Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Brehs I need help bad:snoop:........... tonight the girl who i went on the "outing" with I had to pay for her movie ticket and i had to pay for her food :damn:!!!!! and when we walked out she bumped into me and dropped her damn which wasnt even broken and fukking corner was and she wants me to pay 100$ for the shyt. we sat in the car and talked this chick "mz.independent" and "religious" is bullshyt this chick has had one night stands been fukked in the Jacuzzi i tried hard to go the sexual route with her in a subtle way but it wasn't budging i'm up here about to :fire: some body :damn::damn: any advice this shyt got me hating females right now
 

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Brehs I need help bad:snoop:........... tonight the girl who i went on the "outing" with I had to pay for her movie ticket and i had to pay for her food :damn:!!!!! and when we walked out she bumped into me and dropped her damn which wasnt even broken and fukking corner was and she wants me to pay 100$ for the shyt. we sat in the car and talked this chick "mz.independent" and "religious" is bullshyt this chick has had one night stands been fukked in the Jacuzzi i tried hard to go the sexual route with her in a subtle way but it wasn't budging i'm up here about to :fire: some body :damn::damn: any advice this shyt got me hating females right now
:camby:

She is just testing you to see what she can get away with. Delete the number and try again with someone else.
 

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Saw chick at work today(one that cancelled date on me last sunday and said we could go some other day) and she pratically ignored me:mindblown:
I ain't do shyt but respond to her text.
Her: excuse for not being able to chill, blah blah blah we could go some other day for sure.
Me: yeah sure.
Her:Thank you, soo sorry.
Me: Lol it's ok.

Now she ain't even try to acknowledge me?
nikkas did I do something wrong there?
Anyways :camby: that if she gon act crazy like that
You went about it all wrong with the text. It should have went something like this:

Her: excuse for not being able to chill, blah blah blah we could go some other day for sure.
Me: cool let me know
Her: Thank you, soo sorry

That's it, don't text her back again. She'll hit u if she wanna chill
 

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Brehs I need help bad:snoop:........... tonight the girl who i went on the "outing" with I had to pay for her movie ticket and i had to pay for her food :damn:!!!!! and when we walked out she bumped into me and dropped her damn which wasnt even broken and fukking corner was and she wants me to pay 100$ for the shyt. we sat in the car and talked this chick "mz.independent" and "religious" is bullshyt this chick has had one night stands been fukked in the Jacuzzi i tried hard to go the sexual route with her in a subtle way but it wasn't budging i'm up here about to :fire: some body :damn::damn: any advice this shyt got me hating females right now

No you don't, you're time is just as valuable as hers. She isn't doing you a favor by grabbing a bite n a flick
 

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Saw chick at work today(one that cancelled date on me last sunday and said we could go some other day) and she pratically ignored me:mindblown:
I ain't do shyt but respond to her text.
Her: excuse for not being able to chill, blah blah blah we could go some other day for sure.
Me: yeah sure.
Her:Thank you, soo sorry.
Me: Lol it's ok.

Now she ain't even try to acknowledge me?
nikkas did I do something wrong there?
Anyways :camby: that if she gon act crazy like that

why the fukk u care nikka? :wtf::wtf::wtf::wtf: Do you breh and for the 15TH MILLIONTH TIME...FORGET THIS BYTCH! fukk WHAT OR WHO SHE DOES.



Brehs I need help bad:snoop:........... tonight the girl who i went on the "outing" with I had to pay for her movie ticket and i had to pay for her food :damn:!!!!! and when we walked out she bumped into me and dropped her damn which wasnt even broken and fukking corner was and she wants me to pay 100$ for the shyt. we sat in the car and talked this chick "mz.independent" and "religious" is bullshyt this chick has had one night stands been fukked in the Jacuzzi i tried hard to go the sexual route with her in a subtle way but it wasn't budging i'm up here about to :fire: some body :damn::damn: any advice this shyt got me hating females right now

breh :snoop:

i'mma give you some heartfelt advice...and i really recommend you follow it. Leave the dating scene. If you do not, situations like the one u just described above will continue to happen and get 10x worst. That female you took out has ABSOLUTELY no interest in you whatsoever. She is a bytch and you are easy prey to her. She took advantage of you and the opportunity you presented to her..which was a free meal and movie. You ain't fukkin her. Not now or a decade from now. The faster you come to terms with this the better. I'mma need you to grab your phone and delete her number. Do not second guess or question this action AT ALL and just do it.

