Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I just speak from experience :sadcam:

I've done it all, even experimented being the nice guy and the non chalant a$$hole, long distance relationships to chicks who live on my street.

It doesn't matter how much a chicks family likes you, I still get birthday cards from chicks moms who loved me. Chicks I dated years ago.


The older you get you realize every chick you date you should think why is she single. Why was she put on the recycling bin?

I always been the selfish a$$hole BF,now im really going out of my way to be the nice/perfect bf. I feel like this could be the one,like all the stars aligned type shyt,for one,she just turned 18 :smugfavre: 2.family values in her fam are really pressed,thats why im her foirst serious BF and first to meet her whole family 3. she honestly motivates me to wanna make myself better instead of wasting the past few years fukking hoes and partying 4 like you said,im 24,most girls by age either got kids or emotionally scared,the few that arent,theres like a dozen thirsty nikkas after her,she kinf of fell onto my lap,considering she is highly attractive and got soo many guys looking thirsty,but she chose me :smugdraper: 5 once again she young and can mold her into my liking :jawalrus:
 

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Everything started off smooth, she was nice and respectful. I wondered why the dudes before me didn't want anything to do with her but I decided to let the red flag slide past me. Eventually she started to shed away all of the good qualities that I liked about her. She told me that she was a feminist and asked me not to joke around with my friends in front of her because she found most of what I said to be "insulting". Then she eventually got angry that I wanted to have friends in general. If I decided to just take a break one day and go chill with some of the fellas, I would get a text or a phone call telling me how wrong I was. This woman even had the nerve to try to ruin my fun on the night I decided to celebrate my birthday with our friends. She has major daddy issues and this is why I refuse to mess with a woman who doesn't have a decent relationship with her pops. I never met somebody who was such an example of damaged goods, the person she presented early on vs the person she became were too different people.


Fellas if she has daddy issues or seems too good to be true, run away.
 

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Everything started off smooth, she was nice and respectful. I wondered why the dudes before me didn't want anything to do with her but I decided to let the red flag slide past me. Eventually she started to shed away all of the good qualities that I liked about her. She told me that she was a feminist and asked me not to joke around with my friends in front of her because she found most of what I said to be "insulting". Then she eventually got angry that I wanted to have friends in general. If I decided to just take a break one day and go chill with some of the fellas, I would get a text or a phone call telling me how wrong I was. This woman even had the nerve to try to ruin my fun on the night I decided to celebrate my birthday with our friends. She has major daddy issues and this is why I refuse to mess with a woman who doesn't have a decent relationship with her pops. I never met somebody who was such an example of damaged goods, the person she presented early on vs the person she became were too different people.


Fellas if she has daddy issues or seems too good to be true, run away.


Every chick is perfect in The beginning, and your thinking wow what a catch, cat believe I was so lucky to hve this. Then you hear the sob story of the previous jerk exes and your like wow how could anyone be so cruel to this perfect lady. You spend more time with her everything is still great for te first
Month or two, then Once she can tell she has you emotionally attached or gasp in lust or love she can put aside that Julia Roberts best actress and you see her for who she truly is. Deep down you think I can change her and dmn she's fine and the sex is good and I don't want to hurt her . So you stay and she gets worse you can't hang with your friends anymore, she's nagging but damn the sex and she looks so good, thoughts start in yor mind I can never get a chick this hot this freaky this smart, yeah she treats me like dirt but damn I don't want to give this up.........:ohlawd:

Women play these games over an over again never mention they are on pills, or are sluts or cheaters.

If its to good To be true it Is.

The last girl I was talking to was 30, had an MBA nearly making 6 figures a condo by the waterfront, religious, into me. I was like damn, she went cold anyways and after some googling found out she's dealing wih depression and is on pills and came from a abusive household.

No wonder she was 30 and single once every guy found out they bounced.


It's sad but literally the mentality you gotta have with some women nowadays is that they are say a ride, your not special to them it was just your turn, your ride may just be a one ride stand, your ride may go for a few weeks, months even years, but all rides come to a end, our nt special it was just your turn. And once it's over someone else will get on that ride and think its the best ride ever until their turn is over .
 

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The older you get you realize every chick you date you should think why is she single. Why was she put on the recycling bin?

most women aren't "single" the got some type of man in their life they just don't claim him. maybe he plays that role and doesn't get credit or maybe they're just fukking but its very rare to encounter a woman that doesn't have some type of man in her life.

a woman will have a simp on deck that does everything a boyfriend does including fukking her and you'll ask her and she'll say she's single. i know in the past i've been the guy that mess around with women like that and i've also been the simp that was getting played.

the older you get the more you realize most of what a woman tells you about herself and her life is either downright false or a derivative of denial or a delusion.
 

