Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yoo in a weird way, im kinda glad i have to deal with the Lupus. I am way healthier than i've ever been ( Im 26 and i played high level soccer in highschool and some of college) , i understand and appreciate how certain food acts in my body and i am more aware of internal cues in body. Once you control what you put in your body and start reaping the benefits , everything else kinda starts to fall into place. You'll have more energy to do the things you love, you'll re-ignite that God given mental clarity and your aura ( i'm a big believer in energy/aura ) will shine bright as ever. We only get one body on this journey, it's best we treat it like a Temple :blessed:

that vegan life be fukkin these hoes head up . :blessed:
when i tell em they always are more interested in me :lolbron:
 
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when your fukkbuddy/girlfriend/wife disrespects you, whether you choose to stay with her or leave her is up to you. but whatever you do, don't act like a bytch. what i mean by that is, don't become a passive aggressive bytch who tries to make her feel more sorry. say what you gotta say and let her feel how she feels. if you don't think she truly regrets, leave her and let her be. don't try to make her feel more. with that approach, you will gain peace of mind. stop investing so much in how a chick feels about you. cause then you're giving her control since your satisfaction depends on how much remorse she feels.



And this why I said earlier in reply to a comment its better to be full on aggressive than passive aggressive.
 

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that's why you have to be a mixture of both to throw them off a bit. hot cold, good guy bad guy etc

or you could just be yourself and who cares if she goes


isnt it funny the women who will love you the most is your mom and you don't have to put on a front in front of her.


I ain't changing who i am for some random chick who is here today and gone tomorrow for what puzzy?
 

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or you could just be yourself and who cares if she goes


isnt it funny the women who will love you the most is your mom and you don't have to put on a front in front of her.


I ain't changing who i am for some random chick who is here today and gone tomorrow for what puzzy?
i def understand your point of view but that's why they call it "THE GAME" you either play or be played. if you want the girl majority of the time you have to play to win the game (((herman Edwards voice)))
 

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i def understand your point of view but that's why they call it "THE GAME" you either play or be played. if you want the girl majority of the time you have to play to win the game (((herman Edwards voice)))

i've never played any games.

I've had best friends fight over me, i've dated models, i've been engaged, ive been around the world and have got attention, i've never struggled to get a date with a beautiful woman or a relationship if i wanted.

it's sad that men don't realize the world is your oyster, there are so many single women out there that you don't have to conform to games, and hot and cold temperatures for thots who are here today and gone tomorrow.

I'd rather be myself because in the end that's who you are
 

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i've never played any games.

I've had best friends fight over me, i've dated models, i've been engaged, ive been around the world and have got attention, i've never struggled to get a date with a beautiful woman or a relationship if i wanted.

it's sad that men don't realize the world is your oyster, there are so many single women out there that you don't have to conform to games, and hot and cold temperatures for thots who are here today and gone tomorrow.

I'd rather be myself because in the end that's who you are
who cares whether they are here today and gone tomorrow if that's the type of chick you want to deal with? lol now if you are looking for a relationship with these girls then yea I see what you are saying but if you just want sex from them then there is nothing wrong with playing the game is all im sayin
 

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My girl been on some bs lately. Not fukking as much as we use to (hardly ever), she goes out a little more than she use to and the vibe just ain't there.

I think she might be mentally checking out brehs.... Not sure if she's fukking someone else but I wouldn't be surprised.

She still nags me and shyt so I know she at least cares a little bit....but idk ....

Drop some game on me brehs
 

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My girl been on some bs lately. Not fukking as much as we use to (hardly ever), she goes out a little more than she use to and the vibe just ain't there.

I think she might be mentally checking out brehs.... Not sure if she's fukking someone else but I wouldn't be surprised.

She still nags me and shyt so I know she at least cares a little bit....but idk ....

Drop some game on me brehs
your princess is in another castle

start planning your exit strategy
 

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your princess is in another castle

start planning your exit strategy

I feel you breh. Been leaning towards just going back to my savage ways and chalking it
Up as a L.

She is a good girl, good to my daughter (she's not the mom) ...and I have gave her a good share of bullshyt to deal with (texting other girls etc...)

Idk ....
 

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My girl been on some bs lately. Not fukking as much as we use to (hardly ever), she goes out a little more than she use to and the vibe just ain't there.

I think she might be mentally checking out brehs.... Not sure if she's fukking someone else but I wouldn't be surprised.

She still nags me and shyt so I know she at least cares a little bit....but idk ....

Drop some game on me brehs
always ask yourself why are you staying with the chick. once you come up with reasons, check to see how many of these reasons are things she is doing right now VS the stuff you hope will change in the future or the stuff that used to be in the past.
in other words, what is she bringing to the table? i don't play around with that sex shyt either. unless she's sick or someone close is sick/died (and even that shyt is acceptable to a point), your chick should feel like if she don't fukk, she might get dumped.
 

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always ask yourself why are you staying with the chick. once you come up with reasons, check to see how many of these reasons are things she is doing right now VS the stuff you hope will change in the future or the stuff that used to be in the past.
in other words, what is she bringing to the table? i don't play around with that sex shyt either. unless she's sick or someone close is sick/died (and even that shyt is acceptable to a point), your chick should feel like if she don't fukk, she might get dumped.


Yea the no sex part is crazy. Sometimes I just feel like I need to just cut her off just to see if she makes a effort to be around. Even if she did tho ...what would that really prove
 

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My girl been on some bs lately. Not fukking as much as we use to (hardly ever), she goes out a little more than she use to and the vibe just ain't there.

I think she might be mentally checking out brehs.... Not sure if she's fukking someone else but I wouldn't be surprised.

She still nags me and shyt so I know she at least cares a little bit....but idk ....

Drop some game on me brehs

sadly its the thing most men don't want to hear she iss emotionally detaching. There really isn't anything you can do, its like a terminal disease Doctors will tell you there's hope, there's a experimental drug, you read about the 10% of people who beat a terminal disease, but in reality deep down you know its over.

Honestly as a man as you gain wisdom and date more people etc. you gain more knowledge, I've always been able to pick up the signs when a woman's attraction for me was changing or when she was drawing away.

Whether it was a girl not saying she loved me when she always did before, or the picture of us that she had on her dresser was no longer there, or the cute little name she had for you changed, or the sex, emotions got less, or just the short convos, you feel that feeling and know its done but you hope its not.

you can either confront
wait it out till dem thangs drop on you
or the thing i always do is check out myself :manny:

i'll never be mr screenshot or mr what's wrong or mr. we feel different etc.
 
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Yea the no sex part is crazy. Sometimes I just feel like I need to just cut her off just to see if she makes a effort to be around. Even if she did tho ...what would that really prove
when you start thinking that way you might as well leave. this is what we were speaking in earlier about the passive agressive shyt. it's not worth it. either instruct her on what you want her to do and watch if she does it or not without giving her an ultimatum (and be ready for her to leave at anytime) OR leave right away.
 
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