Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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that ether

but at least you know to not contact her again.

i simped last week, chick got distant didn't talk to me for a week so i broke my rules and said a hey, of course got the oh ive been so busy bla bla, but she's updating her fb and instagram every day (of course she doesn't know I know this), started talking to me again only lasted two days then stopped and its been like 4 days now no messages, I deleted her number and ain't looking back again. I mean I already knew from past experience what would happen either she doesn't reply or she replies wiht some bs and then gets distant again but sometimes the confirmation is what you need to say f it.

but breh .. she knows you can see her shyt ... she was obviously busy (especially too busy for you that she couldn't even text) but not busy enough for the nikka that was hitting her and the nikkas that was gassing her up ... she probably didn't want to put the effort to impress you, and went for the easy kills instead.

the girl i had met added me on instagram and snapchat .. she don't respond to my text, but she's still updated instagram and posting stories on snapchat. i deleted her on both . probably made me look bitter and shyt ..
 

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but breh .. she knows you can see her shyt ... she was obviously busy (especially too busy for you that she couldn't even text) but not busy enough for the nikka that was hitting her and the nikkas that was gassing her up ... she probably didn't want to put the effort to impress you, and went for the easy kills instead.

the girl i had met added me on instagram and snapchat .. she don't respond to my text, but she's still updated instagram and posting stories on snapchat. i deleted her on both . probably made me look bitter and shyt ..

nah she doesn't know I can see her ish
I found out her facebook and instagram through being a sleuth.

And yep I know how the game goes, no one is busy for anyone in this technology age, women will tell you whatever you want to hear to calm your fears.


To them you may look better but it bthers them, nothing bothers a chick more than a guy who doesn't play their little games or stick around.
 

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Only reason I even attempted to say something back is because my cousin told me to try since that's how he got his girl but fukk it. :sadcam:

This other chick though... It's been what 7 days since she said she'll call me back. I'm assuming my EX probably told her that she's not speaking to me no more so she probably felt like not hitting me up either. That one I fukked up badly. I pretty much had the chances to smash her guts for 3 years and I didn't. I just kept going on and off with her.

of course there is a tiny percent of people where "chasing" wins out in the end, but for the most part it doesn't, The best friendship and relationships are built on seemless connections not jumping through hoops.

the funny thing is these women will pop up when you no longer care, im talking about months down the line you'll get a text message just a number saying hey or whatever and you'll be like :dahell:
 

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of course there is a tiny percent of people where "chasing" wins out in the end, but for the most part it doesn't, The best friendship and relationships are built on seemless connections not jumping through hoops.

the funny thing is these women will pop up when you no longer care, im talking about months down the line you'll get a text message just a number saying hey or whatever and you'll be like :dahell:
I have a feeling I may run into this girl sometime in the future because she seems to be close friends with a chick that I know. The chick that I know is a close friend of my cousin and she often comes over my house to see her. Hell she(The girl who ignored me) might've been at some party I went to a few months ago but I ain't notice her.
 

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I hate when chicks give me the number on Tinder, then stall whenever I try to arrange a meet.

Like @Emperor_ReinScarf has said before, you lose that mysterious vibe the more you text a chick back and forth. The sooner you meet 'em (ideally in a late night setting like a bar where you can buy her a drink and have her feeling loose) the better.
 

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I have a feeling I may run into this girl sometime in the future because she seems to be close friends with a chick that I know. The chick that I know is a close friend of my cousin and she often comes over my house to see her. Hell she(The girl who ignored me) might've been at some party I went to a few months ago but I ain't notice her.

it always works that way

as well the thing i hate women will pop back up and be like i was waiting for you to make "first contact" on their bs
 

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I hate when chicks give me the number on Tinder, then stall whenever I try to arrange a meet.

Like @Emperor_ReinScarf has said before, you lose that mysterious vibe the more you text a chick back and forth. The sooner you meet 'em (ideally in a late night setting like a bar where you can buy her a drink and have her feeling loose) the better.

most chicks on tinder don't want to meet, its just a self esteem booster. Your in toronto like me, the women in toronto are stuck up and entitled all they want is text buddies when they are at work or followers on instagram.

Its not really the mysterious vibe you lose its just that the more you say to a woman the more things she can find out about you she doesn't like.


Oh your conservative
oh your against abortion
oh you dont like pasta
oh you went to school for that etc. etc.
 

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it always works that way

as well the thing i hate women will pop back up and be like i was waiting for you to make "first contact" on their bs
Yup. Then you have to update the "Ever been oblivious to women advances?" thread. :snoop:

Oh well. I deleted the message so I'll forget about her. I don't know what's up with women not following up. shyt happened several times with women from all walks of life. It happened last year or so with this Jamaican chick I met at my job, then later on with this Trini chick from Tinder and now with my own native haitian chick.

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It'll make you go crazy thinking about it.

Why I just delete the number and get on with life.

Yup. Then you have to update the "Ever been oblivious to women advances?" thread. :snoop:

Oh well. I deleted the message so I'll forget about her. I don't know what's up with women not following up. shyt happened several times with women from all walks of life. It happened last year or so with this Jamaican chick I met at my job, then later on with this Trini chick from Tinder and now with my own native haitian chick.

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Gots to stop myself from textin her
gots to stop.



























:mjcryoak: Raiders lost man i need something breh why do this shyt always gets me in simp mode

fukking raiders man :mjcryoak:
They always get to me and got me feeling weak when I start caring about them and they starting losing like today or last week.
The feeling u got cuddling with a bytch after yo team lose and u just pissed off and sad :noah: and she feel soo sofftttt.


breh im bout to text her i i ... cant i must not but brehs :mjcryoak:
 

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Now I know why I shouldn't get at bytches at work now. I'm bout to stop working on weekends just to avoid running her :mjcryoak:(no I wont lose money I'll just work on a friday instead of Satudays)
 

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Now I know why I shouldn't get at bytches at work now. I'm bout to stop working on weekends just to avoid running her :mjcryoak:(no I wont lose money I'll just work on a friday instead of Satudays)
:ufdup:
I did this a few times and I vowed to never do it again. Worst feeling ever going into work after getting ethered the night before on the phone and having to go to work and see the chick. :snoop:
 

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co dependency, some people just have to have a woman. Just like that chick out there whose always in a relationship with someone. I mean having a great woman is great by your side. But I can think of all teh women i've messed with in my life and most have been crappy not great.

There is no rush brehs there will ALWAYS be women.

:blessed:


Saw a chick looking at me on this new bus outta my peripheral before I got on.
I kept the :leostare: face and got on and minded my business.
I don't be feeling like dealing with these chicks.

Especially ones that don't make it clear that they want me
 

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:sadcam: Chick couldn't even contact me when I gave her my number. I'm sitting here like ":ohhh: She must not have logged in for....*Sees her with new profile pic and comments*"
:to:

shyt sucks. She's a friend of a chick that used to like me a while ago.
.fukk u emotional for?
fukk that hoe.

Ain't like she changing ya life
 
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