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Most chicks only become loyal once their options are limited. A dime piece in her twenties has so many options and so many guys trying to holla at her that she doesn't feel the need to settle down. At this stage she isn't thinking about the long term qualities that she desires in a man. She is more concerned about who can give her more at the present time. They become accustomed to this lifestyle. This is how chicks get crashed and burned.

Most of these chicks end up getting pregnant by these dudes who wanted nothing more than a piece of ass. If they can't find another dude at that level who desires them, they become bitter. They become men haters, when the real problem is the men that they decide to deal with.

So now you have a 30 year old with a kid or two. She still looks decent and she's still fukkable, but nobody wants to wife her. She either becomes a cougar, a sidepiece or a live-in girlfriend at best.

Women who are in their mid to late 30s who desire to get married are usually desperate because they missed their opportunities thinking that this option would be around forever. They publicly will say that they chose not to get married, but this isn't true. Most women want to be married. Even hoes want to be wifed.

The older you get, the more you will find that it is easier to meet and attract women of all ages. You will realize that there is a surplus of women out there. You will say damn, why did I ever sweat any bytch in the first place? And if you've done well for yourself in life, you will be a magnet to chicks, simply because you will be satisfied and confident in yourself and your abilities.

As long as you dodge getting the wrong women pregnant and set goals for yourself in life, you will inevitably win.
 

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I always been the selfish a$$hole BF,now im really going out of my way to be the nice/perfect bf. I feel like this could be the one,like all the stars aligned type shyt,for one,she just turned 18 :smugfavre: 2.family values in her fam are really pressed,thats why im her foirst serious BF and first to meet her whole family 3. she honestly motivates me to wanna make myself better instead of wasting the past few years fukking hoes and partying 4 like you said,im 24,most girls by age either got kids or emotionally scared,the few that arent,theres like a dozen thirsty nikkas after her,she kinf of fell onto my lap,considering she is highly attractive and got soo many guys looking thirsty,but she chose me :smugdraper: 5 once again she young and can mold her into my liking :jawalrus:

You sound exactly like me a while ago:to:
Listen to reincar and the rest of the guys when they say she can change warranted or not in an instant. My ex told me "I love you and I cant wait to see you soon <3"... that was the last time I ever heard from her. Just straight up disappeared and we were "best friends" and together for over a year. Just prepare yourself breh, and read the entire thread if you haven't. I just finished and it was straight gems on gems on gems :ohhh::myman:
 

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I always been the selfish a$$hole BF,now im really going out of my way to be the nice/perfect bf. I feel like this could be the one,like all the stars aligned type shyt,for one,she just turned 18 :smugfavre: 2.family values in her fam are really pressed,thats why im her foirst serious BF and first to meet her whole family 3. she honestly motivates me to wanna make myself better instead of wasting the past few years fukking hoes and partying 4 like you said,im 24,most girls by age either got kids or emotionally scared,the few that arent,theres like a dozen thirsty nikkas after her,she kinf of fell onto my lap,considering she is highly attractive and got soo many guys looking thirsty,but she chose me :smugdraper: 5 once again she young and can mold her into my liking :jawalrus:
i think its a hard sell to get an 18 year old to settle down. if you got some upper status or loot it might be doable but if you a regular dude more than likely you don't have enough to offer to keep an 18 year old's attention for that long. if you have loot or status you can make her dependent on you and keep her easier.

you kinda have to date around to really appreciate quality and someone at 18 probably hasn't dated enough. sure there are high school sweet hearts that stay together for life and only dated each other but that isn't as common as an 18 year old finding someone else and becoming interested in that.

also adult relative's opinion of you means jack shyt. her best friend liking you carrier more weight than her moms liking you.
 

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You sound exactly like me a while ago:to:
Listen to reincar and the rest of the guys when they say she can change warranted or not in an instant. My ex told me "I love you and I cant wait to see you soon <3"... that was the last time I ever heard from her. Just straight up disappeared and we were "best friends" and together for over a year. Just prepare yourself breh, and read the entire thread if you haven't. I just finished and it was straight gems on gems on gems :ohhh::myman:
DAMN!!! Man, you have to be cold-blooded to these women out here man. We all had to learn the hard way, but that life and it will make you smarter and stronger in the long run. In the words my my man Curren$y, "Lames catch feeling, we catch flights". :myman:
 
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