardness. if the chick is not cooperating with you, don't be afraid for the situation to take an awkward turn. matter of fact, embrace the awkwardness. show her you're not scared of making things even more awkward for her as a consequence to her disrespect.
For example, like I mentioned, She was all"Why don't you drop wenzel off and come through" even though it wasn't her place to suggest that.
I think that was more of a lashing out @ my lack of aggression in closing the deal on multiple occasions. For her to hit my boy, who is right beside me (she might have been looking directly at me while she said it) and take the spot of her sister, and come with the"Why don't you drop Wenzel off". Makes me think she is calling me out.
Which brings up another point...I have a problem closing out brehs
as far as the problem "closing out", what do you mean by that exactly?
that cam face
For example, like I mentioned, She was all"Why don't you drop wenzel off and come through" even though it wasn't her place to suggest that.
I think that was more of a lashing out @ my lack of aggression in closing the deal on multiple occasions. For her to hit my boy, who is right beside me (she might have been looking directly at me while she said it) and take the spot of her sister, and come with the"Why don't you drop Wenzel off". Makes me think she is calling me out.
Which brings up another point...I have a problem closing out brehs
VERY POWERFUL POSTING BREH, Ok, here is the thing, she is very cooperative. I don't know if this is because I'm buying for her, but we do what brehs do during the courting ritual: hand olding, arm rubbing, etc. It seems genuine tho. Your right she is comfortable around me, her more so then me. She is very uncooth, and surprisingly free spirited (she just randomly decided to sign herself up for karaoke, when I thought she was tryna sign me up on some sneak shyt) That is incredibly sexy to me. but that uncoothness leads her to saying what ever is on her mind freely, as well as open flirtation, she flirts any chance she gets tho she seems to show *some restraint. And if alcohol is involved.As she ain't my chick and from her admission has a guy (tho it didn't seem that he would be coming through last night), I'm playing this whole thing like
"you cool I'm feelin you, I'm sure you can tell, but I ain't gunna be all up in your face, especially since I don't got much to say" shyt. "you say you gotta dude, you flirting in my face. I'm not really sprung on you, except you hurting my pockets"Like I said I'm no practitioner of game, If I am really on my "put myself on the line" stylez, I tend to go for chicks I know are feeling me like I feel them, then think about what is this gunna end up being for me in the long run.
i think you need to charge that one to the game. you need to stop paying her way if you're not cool with it. she will most likely stop hanging out with you and if she does, let her go. it's pretty hard to change the deal once it's set. you need to figure out what exactly you want with her. from what you're saying, i think you want her to hang with you without having to pay for it. and maybe eventually you want her to fall for you naturally without you running game/doing any extra shyt. but if that's not it, figure out what it is exactly and go for that. if she's not with it, let her go. don't let her try to get you to compromise. but again, first, figure out what you want exactly.
As she ain't my chick and from her admission has a guy (tho it didn't seem that he would be coming through last night), I'm playing this whole thing like
Like I said I'm no practitioner of game, If I am really on my "put myself on the line" stylez, I tend to go for chicks I know are feeling me like I feel them, then think about what is this gunna end up being for me in the long run.
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KING
I happen to stumble across this quote to me which I thinks is powerful if you put some thought into it. I will elaborate later on what I have been learning not just about women but men as well . This quote to me is were I believe most mens head should be and this thread should be headed that way as well. I do however understand that we all come to this thread for many diffrent reasons...
Pook said: “I know how to get laid. I know how to make money. I know how to get a girlfriend. I know how to build a career. And yet why am I not happy?” “Because,” Pook continues, “My entire life has been focusing on everything except me.“
If you brehs haven't heard of the book of pook you should google it. Its a free Pdf and dare I say will change not just how you look at the "game" but hopefully yourselves as men. To me this is a MUST read for men of all ages.
Pook said: “I know how to get laid. I know how to make money. I know how to get a girlfriend. I know how to build a career. And yet why am I not happy?” “Because,” Pook continues, “My entire life has been focusing on everything except me.“
If you brehs haven't heard of the book of pook you should google it. Its a free Pdf and dare I say will change not just how you look at the "game" but hopefully yourselves as men. To me this is a MUST read for men of all ages.
2 more days brehs
ill be semi simping this weekend but im on vacay so it doesnt count.
ill be semi simping this weekend but im on vacay so it doesnt count.
bytch out here on kik saying she wanna fukk but she have a bf...and she'll find a way to fukk me
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this has nothing to do with your mouthpiece and you are obviously not a student of the game. if a bytch is flaky or takes ages to reply you throw her in the bushes. why were you going to a bar and spending 150 dollars on her ass AFTER she became incommunicative and disrespected you by telling you to order her some food. what kind of sucker shyt is that?
game. nically, I'm a student of the game, I know all the things to say and do. following body language, scenarios, etc. I see how my boys, and men in general apply the game (so wack, but it works...) I listen to Tariq Nasheed. I even knew that ish moves would result in this.
My problem is that even though I do know the game, very well, I think it's all corny. even though I can't eat without playing the game like everybody else, I just hate the manufactured interactions. I just wanna be my self. I don't want to talk about nothing, I don't want to cupcake, I don't wanna do none of the shyt espoused in the courting ritual.
I admit, my mouthpeice needs ALOT of improvement, but thats only because I choose not to do/say they usual shyt a regular nikka would do/say, even though I know it will work. Thats just not me to be fake just to get some wet.
I guess I was hoping things would be different.
you took simping to a whole nother level breh 
One more day 