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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Guys in here still saying they dont have game or they not playing the game . And funny thing is I was thinking about what does the game and my game mean to me at this age today. Im come back later cause I wanna gather my thoughts and articulate my thoughts the best way possible
i dont play any games, like i said I've never chased a woman, there is the door. I'm not the one doing alpha/beta ish. I do what I want, if i feel like buying a thot flowers ill buy a thot flowers, if i feel like not doing anything for valentines day I won't. If i feel like talking about my life I will if that makes her feel different then shrugs. If i feel like texting ima text, if i dont feel like im not.
EQ.
Mansur Brown - "Heiwa"
I think the difference is IMO that guys should be playing a game that has distinct specifiic rules with the objectives are known to all parties involved. Females always seem to be playing games where they arbitrarily change the rules, change the objectives, penalize you for following their rules and the reward the guy who didn't play at all
For me i play a simple " My name is Macko, i dig your energy and i think we should grab a tea and connect, here is my number" type game. If she calls we can go ahead grab some tea which will allow me to establish if she is worth the risk to keep seeing/invest time in ,if she doesn't call i go ahead and grab that tea by myself because i love tea 
You can develop all these tips, strategies and techniques, aka what is to many the modern concept of 'having game.' You can do all sorts of stunts in order to trick a woman into dealing with you, but for what? What is she offering for you to create a brand new personality or to expend significant extra effort? When it comes down to it, sooner or later, you're going to get tired of playing all of these games and putting up a smokescreen to distract this woman from your real personality, and she's eventually going to see who you are. I'd much rather put my real personality up front and let her see if that's what she wants. If she does, let's make that move. If she doesn't, she can keep it pushing and I won't be mad at her at all for doing so.
Yeah, you can do all this clownishness to get the attention of some broads, but for what? That's like some broad juggling tennis balls and singing while dressed in a trashbag to get attention from dudes. You might look at her, but eventually you say, man something's wrong with her. These pua, i'm sooo alpha type of dudes are the male version of that. Most of these dudes learned a few tricks to sleep with hoes and now all of a sudden they are bodybuilding, viking, mma warriors mixed with alexander the great and two steps from bill gates financial status.
Bottom line is, if the woman doesn't like you for you, what do you want her to like? A mirage you're putting up? And be real, any of those women you catch with that nonsense... where are they at now?
Yeah, you can do all this clownishness to get the attention of some broads, but for what? That's like some broad juggling tennis balls and singing while dressed in a trashbag to get attention from dudes. You might look at her, but eventually you say, man something's wrong with her. These pua, i'm sooo alpha type of dudes are the male version of that. Most of these dudes learned a few tricks to sleep with hoes and now all of a sudden they are bodybuilding, viking, mma warriors mixed with alexander the great and two steps from bill gates financial status.
Bottom line is, if the woman doesn't like you for you, what do you want her to like? A mirage you're putting up? And be real, any of those women you catch with that nonsense... where are they at now?
It ain't easy, but like you said, you notice things like her hanging with shady friends. In this thread, it seems like we say kick her to the curb to everything, but as dudes are finding out, when the little signals pop up, as much as we'd like for them not to be true, it is what it is. More times than not, we know what happens next. When a woman starts acting a certain way, aka distant, busy, etc., she's getting ready to check out.
Honestly, I wouldn't ditch her right now because of the emotional attachment you have for her and your daughter, but keep on watching the signals and emotionally prepare yourself that if she were to walk out, you won't be devastated. See how it plays out, but be prepared for her walking or you discovering something.
I keep saying focus on things other than women and to find completion outside of women, because in this day and age, women are transitory. She could be smiling and hugging you today and ice cold tomorrow.
pretty much
id rather be myself, like i always say you can be the most boring person on the world but if a woman likes you she will find that cute.
screw all that mystique, chameleon shape shifting for a woman
Youseenmywork
KING
GAME ...
I believe we all have game even if some of us are at a diffrent levels. Each one of us has something that is unique and very attractive ...attractive enought that it attracts certain women for better or for worse. The reason a women is attracted to you is because of that unique quality and 9/10 they lack this quality themselves and they hope by talking to you they can understand it and hopeful better understand you. Women from my experience also like a man were she dosent have to your mama ...but this dosent mean she will not test you to me its in a womens nature to test a man to constantly up grade the protection if you will.
