Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[NormanConnors]

I mentioned a few weeks ago that she had been getting distant but I decided to give it some time before making a decision. We had a huge fight over something insignificant, I said I'm done with this nonsense and she repeated that she's done as well. She started crying and I said "I'm sorry," then we hung up.

She sent me the guilty/emotional texts for the rest of the day and I caved in and met up with her. I have always been afraid of being the bad guy and her texts hit me in the gut. We met up, she said how much she still wants to be with me, and we agreed to talk things out on Thursday in order to see how to move forward. I'm too soft out here.


A little over a year.

Don't become another statistic breh . She's just acting out of emotion because of the time y'all have been together, a year is nice deposit. Women are like actors all of that crying shyt stops when it's time to turn the page on the script. I've learned the hard way

 

[Fatboi1]

Never be friends with exes.I can see being cordial if it's your child's mom but NEVER be friends with exes.After all jobs don't stay in contact with employees they fire

Now I gotta come up with reasons why I can't drop her off downtown or whatnot when my car is parked outside. .

 

[DaRealness]

This is a serious question a dude asked on a Facebook group page:

My gf cheating on me after she found out that I was let go from my job. Then a month later I work for a new company and she's been hitting me back up. What should I do? We been dating for 3 years and idk if I'm ever gonna find love.

 

[MikelArteta]

This is a serious question a dude asked on a Facebook group page:

My gf cheating on me after she found out that I was let go from my job. Then a month later I work for a new company and she's been hitting me back up. What should I do? We been dating for 3 years and idk if I'm ever gonna find love.

some guys are so puzzy whipped its disgusting.

 

[DaRealness]

some guys are so puzzy whipped its disgusting.

People are laying into him now as we speak.

 

[MikelArteta]

Reincar said a great quote "women wanna be at end of the assembly line not beginning".This is true folks.If a man was struggling and had a roach infested apartment in 2014 he would be clowned and laughed at.A woman in 2014 would fail to understand that one day that apartment could be a mansion in which they can have a happy,healty long marriage as with the case with Reincar folks.I read a story about a man who took his bicycle to a restaurant to meet a woman,she threw him in the bushes (no pun) because he rode a bike.At end of story come to find out he was a successful CEO who loved cycling.What I'm trying to say is let women have their fun now because when we all get our success we will be one to be picky

its true its true, women don't want to be there with you when your in the roach infested sketchy area apartment, eating ramon noodles and mac and cheesse for dinner as you working on your degree, they want to be there when your making 50k a year with a condo and a car.

Imagine doing group work and you have to do all the work and at the end they show up and put their name on teh paper how would you feel?


Just look at the few questions a women asks you at first, so what do you do for a living (to size up how much you make), and where do you live (to get a gist of what area you live in terms of rent per month or housing value)


How many women out there in terms of relaitonships or marriage will stay if you have a 60k job and a condo then lose your job and have to move back home?

how many

 

[MikelArteta]

Never be friends with exes.I can see being cordial if it's your child's mom but NEVER be friends with exes.After all jobs don't stay in contact with employees they fire

the thing is women exes always win in terms of friendships. They can find guys so easily and start dating, and living the life and just string you along as a backup.

I remember when I was friends with my ex, she was dating, clubbing partying all the time, 5,000 instagram followers and all that. I said nothing.

The moment I started to casually date oh no that's when the "we wont be as close as we were before", "whose that I don't like her", or started to come on to me to sabotage my new prospects.

I'm not equating rape to anything, rape is horrible and i feel sorry for all rape victims, but being around your ex is like a rape victim seeing her/his perpetrator, it may be years, you may have thought you recovered but just seeing them can bring on a rage of emotions.

again im not comparing the two situations bla bla just saying.

Once I'm done with a girl that's it. I always "accept friendship" as i delete them from my phone and any other contact, and i ignore their text messages and phone calls till my nubmer is changed and don't communicate with them again.

I was engaged before and I remeber we broke up like august 20th 2007, its been 7 years and I've never contacted her once, freindw ith exes not for me

 

[Rocket Scientist]

its true its true, women don't want to be there with you when your in the roach infested sketchy area apartment, eating ramon noodles and mac and cheesse for dinner as you working on your degree, they want to be there when your making 50k a year with a condo and a car.

Imagine doing group work and you have to do all the work and at the end they show up and put their name on teh paper how would you feel?


Just look at the few questions a women asks you at first, so what do you do for a living (to size up how much you make), and where do you live (to get a gist of what area you live in terms of rent per month or housing value)


How many women out there in terms of relaitonships or marriage will stay if you have a 60k job and a condo then lose your job and have to move back home?

how many

It's 100% true.I met women that straight out ask me if I ever was in military,fraternity and what's my occupation.It was one of first things out their mouth.It wasn't if I was a Christian or not.Status means everything to women it seems.That's reason you will never see a female lawyer married to a man who delivers pizza.That group work analogy like I always said a dog will give more loyalty then some women.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Now I gotta come up with reasons why I can't drop her off downtown or whatnot when my car is parked outside. .

I'm usually an honest dude.In this case I'm gonna make an exception and tell you to twist your story.(notice I didn't say lie)

 

[MikelArteta]

It's 100% true.I met women that straight out ask me if I ever was in military,fraternity and what's my occupation.It was one of first things out their mouth.It wasn't if I was a Christian or not.Status means everything to women it seems.That's reason you will never see a female lawyer married to a man who delivers pizza.That group work analogy like I always said a dog will give more loyalty then some women.

yup hypergamy

 

[Rocket Scientist]

yup hypergamy

Exactly

 

[9piece]

My girl checked out....she is already on dates. I am Out the country...wow.

 

[Gus Money]

when a woman checks out, she's gone. That's what I learned. At most, she'll be cool for a few weeks before she does the distant thing again. When you leave, of course they throw a tantrum. It's sort of like kids who have a bunch of toys they never play with. When their parents say they will give the toy to another kid, they throw a tantrum, play with the toy a little while, and then go back to their new toys. Same thing with women. They get bored with you, they have a new toy they are with. You threaten to take their old toy away (you), they are attentive for a little while and then they go right back to being busy and distant, as they are playing with their new toy.

All you can really do in this day and age is accept the transient nature of most relationships. Enjoy the person while they are here, but don't be too caught up on them, so you won't be emotionally distraught when they leave. "You're here with me? Coo. Oh you want to leave? I wish you well."

She's gggggone.

Always remember a woman your dating going distant for the most part she's emotionally checking off. There is nothing you can do except dump her before she dumps you to throw her off guard. Or accept right away be distant back and cut the cord when she drops them things.

Just watxh Thursday you'll get the, your a great guy I Carr about you but...

The worst part is that I know you're both right. I need to work on my own issues because once those guilt texts came flooding in, I couldn't resist the urge to swoop in and try to save her. There is no reason for me to keep prioritizing her.

 

[MikelArteta]

Its hard but you have to put yourself first, trust me she is.

I remember days I'd sit around mope around at home thinking of my ex and I'd snoop on fb or whatever and shed be checking in at clubs or a pic would pop her grinding on a nukka or something.

And then you realize why I'm I moping around feeling sad when literally I'm one of the last things on her mind

The worst part is that I know you're both right. I need to work on my own issues because once those guilt texts came flooding in, I couldn't resist the urge to swoop in and try to save her. There is no reason for me to keep prioritizing her.

 

[smARTmouf]

If she don't text you back immediately....she's not that into you brehs....