In the event that you do this, we can move on. You need to really find yourself breh. You need to establish principles, standards and guidelines people gotta follow when they come into contact with you or else bytches like shorty above gonna slide ride in and live rent free while you cover the expenses. Moreover, you need to do this not only to improve yourself with women..but to establish self-identity. Every person in this world has the potential to better and improve themselves...but people are just lazy and find it easier to just coast on by. Wanna get muscular and fit? Hit the gym and start eating right. Wanna make good money? Read up on investing and stocks. Wanna develop your social skills? Look for a job in retail or customer service that has you talkin with people all the time. And realize this....when it comes to women, they are not something you can own or control. They are different creatures. So whatever the fukk you do with them that you may think is good and all, they may view otherwise. Do not concern yourself with what people on this forum, television, the internet or in person are doing as that can play with your pschy. That goes for women too. If they do not like your approach or you as a person, fukk em. :camby:You are young i'm assuming, and you are only young once. So take this time now, to really discover yourself as a man as Enzo....because 10, 20 and even 30 years down the road...you wanna be able to say, i did myself good and i can live comfortably knowing that i achieved all that i could and became the best man i can be in the process. Nikka the feeling you'll get from that...:whoo:

other people got other priorities in life...but hey, that's on em.:yeshrug: you just do you nikka :ufdup:nothin else. Don't come back in here on some bullshyt about a broad breh....cuz if u do...:beli:

You went about it all wrong with the text. It should have went something like this:

Her: excuse for not being able to chill, blah blah blah we could go some other day for sure.
Me: cool let me know
Her: Thank you, soo sorry

That's it, don't text her back again. She'll hit u if she wanna chill

how did he go about it all wrong? :dahell:

it didn't matter what he said nikka...bytch didn't care. She just wanted her conscience clear. :stopitslime:
 

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why the fukk u care nikka? :wtf::wtf::wtf::wtf: Do you breh and for the 15TH MILLIONTH TIME...FORGET THIS BYTCH! fukk WHAT OR WHO SHE DOES.





breh :snoop:

i'mma give you some heartfelt advice...and i really recommend you follow it. Leave the dating scene. If you do not, situations like the one u just described above will continue to happen and get 10x worst. That female you took out has ABSOLUTELY no interest in you whatsoever. She is a bytch and you are easy prey to her. She took advantage of you and the opportunity you presented to her..which was a free meal and movie. You ain't fukkin her. Not now or a decade from now. The faster you come to terms with this the better. I'mma need you to grab your phone and delete her number. Do not second guess or question this action AT ALL and just do it.

In the event that you do this, we can move on. You need to really find yourself breh. You need to establish principles, standards and guidelines people gotta follow when they come into contact with you or else bytches like shorty above gonna slide ride in and live rent free while you cover the expenses. Moreover, you need to do this not only to improve yourself with women..but to establish self-identity. Every person in this world has the potential to better and improve themselves...but people are just lazy and find it easier to just coast on by. Wanna get muscular and fit? Hit the gym and start eating right. Wanna make good money? Read up on investing and stocks. Wanna develop your social skills? Look for a job in retail or customer service that has you talkin with people all the time. And realize this....when it comes to women, they are not something you can own or control. They are different creatures. So whatever the fukk you do with them that you may think is good and all, they may view otherwise. Do not concern yourself with what people on this forum, television, the internet or in person are doing as that can play with your pschy. That goes for women too. If they do not like your approach or you as a person, fukk em. :camby:You are young i'm assuming, and you are only young once. So take this time now, to really discover yourself as a man as Enzo....because 10, 20 and even 30 years down the road...you wanna be able to say, i did myself good and i can live comfortably knowing that i achieved all that i could and became the best man i can be in the process. Nikka the feeling you'll get from that...:whoo:

other people got other priorities in life...but hey, that's on em.:yeshrug: you just do you nikka :ufdup:nothin else. Don't come back in here on some bullshyt about a broad breh....cuz if u do...:beli:



how did he go about it all wrong? :dahell:

it didn't matter what he said nikka...bytch didn't care. She just wanted her conscience clear. :stopitslime:
u right.... u right breh this vacation can't come soon enough and thank god im quitting this job before the end of july cuz really that get at your co workers is just :pacspit:
 

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Brehs I need help bad:snoop:........... tonight the girl who i went on the "outing" with I had to pay for her movie ticket and i had to pay for her food :damn:!!!!! and when we walked out she bumped into me and dropped her damn which wasnt even broken and fukking corner was and she wants me to pay 100$ for the shyt. we sat in the car and talked this chick "mz.independent" and "religious" is bullshyt this chick has had one night stands been fukked in the Jacuzzi i tried hard to go the sexual route with her in a subtle way but it wasn't budging i'm up here about to :fire: some body :damn::damn: any advice this shyt got me hating females right now
what did i tell you? how the fukk did you have to pay for her ticket and food? ever heard of the word "no"? i would have just laughed at the bytch if she suggested i pay and made her feel stupid.

why do you always ask for advice and then do the complete opposite of what you've been told? i think i negged you once for trolling, don't make me do it again :ufdup:
 

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It's nothing wrong with paying for a date U just gotta know where u stand wigh the chick. I don't pay after the 3rd date especially if I ain't fukk yet.
8ball said it beat "I'll take them hoes out and get em something to eat but any real nikka will just to drill baby" that's my motto movies dinner and p*ssy

Nothing wrong with it at all if you can see a future together, even if it's short. Men just need to date more selectively and make sure you actually click with a joint before going out. When you first meet a joint see how the conversation flows. See how she answers your texts. Many don't do this but call, just to talk for a while. I've made that mistake in the past where I went out with a chick I didn't click with at all and it lead to me buying dinner and losing. In some ways you really are rolling the dice because women can have so many guys they're talking to and guys they're more interested in but they'll go out with someone who they're really not that interested in just because it's there, they're bored, nothing to do, they're paying and really they have nothing to lose.......so in some ways that homework before the date is just as important as the date. But at the end of the day it's really kinda just a sales pitch to tell her why she should be apart of your life.