You may not be a Christian but hear me out . Adam was the first man that GOD created he marveled Gods work and put him in charge if you will but God aslo said it not good for a man to be alone and then created eve. GOD had 1 request you can a nything in this world but dont eat of the tree of knowledge. Its my theory that women learned how to manipulate and communicate cleverly from satin cause im pretty sure what eve told adam to eat the fruit is what satin told her. See this is were us men have to guide women threw their goofness they are not as logical and rational as we are. There evolutionary purpose is to have one man marry that man and have kids. A mans evolutionary purpose is to go threw as many or until he finds the one for him. The beautiful thing about a mans evolutionary purpose is all the exploring we do threw traveling diffrent dialogue with diffrent cultures and yes we go threw our up in downs trying to be kings in this world and of our own world but this adds to our game ...we will ALWAYS be a hunter gather not even society can change that. I read an intreast definition on game from the rational mal website :
At its root level Game is a series of behavioral modifications to life skills based on psychological and sociological principles to facilitate intersexual relations between genders.
Keyword LIFE SKILLS ...women is only one life skill. You as a man are constantly modifying life skills and yourself along the way this is what gives you that aura of "I wonder what this guy is like" which is game. For many of you in this thread dont be like the characters in the wizard of Oz some of yall looking confidence, courage, what to do when she flakes , when text messages is a lil off and one worded . You have everything you need on the inside ...and listen to what your GUT is telling you.
Lastly the guys claiming they dont have game are funny to me ...if they would sit down with the women that is draw to them and ASK what drew you to me and just listen ...a lot of guys would be shocked hell some of you might take something away and get better. And yes @Turbulent I feel what you saying by not giving a fukk and no ego and just at peace I call these guys naturals in life ...its just something about them like their just a "rock" I get this feeling when I listen to patrice, or my mentors. And not just with women with life in general . I say I have GAME cause of my grandmothers they looked for me when I was younger my dads father to he was an ex- pimp so he knew A LOT about women ...they would say ...We taught you better than that ...and Damn if they not right .
I believe we all have game even if some of us are at a diffrent levels. Each one of us has something that is unique and very attractive ...attractive enought that it attracts certain women for better or for worse. The reason a women is attracted to you is because of that unique quality and 9/10 they lack this quality themselves and they hope by talking to you they can understand it and hopeful better understand you. Women from my experience also like a man were she dosent have to your mama ...but this dosent mean she will not test you to me its in a womens nature to test a man to constantly up grade the protection if you will.
You may not be a Christian but hear me out . Adam was the first man that GOD created he marveled Gods work and put him in charge if you will but God aslo said it not good for a man to be alone and then created eve. GOD had 1 request you can a nything in this world but dont eat of the tree of knowledge. Its my theory that women learned how to manipulate and communicate cleverly from satin cause im pretty sure what eve told adam to eat the fruit is what satin told her. See this is were us men have to guide women threw their goofness they are not as logical and rational as we are. There evolutionary purpose is to have one man marry that man and have kids. A mans evolutionary purpose is to go threw as many or until he finds the one for him. The beautiful thing about a mans evolutionary purpose is all the exploring we do threw traveling diffrent dialogue with diffrent cultures and yes we go threw our up in downs trying to be kings in this world and of our own world but this adds to our game ...we will ALWAYS be a hunter gather not even society can change that. I read an intreast definition on game from the rational mal website :
At its root level Game is a series of behavioral modifications to life skills based on psychological and sociological principles to facilitate intersexual relations between genders.
Keyword LIFE SKILLS ...women is only one life skill. You as a man are constantly modifying life skills and yourself along the way this is what gives you that aura of "I wonder what this guy is like" which is game. For many of you in this thread dont be like the characters in the wizard of Oz some of yall looking confidence, courage, what to do when she flakes , when text messages is a lil off and one worded . You have everything you need on the inside ...and listen to what your GUT is telling you.
Lastly the guys claiming they dont have game are funny to me ...if they would sit down with the women that is draw to them and ASK what drew you to me and just listen ...a lot of guys would be shocked hell some of you might take something away and get better. And yes @Turbulent I feel what you saying by not giving a fukk and no ego and just at peace I call these guys naturals in life ...its just something about them like their just a "rock" I get this feeling when I listen to patrice, or my mentors. And not just with women with life in general . I say I have GAME cause of my grandmothers they looked for me when I was younger my dads father to he was an ex- pimp so he knew A LOT about women ...they would say ...We taught you better than that ...and Damn if they not right .
i have no game im telling you, every women who has been attracted to me just found me handsome, its nothing i said nothing I did.
