Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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btw im not evn hating but this is what happens when you have a dry spell/dont get attention/ need someone to feel complete you'll start settling for anyone and anything, the single mom, the chubby girl, the gold digger, the old hag
Hell yeah...I fell victim to this shyt in my last "relationship." I'm going through another dry spell now, but I guess you can say it's on purpose, since I haven't made much effort to try anything. Right now it's like "my mind's telling me no, but my body's telling me YASSSSS!!!" I have other things i need to concentrate on getting straight (nothing MAJOR, but they are quite important), but the "itch" is getting worse.
 

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How yall feel about dating someone at work that you have minimal contact with?

Ex. You only see her on the elevator, you work in completely separate departments?

I know, fron experience, someone you have constant contact with is a no, but this one...:noah: I want her brehs.
 

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How yall feel about dating someone at work that you have minimal contact with?

Ex. You only see her on the elevator, you work in completely separate departments?

I know, fron experience, someone you have constant contact with is a no, but this one...:noah: I want her brehs.

When you say separate departments? Are we talking different floors? Normally I wouldn't advise messing with someone in the same company.
 

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Seriously need some advice brehs. So I haven't had a prospect since Feb/March but this 44 y/o mexican chick i work with has recently told me she likes me and flirts with me almost everyday(We've worked together for 3 yrs). Her body is aight but her ass is :noah: and looks :obama: for a 44 y/o woman. I've only messed with one chick i worked with (19 y/o) but all we did was go out and eat then she quit a couple months after and i lost contact. She's blunt as hell though, another coworker was asking me if I like this chick who comes by the job often. Before I said anything she says "No novia Brandeezy. Only me, ok"? Then every time she sees me on my phone she always says "That better not be your Sancha (The other woman)". What makes it clear as day is that she always calls me by her last name, doesn't matter if the boss or other co workers are around or not so i'm not really worried about shytting where i eat because almost everyone knows about it so :manny:. Problem is that after work, that's the end of our convo, I don't have her number, Facebook, etc. plus I'm a shy dude (have mild Social Anxiety) so I'm really nervous to ask even though all the signs are there, but for some reason I have feelings for this woman. Don't get me wrong there have been some bad females to come through my job throughout the years but she's always on my mind and I never thought i would develop feelings for a woman 20+ yrs older than me, much less 10 but I have brehs :wow:. Other thing is that she has two kids (22 & 19). I've met the daughter who has 2 kids of her own already (I know :snoop:) but not the son which i think lives with either the dad or in Mexico idk. What makes things weird is that she flirts with me around her daughter, i'm looking like :merchant: but her daughter doesn't seemed to care. I'm off today but i work with her tomorrow, what should i do brehs :patrice:?

she playin bruh. If you young n handsome this happens a lot with older broads around that age, at least to me. They openly simp/thirst for laughs but they don't really mean it 100. She may genuinely find you attractive but won't commit to the idea of fukkin with you cause of the age dynamic and she assumes you're handsome enough to fukk with the women you find most attractive. (chicks your age)

This means you gotta make the first move, and doing so will most definitely lower your value. To her, to her coworkers and maybe even yourself. And if she plays you then it'll be 100x worse. If you gonna stake your work reputation on p*ssy, you might as well get some quality

Personal theory, but I don't think women openly simp/thirst dudes they think they have a chance with. Women will "YASSSS" "DAMN :takedat:" "he so fine:datazz:" dudes like Chris Breezy, 2pac, Idris, lightskin dude from the mugshot and anyone else who they think they don't have a chance of meeting, much less dating. But if they meet a dude IRL who's as attractive and into her she's gonna put on her:hmm: poker face and play hard to get. I guess nobody wants to start off as the simp in the relationship, male or female.

If she is really sprung and bout it she'll flirt in a less overt but more forward way.

For example I had a older woman coworker flirt with me but never escalate like she does you. I also had a coworker who was into me and was really bout the bullshyt. The former flirted on the clock and that was about it. The latter came up to me one day and asked me "are you going to take me home when i get off? :queen:"

You'll know the difference.
 

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Any of yall ever get annoyed by how much women talk? Like nonstop for hours...you be trying to sit at the dinner table with family...and its just like a nonstop motor...over the most random shyt
Yes. This is the only hitch I have w/ the girl I'm dating right now. She's great, but when she gets on the subject of her family, she talks A LOT. On the one hand, it's cool because part of the reason I fukk w/ her seriously is because she's so family oriented...but on the other hand I'm like :beli: when she's on the 3rd story about her fam and it's only noon. May just be a cultural thing.

That's my girl though. :blessed:

:shaq:
 

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The older I get the more I understand why George Clooney and Derek Jeter deal with women the way that they do. This current crop of women between the ages of 22-35 have no shelf life whatsoever. I'm deleting names from my phone today and giving women expiration dates since they spoil like milk.
 
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