I've learned to look at like this when you're paying for a date......A date is nothing more than inviting a chick into your life doing something you'd do anyway in your regular life but you're just bringing a young lady along for the ride to experience that with you. You cap on yourself when you start paying for shyt and doing all types of extra shyt you'd never do just to get a chick. I took a chick to a new restaurant I'd been wanting to try for a while tonight. I really didn't lose anything because I was going to try it with or without her....
 

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Nothing wrong with it at all if you can see a future together, even if it's short. Men just need to date more selectively and make sure you actually click with a joint before going out. When you first meet a joint see how the conversation flows. See how she answers your texts. Many don't do this but call, just to talk for a while. I've made that mistake in the past where I went out with a chick I didn't click with at all and it lead to me buying dinner and losing. In some ways you really are rolling the dice because women can have so many guys they're talking to and guys they're more interested in but they'll go out with someone who they're really not that interested in just because it's there, they're bored, nothing to do, they're paying and really they have nothing to lose.......so in some ways that homework before the date is just as important as the date. But at the end of the day it's really kinda just a sales pitch to tell her why she should be apart of your life.

I've learned to look at like this when you're paying for a date......A date is nothing more than inviting a chick into your life doing something you'd do anyway in your regular life but you're just bringing a young lady along for the ride to experience that with you. You cap on yourself when you start paying for shyt and doing all types of extra shyt you'd never do just to get a chick. I took a chick to a new restaurant I'd been wanting to try for a while tonight. I really didn't lose anything because I was going to try it with or without her....
i don't see why i should pay for a date. we are both getting to know each other. if she's not interested, she doesn't need to come. if she is interested, why should i pay for allowing her to get to know me? this is not 1950, where woman had no income of their own. if i want to spend money on a woman, i can buy a prostitute. if we both want to see if we can click, we can split the price for whatever it is we are doing together.
 

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Saw chick at work today(one that cancelled date on me last sunday and said we could go some other day) and she pratically ignored me:mindblown:
I ain't do shyt but respond to her text.
Her: excuse for not being able to chill, blah blah blah we could go some other day for sure.
Me: yeah sure.
Her:Thank you, soo sorry.
Me: Lol it's ok.

Now she ain't even try to acknowledge me?
nikkas did I do something wrong there?
Anyways :camby: that if she gon act crazy like that


Just fall back off her breh and keep it moving. Don't really trip off it. If she don't wanna kick with you then oh well on to the next, no hard feelings
 

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Nothing wrong with it at all if you can see a future together, even if it's short. Men just need to date more selectively and make sure you actually click with a joint before going out. When you first meet a joint see how the conversation flows. See how she answers your texts. Many don't do this but call, just to talk for a while. I've made that mistake in the past where I went out with a chick I didn't click with at all and it lead to me buying dinner and losing. In some ways you really are rolling the dice because women can have so many guys they're talking to and guys they're more interested in but they'll go out with someone who they're really not that interested in just because it's there, they're bored, nothing to do, they're paying and really they have nothing to lose.......so in some ways that homework before the date is just as important as the date. But at the end of the day it's really kinda just a sales pitch to tell her why she should be apart of your life.

I've learned to look at like this when you're paying for a date......A date is nothing more than inviting a chick into your life doing something you'd do anyway in your regular life but you're just bringing a young lady along for the ride to experience that with you. You cap on yourself when you start paying for shyt and doing all types of extra shyt you'd never do just to get a chick. I took a chick to a new restaurant I'd been wanting to try for a while tonight. I really didn't lose anything because I was going to try it with or without her....


That's some good ass advice
 

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Nothing wrong with it at all if you can see a future together, even if it's short. Men just need to date more selectively and make sure you actually click with a joint before going out. When you first meet a joint see how the conversation flows. See how she answers your texts. Many don't do this but call, just to talk for a while. I've made that mistake in the past where I went out with a chick I didn't click with at all and it lead to me buying dinner and losing. In some ways you really are rolling the dice because women can have so many guys they're talking to and guys they're more interested in but they'll go out with someone who they're really not that interested in just because it's there, they're bored, nothing to do, they're paying and really they have nothing to lose.......so in some ways that homework before the date is just as important as the date. But at the end of the day it's really kinda just a sales pitch to tell her why she should be apart of your life.

I've learned to look at like this when you're paying for a date......A date is nothing more than inviting a chick into your life doing something you'd do anyway in your regular life but you're just bringing a young lady along for the ride to experience that with you. You cap on yourself when you start paying for shyt and doing all types of extra shyt you'd never do just to get a chick. I took a chick to a new restaurant I'd been wanting to try for a while tonight. I really didn't lose anything because I was going to try it with or without her....
I try to avoid dates all together but if we're Vibing good then I'll go. Some women don't even need to be courted you can get the p*ssy so easy out here. But it's all good if you in it for sex you gotta play the game I'm beyond that I'm looking for something more in women
 
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