Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[BreezyH]

is it worth pursing a chick that claims shes not looking for a relationship?

if a woman say that or talks down on herself - believe her! she's preemptively telling you what's wrong because she knows she cant maintain a facade.

 

[Rich Spirit]

is it worth pursing a chick that claims shes not looking for a relationship?

Maybe she's not looking 4 a relationship w/you

 

[Mr210]

2 questions fellas:

What are your thoughts about having sex with a chick who is on her period, does it determine how far into her period she is, or if she is some random chick or your gf

second question, do any of you wear like boots (ie timberland or polo boots) during the summer or fall with jeans say to go out to eat in the evening/night

 

[360dagod]

2 questions fellas:

What are your thoughts about having sex with a chick who is on her period, does it determine how far into her period she is, or if she is some random chick or your gf

second question, do any of you wear like boots (ie timberland or polo boots) during the summer or fall with jeans say to go out to eat in the evening/night

I would wear timbs in the summer if my feet could handle them still...

Either ACGS or

^^^^these are boots as well

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

Maybe she's not looking 4 a relationship w/you

she has never seen me to know that

Spoiler

social networking site

 

[Yup]

Stop replying to yup

Women are always on that give her another chance, she still loves you, you never know it could work out type bs.

Don't listen to them.


The only women who will ever give you good advice is your mother

So you dictate now who can speak to me. You need to let go of your incessant need for control breh

 

[Yup]

I think in any human relationship, you sometimes need to earn the social capital (for lack of a better term) before you can make those type of mistakes - specifically, not showing up for a first date.

You only get one chance to make a first impression, do people make mistakes?

Of course they do, however, I think the gentleman made an informed decision based on his experiences - interactions, reading, etc. - and I agree with it. Could that girl have been a great woman? Possibly, however, in a planet filled with 7 billion people more great ones will come along.

He stood on his principle, and you can't make decisions based on a fear of what you may lose, you can only live by your principles.

Had they went out on a couple of dates where both had already invested time into getting to know each other, and personalities were familiar to each other, and then she mistakenly missed a date -- at that point, perhaps, he can give her another chance since he is better able to ascertain the situation and make an informed decision based on what he already knows about her.

To stray from his principles though, and give someone a second chance, after he already made his initial investment offer, based on an uknown possibliity that she may be a great girl isn't wise if it's going against what his gut is telling him to do.

Time invested is extremely valuable and the gentleman freed his schedule up for a first date where the woman did not show up, he's already in the red - cut your losses and give that initial (emphasis on initial - because I believe you can earn social capital to make mistakes) opportunity to a woman who shows value in not only her time but in yours as well.

Very well articulated, thx for your poin6 of view. It is true first impression matters I was looking fron the girls perspective that if she acknowledged her mistake is she not deserving of another chance.
Had he explained it like you...it would give me something to think about. Women do not fully understand men and men do not fully understand women. I just can't get with the generalizations and attempt to sum a whole gender with ni nuance at all.
Thx again for your reply.

 

[aaaaaaa]

@aaaaaaa

If this thread really about finding a wife, then we need to answer our shortcomings. (If this thread is just about gettin' sex, I'm in the wrong place) Or we're no different than the "airheads" we can't seem to stand. "Insecure" is a weapon many women use, but, that doesn't all of the sudden make the concept invalid.

Anyone comes off as insecure when they hate critique so much, they can't take it and truly examine themselves. And whether you agree with or not isn't the crux of insecurity, it's your response. I've never been one not to handle being wrong. But, that's gonna take you proving me wrong. That's why I asked you to elaborate.

When talk about "middle ground," I'm basically sayin'; the world isn't filled with either nuns or Supahead. There's a middle ground that's in between the two extremes. That's just being realistic. I don't think we're talking about the same thing.

But, back to "experience," we're obviously on two different roads. I was talking about life experience--not just sexual experience. But, as for your definition, I think it's too linear. Yes, women desire experience. I just think it's weird to judge a woman based on the guys who've tried to attract her. I feel like I'd go too long explaining, though.

