Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Everyone has their rules and regulations they abide by, some may say it's harsh others like me say never break your rules


Like for me, if I don't talk to a female for awhile I delete her number. Regardless of how close we may be, I'm not a toy.

I'm hell on a broad, but i think I took it too far last night. lol

i met a broad off tinder wendesday night and made plans to meet for a sip last night. i said to meet at 830, she said 930 bc she'll be has class - cool. i know how flakey these hoes are so i knew some fukkery was coming. i let her know i was gonna be late 2 or 3 min. she said she was gonna be running late too. i aint that that nikka to be posted up like a sucka twiddling my thumbs waiting for a broad. I HATE being late and my time is valuable. its a respect thing for me.

i actually got there on time. i posted up outside in my car and gave her until 945 and then i dipped out. she hit me five after 10pm saying she made it. i told her i already left. ithe texts came - saying no one ever did her like that and i should've waited, everybody's late, etc.

maybe i went to hard. it doesn't really matter. she seemed like a nice girl, but i have zero tolerance for shyt nowadays. i wonder if floyd mayweather said meet me for drinks at 930, she'd be there at 930 in the AM. lol

 

[Papa LaBas]

Everyone has their rules and regulations they abide by, some may say it's harsh others like me say never break your rules


Like for me, if I don't talk to a female for awhile I delete her number. Regardless of how close we may be, I'm not a toy.

Yup. me too. if i exchange numbers and then we dont end up kickin it, i delete the number. then then you get the "hey" text, some random friday at 10:46pm three weeks later lol

they always get the "who's this?" text from me. it never fails..."wow. you deleted my number?". i don't keep numbers of people i don't text or talk to.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup I'm the same way.


Some ppl give leeways and second chances I don't.

Too many women out there for me to bend my back for one.

Yup. me too. if i exchange numbers and then we dont end up kickin it, i delete the number. then then you get the "hey" text, some random friday at 10:46pm three weeks later lol

they always get the "who's this?" text from me. it never fails..."wow. you deleted my number?". i don't keep numbers of people i don't text or talk to.

 

[MikelArteta]

"Expect nothing and you will never be disappointed"

i feel a lot of the point you made, especially the whole upgrade concept. people repair less and less. something is broken, you just buy a new one. hard to find a repair person for anything. and it's the same for relationships. but i think it was always like that. just part of human nature. we just tend to take the path of least resistance. just the technology that makes it even easier and faster like you said.

the way i see it, the trick is to just get the least attached possible and to not expect anything or feel entitled. he last point you made i feel like it goes both ways. i feel like some people are quick to throw away their loyal partner for the perceived upgrade and the quick gratification and excitement they get from it. but i also feel like some people are too slow to throw their disrespectful partner in the bushes cause they're just too used to the misery. people move to quick because of the ego boost and others move to slow because of fear of the unknown. ego and fear are two of our evils/demons we need to tame (i don't think we can completely eliminate them nor should we cause they can actually help us survive at times).

great post breh

 

[EnzoG]

Talking to this 31 year old pawg on tinder wants to start out as friends that has the potential to turn into something more. She's a zeta phi beta and her ex was 8 years younger than her . But I'm having trouble on how to move the convo . Really need help on how to move convo. along

 

[Papa LaBas]

Talking to this 31 year old pawg on tinder wants to start out as friends that has the potential to turn into something more. She's a zeta phi beta and her ex was 8 years younger than her . But I'm having trouble on how to move the convo . Really need help on how to move convo. along

women aint gettin on tinder for friendship famo. they're lookin to fukk. ship her down to the minor leagues and find broads who want to be in your starting lineup.

 

[EnzoG]

women aint gettin on tinder for friendship famo. they're lookin to fukk. ship her down to the minor leagues and find broads who want to be in your starting lineup.

How do I even get the talk to go in that direction?

 

[kevm3]

I'm hell on a broad, but i think I took it too far last night. lol

i met a broad off tinder wendesday night and made plans to meet for a sip last night. i said to meet at 830, she said 930 bc she'll be has class - cool. i know how flakey these hoes are so i knew some fukkery was coming. i let her know i was gonna be late 2 or 3 min. she said she was gonna be running late too. i aint that that nikka to be posted up like a sucka twiddling my thumbs waiting for a broad. I HATE being late and my time is valuable. its a respect thing for me.

i actually got there on time. i posted up outside in my car and gave her until 945 and then i dipped out. she hit me five after 10pm saying she made it. i told her i already left. then the texts came - saying no one ever did her like that and i should've waited, everybody's late, etc.

maybe i went too hard. it doesn't really matter. she seemed like a nice girl, but i have zero tolerance for shyt nowadays. i wonder if floyd mayweather said meet me for drinks at 930, she'd be there at 930 in the AM. lol

nah you did the right thing. if she can't respect your time, there's a lot more she won't be respsecting down the line.

 

[Papa LaBas]

How do I even get the talk to go in that direction?

just play past that friends talk. a lot of times, girls just say shyt like that to lie to themselves.

i keep it lighthearted and witty because that's me. i've messaged girls dumb shyt like: sour patch kids or now n laters??? lol and they responded. be you tho. the thing is she swiped right, so you're halfway there. your job is just to not mess it up. lol

treat tinder like the loud, sweaty ass college house party that it is. get to the point. be flirty, get that # asap and dip out.

 

[MikelArteta]

After like 5 and 8 years i finally said f it, i packed up everything my major 2 exes gave me as gifts and threw out. went on my old hd and deleted all pictures

no more negative vibes

 

[MikelArteta]

@BonitaChelz

i submitted my "upgrades" piece to a local newspaper and the editor got back to me

 

[Youseenmywork]

@BonitaChelz be lurking in this thread thoe ?

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

@BonitaChelz

i submitted my "upgrades" piece to a local newspaper and the editor got back to me

What they say?

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

@BonitaChelz be lurking in this thread thoe ?

Yep. I lurk almost daily.

 

[MikelArteta]

What they say?

they liked it, asked me to write another piece, maybe i'll get published maybe not

but i just really wanted feedback