Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Atlrocafella]

Chick that I simped on hard hit me up out the blue last night like hey you want to do something? SMH. I'm like nah I'm good, already have plans.
She knew that back in the day I would've dropped whatever I was doing for a chance to spend money just to be able to spend with her. I know she was like

Perfect execution on how you handled that..She was bored and wanted someone to spend money on her, especially since it was out of the blue.she definitely had you on her backup list..

 

[Atlrocafella]

My brehs you all have to know your worth too. Don't settle for nothing less than you deserve..I got this thirsty chick on me now, 2 kids, 2 baby-daddy's, no job..I mean wtf is she really expecting from a nikka?

 

[jadillac]

Anybody agree with this?

To me, the thing with simping is that as long as shes going along w/ what you're doing and seems to be loving it, you dont notice that ur simping. That is unless ur going overboard like buying flowers or calling her pet names all the time, or going out of your way to do stuff.

But then, if she pulls back or stops acting interested all of a sudden, THEN you notice your actions, like " She got me....I've been overly nice and too accommodating"

 

[jadillac]

Women are natural born actors. The problem a lot of men face is they actually believe what these women are saying. A woman can tell you she loves you everyday but yes, she will up and leave you in an instant. Why?

She was talking to a new guy in the background all along and he gave her the okey doke that he'll accept her, so she upgrades and leaves you in the dust. She doesn't want to deal with the emotional fall-out from that, so she just doesn't hit you up and hopes you forget. She thinks, "He should get the hint." All the while it allows her to avoid accountability for her actions as long as she doesn't have to see you.

Honestly man, learning to be single is HUGE. Once you get over the relationship addiction and just enjoy being single, you'll start to see life much clearer. It's like a huge haze just removed itself from your life.

Great relationship > Being single > Bad relationship

The reality is, most men aren't in a great relationship. How often do men have to sit around and wonder what their woman is really doing? Who is her new 'homie'? How many have to tell her that she shouldn't be clubbing as opposed to her understanding it off the bat and choosing not to go of her own volition? How many women are willing to go on a 50/50 split? And yet how many want you to pay the majority of the expenses but be 'respected as an equal'? How often do you almost have to watch what you say because she might get offended? How often do you have to hear her talk and complain when you really don't want to? How often are you doing favors for her that go completely unappreciated? Are you really prepared emotionally if she just decides to up and leave or if you catch her dealing with another man? Does she immediately respond to your leadership or does she find your leadership 'offensive' since it supposedly shows male dominance over the woman, which she doesn't accept because she's 'equal'?

All of those factors a man has to consider when dealing with a modern woman... and many men are dealing with a lot of those concerns in their relationship, but they stick around due to the time investment. It's a beautiful thing to be able to come home and not be agitated or have to worry about what someone else is doing.

The reality of the situation is a lot of men are in terrible relationships but don't want to leave because they are afraid of being alone or feel as if the investment in time, money and emotions they've made will all be for naught if he leaves her. What often happens is that men are chasing the dopefiend fantasy. The first hit is always the best and they spend the rest of the time hoping they can re-experience that high. In other words, the first few months of a relationship are almost ALWAYS the best. That is when you just meet the girl, you're excited because you know little to nothing about her and she just seems so sweet. She's on her best behavior. She is pretty, she has awe some conversation, and everything is so beautiful. You start dating her and months pass and cracks start developing but you ignore them because you are in love. Time goes on and she becomes more entrenched in your life. You start noticing more and more cracks, but she almost becomes a completely different person. The man thinks if maybe he approaches things a little differently he can convince her to return to being the woman that he 'fell in love with.' What he really fell in love with was a fantasy... aka her personality make-up. Time eventually washed off all of the layers of fabricated sweetness and you are left with the real her... and it's nothing like what you thought it was.

This might be the overall best post in this thread.

And that's saying ALOT b/c there's some greatness in here.

 

[mamba]

My brehs you all have to know your worth too. Don't settle for nothing less than you deserve..I got this thirsty chick on me now, 2 kids, 2 baby-daddy's, no job..I mean wtf is she really expecting from a nikka?

There are three after me like that, now.

A Black chick with 2 kids, a Mexican chick with a kid and a white chick with a kid!



There are too many thirsty dudes out here gassing these chicks up. Do they really think they are worthy of a dude like me?

I've got my sh!t together with a capital T. LOL! @ me raising some other man's seed(s).

 

[Atlrocafella]

There are three after me like that, now.

A Black chick with 2 kids, a Mexican chick with a kid and a white chick with a kid!



There are too many thirsty dudes out here gassing these chicks up. Do they really think they are worthy of a dude like me?

I've got my sh!t together with a capital T. LOL! @ me raising some other man's seed(s).

And that's my thing. I've worked extremely hard to have my shyt together to be dealing with anyone who thinks I'm going to swoop in and upgrade their lifestyle..

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

My brehs you all have to know your worth too. Don't settle for nothing less than you deserve..I got this thirsty chick on me now, 2 kids, 2 baby-daddy's, no job..I mean wtf is she really expecting from a nikka?

them hoes think that thier PUZZY can compensate for all that BAGGAGE and BULLSHYT they bring to the table....

you gotta let them hoes know that YOU HAVE OPTIONS....and let them know a WET PUZZY is not a rare resource.........

and STABILITY within your FINANCES as well as mental health is a PRIORITY you are looking for in a woman...

and few of these byatches (yeah i said it)...posses that




i'm in that situation now.....my first love has not only got a kid from a guy she don't wanna be married to anymore, but she is 30 lbs overweight and she had quit her job a year ago to be a prophetess....and that shyt ain't working out for her........

and then i got my most recent ex who is struggling to make payments on a home she just closed the deal on with a job as a substitute teacher living off of section 8 assistance and food stamps.....

and they both are on some ole..."Can we get back together shyt".......

my good report reminds me all the time..."DON'T YOU DO THAT SHYT!!"