Youseenmywork
KING
Men also have to remember dating is a numbers game you just cant sit in a starbucks and get mad that no women approached you it dont work that way for men. You have to hunt what you beleive you can catch ...for me its black women and Latin women thats what I feel most comfortable hunting. I know that im have to talk to 4 girls for one of them to like me . That is of course If I feel like taking that time out my day. If they like you coo if not you got other plates to spin 
honestly brehs its kind of disgusting now
if i stop posting and end up like jodi arias dead boyfriend, remember me
and no there isnt any me deleting messages to show hey look at me type ish
if i stop posting and end up like jodi arias dead boyfriend, remember me
and no there isnt any me deleting messages to show hey look at me type ish
Men also have to remember dating is a numbers game you just cant sit in a starbucks and get mad that no women approached you it dont work that way for men. You have to hunt what you beleive you can catch ...for me its black women and Latin women thats what I feel most comfortable hunting. I know that im have to talk to 4 girls for one of them to like me . That is of course If I feel like taking that time out my day. If they like you coo if not you got other plates to spin
i've never approached a woman, i'm not even lying.
The only women in my life I felt like i had to approach cracked after a month
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I Am A God
Everything @Emperor_ReinScarf is saying is dead on...
Experience is a beautiful thing. A girl I was talking to all summer started getting distant last week and I didn't even trip, where as in the past I would thought nothing of her distance, assumed she was just busy, had something else going on in her life and thought it was no big deal. If you ask her what's wrong she'll say nothing and as a guy would just be like
, I guess it's all good when you know for sure it's not. In the past when I was less experienced and didn't realize how many other women I could have, I would have chased her down, denied the inevitable and needed closure (experience has taught me there's no need for that, it's fools gold and you never really get it)....I just let it go. I already knew what it was. Women really have a way of phasing you out of their lives that most men will never notice. I'm blessed to see it multiple times in my life and immediately be able to pick up on it and cut her off when it happens.
Funny, she just sent me a text now. Going to ignore her.
Experience is a beautiful thing. A girl I was talking to all summer started getting distant last week and I didn't even trip, where as in the past I would thought nothing of her distance, assumed she was just busy, had something else going on in her life and thought it was no big deal. If you ask her what's wrong she'll say nothing and as a guy would just be like
, I guess it's all good when you know for sure it's not. In the past when I was less experienced and didn't realize how many other women I could have, I would have chased her down, denied the inevitable and needed closure (experience has taught me there's no need for that, it's fools gold and you never really get it)....I just let it go. I already knew what it was. Women really have a way of phasing you out of their lives that most men will never notice. I'm blessed to see it multiple times in my life and immediately be able to pick up on it and cut her off when it happens.Funny, she just sent me a text now. Going to ignore her.
Everything @Emperor_ReinScarf is saying is dead on...
Experience is a beautiful thing. A girl I was talking to all summer started getting distant last week and I didn't even trip, where as in the past I would thought nothing of her distance, assumed she was just busy, had something else going on in her life and thought it was no big deal. If you ask her what's wrong she'll say nothing and as a guy would just be like
Funny, she just sent me a text now. Going to ignore her.
I've never been wrong
years ago i was dating a girl, she always ended every phone call with I love you reincar. She ended up going on vacation, called me every day when on vacation then it stopped. When she finally called again she never said I loved you. I was like
, she came back told me cheated on me on vacay that was the end of that Another time talked to this chick all the same, would text me all day long. 4 days went by with not a peep from her, then through text I got the we need the talk. I already knew it was over
then the story i mentioned above the dresser part, picture of me and this chick kissing was always on her dresser, i was there like every week sleeping over etc., one day i go there and its no longer on the dresser, she was "cleaning", i felt something was up and yep had them thangs dropped on me.
Now im the type if i feel a girl is going distant etc. i just say
, it may be hardcore but i delete her number and get on with my life. Last girl I messed with earlier in this year I did that, and now 6 months later she won't leave me alone (i still will never utter another word to her). I took the power away, what women expect is for a guy to be like is there anything wrong?, i havent heard from you in awhile are you ok? I love you so much/like you so much how do you feel about me. Honestly as a man if you are smart on your game and pick up the signs you should never get dumped again. I've never met a woman who just dumps a guy like that, its a thought out process.
Youseenmywork
KING
One of the problems I see with a lot of men is EGO. If your girl really left you what would you REALLY miss about her ? Some of you would say the routine(whichs is what women miss)but its really an ego thing cause with men its a possession thing. Its like if you have 5 watches but you only wear one but somebody steals one of the other ones it going to make you mad cause its just a possession thing like even if you not wearing them you dont w a nt nobody else to have them its boils down to possession. Dont let your ego get in the way .
Youseenmywork
KING
i've never approached a woman, i'm not even lying.
The only women in my life I felt like i had to approach cracked after a month
Well I approach women ...but if I smell the BS ...conversation or the vibe is off
Dont get it twisted my heart for these women look like the inside batcave ...it a lot of detective work going on thoe