Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I was just thinking,. are all these games and tricks really necessary?

Seems easier to find someone who's level headed and not Into that bs? Level headed women like that must exist no?
lol it depends. if you wanna get your dikk wet then its much harder to find a level headed women. if you are willing to sacrifice that and wait for a good girl who is also attractive then its possible but it may take a long time
 

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EDIT: In my own viewing, when a woman tells you she's confused, it's essentially an excuse to make another excuse, and excuse after excuse to desensitize what they did wrong. When a woman is confused, it always means she did something on her end. Therefore, the tactic of desensitization comes into play.

They use this tactic to create distance and time, 'time heals all', or so they believe. Then they come back all nice and sweet.

It also means, they're low-key admitting they were thinking ahead a.k playing games. These games are akin to white lies, and like snow add up over time and collapse on their selves like an avalanche. Stay silent but watch her, and when you see a thread in this tapestry she has constructed, pull on it, and it all un-ravels.

She will get defensive, and remember that by defensive I mean the simp mechanism. "Oh, she's crying, that was wrong of me!" No it wasn't. You did right. She did wrong. Keep that thought in your mind when that happens.


its funny, but you just brought a real point I was thinking about the other day. see women typically like to spin and soften their words in order to avoid the sting behind their intentions/actions.

a direct cousin/spin off of the "Im confused" thing is the "I need space" move. to me space is more or less the pretend break up before the break up. it usually comes into play when theyre hiding something or are in the process of writting the whole thing off, without telling you that theyre doing it. again, its nondirect and its a softened statement in order to avoid a confrontation or an outright explanation

thats why I stress looking at someones actions over their words, because what theyre saying might be purposely misleading

space is when shes cutting the ties and wants to soften up the end of the relationship without just coming out and saying it.
 

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its funny, but you just brought a real point I was thinking about the other day. see women typically like to spin and soften their words in order to avoid the sting behind their intentions/actions.

a direct cousin/spin off of the "Im confused" thing is the "I need space" move. to me space is more or less the pretend break up before the break up. it usually comes into play when theyre hiding something or are in the process of writting the whole thing off, without telling you that theyre doing it. again, its nondirect and its a softened statement in order to avoid a confrontation or an outright explanation

thats why I stress looking at someones actions over their words, because what theyre saying might be purposely misleading

space is when shes cutting the ties and wants to soften up the end of the relationship without just coming out and saying it.

Why can't I rep you, b.:dwillhuh:

Real shyt though.:jawalrus:
 

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I was just thinking,. are all these games and tricks really necessary?
Yes. You don't live in a world where family or society dictates a woman's choice of man anymore. Now women play by the game, because the game actually benefits women. Some make a living and a lifestyle from the game (not strictly hookers and diggers either). They have every intention and now every right of playing the game. And if women are playing, then if you want one, you are too.
But really all this game is is just a mating dance for humans. Embrace that shyt, you were made for it. If you learn to do it right, this shyt can be fun. I guarantee if you were having greater success you wouldn't feel the way you do.
Seems easier to find someone who's level headed and not Into that bs? Level headed women like that must exist no?
If it is easier, why haven't you found that person yet?

But you really want one, start checking for the ones that are 35+. But you gotta remember they're level headed NOW only because reality slapped their heads out the clouds. Remember, women love the game and they are out here playing it until age and youthful competition essentially forces them into retirement, like an old boxer. The cougars are the ones out here like the late Roy Jones Jr, suffering KO after KO trying to relive the glory days.
 

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I was just thinking,. are all these games and tricks really necessary?

Seems easier to find someone who's level headed and not Into that bs? Level headed women like that must exist no?
Me hope so...I think one may have to leave the country to find those sorts....
 
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