MONEY OVER BYATCHES.............

 

[Atlrocafella]

them hoes think that thier PUZZY can compensate for all that BAGGAGE and BULLSHYT they bring to the table....

you gotta let them hoes know that YOU HAVE OPTIONS....and let them know a WET PUZZY is not a rare resource.........

and STABILITY within your FINANCES as well as mental health is a PRIORITY you are looking for in a woman...

and few of these byatches (yeah i said it)...posses that




i'm in that situation now.....my first love has not only got a kid from a guy she don't wanna be married to anymore, but she is 30 lbs overweight and she had quit her job a year ago to be a prophetess....and that shyt ain't working out for her........

and then i got my most recent ex who is struggling to make payments on a home she just closed the deal on with a job as a substitute teacher living off of section 8 assistance and food stamps.....

and they both are on some ole..."Can we get back together shyt".......

my good report reminds me all the time..."DON'T YOU DO THAT SHYT!!"

MONEY OVER BYATCHES.............

these women really think that all their mistakes should be able to be cleaned up in an instant by a dude who has all his shyt together... These chicks been watching 1 too many Disney movies for me.

 

[jadillac]

Me and my boy get together over football or basketball once a month and talk about life, I was talking to him today at the bar and he was telling me about this chick he's talking to:

1. He was over to her apt and they were listening to music and he noticed she had a iTunes playlist named after someone. He asked her about it, and she said it was her ex. He said he didn't say anything else about it.

2. Then he said that in her kitchen she had some whey protein or some workout supplement that whn he asked her about it, she said it was really old and it wasn't hers. So his assumption was it was the ex's.

3. She has a dog that she shares with the ex back and forth every other month, but the ex supposedly has a new g/f and they live together somwhere else.

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I told him that it doesnt mean she's still seeing her ex on the low, outside of the dog situation(which would make me uncomfortable), but it does mean that she won't let go for some reason....and that might be pause for concern. I mean why not just throw the whey protein away? Why not just delete the music playlist? Especially if you got a new dude coming over.

Me personally, when I stop seeing someone or we broke up, first thing i'm gonna do is get rid of whatever I can that reminds me of them. And hell, a music playlist w/ our "favorite songs" would be the first thing to go.

 

[MikelArteta]

brehs that crazy ass chick from a few months ago contacted me today

ill post up the convo in a sec

 

[MikelArteta]

Me and my boy get together over football or basketball once a month and talk about life, I was talking to him today at the bar and he was telling me about this chick he's talking to:

1. He was over to her apt and they were listening to music and he noticed she had a iTunes playlist named after someone. He asked her about it, and she said it was her ex. He said he didn't say anything else about it.

2. Then he said that in her kitchen she had some whey protein or some workout supplement that whn he asked her about it, she said it was really old and it wasn't hers. So his assumption was it was the ex's.

3. She has a dog that she shares with the ex back and forth every other month, but the ex supposedly has a new g/f and they live together somwhere else.

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I told him that it doesnt mean she's still seeing her ex on the low, outside of the dog situation(which would make me uncomfortable), but it does mean that she won't let go for some reason....and that might be pause for concern. I mean why not just throw the whey protein away? Why not just delete the music playlist? Especially if you got a new dude coming over.

Me personally, when I stop seeing someone or we broke up, first thing i'm gonna do is get rid of whatever I can that reminds me of them. And hell, a music playlist w/ our "favorite songs" would be the first thing to go.

we call this

women who keep past emblems of their exes, pictures, little stuff around hte house red flags.. your boy is just the rebound until that nikka is free again, i guarantee hes coming over and still hitting it. never believe a word women tell you. "he has a gf now why you so worried breh?"

 

[MikelArteta]

Cuz she said my government name I cropped

Like I say I'm perfectly content and happy how my life is
Being single and stress free>>>

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

3. She has a dog that she shares with the ex back and forth every other month, but the ex supposedly has a new g/f and they live together somwhere else.

I have never posted in this thread until now but I figured I could contribute as I was in a very similar situation to this last Summer. I went out a few times with this chick but the ex still appeared to be in the picture (yes, even the shared dogs) but he had a "new girl" or whatever... still, it was not good. she was still obsessed with this guy and was going out of her way to accommodate him.

I cut it off. She was fairly attractive, juicy ass, was legitimately funny.. but I just do not have time to wait for a girl to get over her longterm boyfriend.

She still hit me up for a while afterwards but I was on to someone else so we never went out again. Sometimes it's best to cut your losses even if you're feeling her.

 

[the artist known az]

Cuz she said my government name I cropped

Like I say I'm perfectly content and happy how my life is
Being single and stress free>>>

I fell for that in my younger days, good for you for calling her out on her bullshyt. If she was really thinking about you all that time, it wouldn't had taken her that long to "apologize"

 

[jadillac]

Cuz she said my government name I cropped

Like I say I'm perfectly content and happy how my life is
Being single and stress free>>>

I lost it when you said can you delete my number? Oh sht, son.