But, a lot of posters suggest gettin' a young woman to "mold" her and that's corny to me. A lot of brehs think too highly of themselves if they believe they are qualified to "mold" another human being. And a lot of does have to do with the fact; the assumption is you have more experience (yes, intelligence is gained from experience and time).

I understand the concept of wanting a younger women. I just think it's sleezy to prey on someone younger than you because you can take advantage of their lack of experience and you can assumed power of them. But, if you want to build a relationship on vain pursues like looks and assumptions of fertility (c'mon, breh, the fertitly of a 20 and 30 y.o. ain't that drastic).

Don't insult me, because you don't understand/agree with me. That's the tactic of a "dumbass." An intelligent person will just reason with a better argument. I'm a grown man, I'm not here for all that. If you took anything personally, I apologize. But, don't play me like that.

EDIT:

The max salary (according to Google) of a WNBA team is 100K.

That's like a dentist salary.

nah man. Everything you said is just stupid. You think it's weird to judge a woman on the guys who've tried to attract her? What the fukk does that mean?

Experience is something you gain with age. Experience for a woman is just another word for old.

There's a ton of reasons men want young, impressionable women for any serious relationship. Same reason women want strong, self made men. It's ying and yang. You go ahead and wife up those head strong, ball busters with your "secure" ass and see how that relationship plays out

The way you're phrasing things shows you're brainwashed by feminism. it's not sleezy or predatory to go after younger women. It's natural. And yes men should marry women with less power and experience over them. I suppose you think women are all gold digging hoes because they don't wanna marry a man making minimum wage while they're making $40 an hour.

It's funny how you're talking about pursuing relationships on vain qualities like looks. nikka I just gave you an example.

Do you think women pursuing 6'2" guys over 5'4" guys is vain?

Is it sleezy and predatory that women go after richer, higher status men?

And do you think it's pompous of women to want to fix up and mold their men, which they all do?

Man, you're just white knighting women for the heck of it. Everything you said can be turned around on women twice as hard

 

[LezJepzin]

Been wanting to get at this girl at my job for sometime now (different department) . She's a bad yellowbone , nice body, hella cool to talk to. She told me last month that she had a man and been seeing him for seven years. I was thinking, time to move on but she told me he was planning to move back to North Carolina where he has a farm at. She's not going with him unless he puts a ring on it.

Fast forward to now: She's been low-key flirting with me for the past two weeks. I wanna see what's up and ask her out but I don't wanna feel like a rebound . Afterall, she was with that country boy for seven years.

I think homeboy had commitment issues because she looks like a catch to me

 

[Yup]

Been wanting to get at this girl at my job for sometime now (different department) . She's a bad yellowbone , nice body, hella cool to talk to. She told me last month that she had a man and been seeing him for seven years. I was thinking, time to move on but she told me he was planning to move back to North Carolina where he has a farm at. She's not going with him unless he puts a ring on it.

Fast forward to now: She's been low-key flirting with me for the past two weeks. I wanna see what's up and ask her out but I don't wanna feel like a rebound . Afterall, she was with that country boy for seven years.

I think homeboy had commitment issues because she looks like a catch to me

Did she leave him? Maybe you need to ensure that before you go further with this relationship.

 

[LezJepzin]

Did she leave him? Maybe you need to ensure that before you go further with this relationship.

Been trying to get a chance to talk to her privately for the past week now. My homie said they did already but I need to know from her first.

 

[Yup]

Been trying to get a chance to talk to her privately for the past week now. My homie said they did already but I need to know from her first.

Wish you the best but you should make sure. Id hate for you to invest too much emotion just be duped

 

[Mr210]

Am I the only guy who keeps finding woman who keep dudes in their life that they have had prior sexual relationships with, while on the flip they have an issue with me doing so (ie keeping females ive had prior relationships with)

it gets frustrating some time

 

[Yup]

Am I the only guy who keeps finding woman who keep dudes in their life that they have had prior sexual relationships with, while on the flip they have an issue with me doing so (ie keeping females ive had prior relationships with)

it gets frustrating some time

Point out the double standard and if they don't like it then move on to someone else.

 

[Mr210]

Point out the double standard and if they don't like it then move on to someone else.

Oh trust me, i do, ive done it like 5 times in the past 6 or so months