Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[A.V.]

@Emperor_ReinScarf

So last week I made it official with the girl I been talking about..

Thing I hate though is shes so fukkin up n down.. N doesnt say why shes mad or upset..

Ill go in more detail later

It's cuz other nikkas she entertaining, doing shyt that's getting her in her feelings still, of course she won't say why. You just the fall guy

 

[Grams]

As a dude living in a big city, it's crazy how you notice things once you're really outside without any distractions (especially without earphones). People really want to be talked to and will sometimes find a reason.

That's street harassment don't do it

 

[kevm3]

You know one story that is so common all throughout human civilization? The inability of a lot of women to be content. The Bible starts off with Adam and Eve. They had it all, but all of it wasn't enough, so Eve had to taste of that one fruit that she didn't have.

The story of the fisherman's wife is another one. Here's the link if you never read it
http://www.pitt.edu/~dash/grimm019.html

Think about Bobby Womack's "If you think you're lonely now" song




What made me think of that? There was some story of some 47 year old woman who was an ex cheerleader who got caught sleeping with a 15 year old dude. She was married to a millionaire. Also, think about those stories of those school teachers messing with underaged dudes and they are married. It's got to be a tough realization knowing that you are providing this nice life for a woman and yet she's going for 'forbidden fruit'. What's the moral of the story? For some women, there's literally nothing you can do to keep them satisfied and they will always stray. Attempting to keep a woman content will never get you anywhere. She has to be a woman that knows how to find contentment within herself. If she doesn't, get away from her as fast as possible because disaster will follow.

 

[kevm3]

On a related point... one thing I learned? You don't 'win' by giving a woman what she wants. There are these studies that says despite making all of these gains in society, women are more unhappy even after all of the gains they've received due to feminism

http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/may/12/women-happiness-obsession

How many dudes are breaking their bodies down and stressing themselves out beyond compare just to please a woman and she ends up throwing it all away for a dude who gives her nothing. The point of that? Stop wasting time giving women what they say they want and get out of that corny mentality of saying, "Women like when you do that. Women want guys who do this."

I'm of the mentality now that you're going to get what I choose to give you and if you don't want it and can't appreciate it, take your butt on. Don't stress out or put in any extraneous effort. If she can't get with what you're giving her, she has to go.

 

[360dagod]

@Emperor_ReinScarf

So last week I made it official with the girl I been talking about..

Thing I hate though is shes so fukkin up n down.. N doesnt say why shes mad or upset..

Ill go in more detail later

 

[MikelArteta]

But but coli brehs say to get your status and money up and you'll have nothing to worry about

You know one story that is so common all throughout human civilization? The inability of a lot of women to be content. The Bible starts off with Adam and Eve. They had it all, but all of it wasn't enough, so Eve had to taste of that one fruit that she didn't have.

The story of the fisherman's wife is another one. Here's the link if you never read it
http://www.pitt.edu/~dash/grimm019.html

Think about Bobby Womack's "If you think you're lonely now" song




What made me think of that? There was some story of some 47 year old woman who was an ex cheerleader who got caught sleeping with a 15 year old dude. She was married to a millionaire. Also, think about those stories of those school teachers messing with underaged dudes and they are married. It's got to be a tough realization knowing that you are providing this nice life for a woman and yet she's going for 'forbidden fruit'. What's the moral of the story? For some women, there's literally nothing you can do to keep them satisfied and they will always stray. Attempting to keep a woman content will never get you anywhere. She has to be a woman that knows how to find contentment within herself. If she doesn't, get away from her as fast as possible because disaster will follow.

 

[MikelArteta]

Bushes bushes bushes

Red flags early on?

Time to eject

@Emperor_ReinScarf

So last week I made it official with the girl I been talking about..

Thing I hate though is shes so fukkin up n down.. N doesnt say why shes mad or upset..

Ill go in more detail later

 

[TheArchitect]

Haven't been wasting my seed......going on a few days now....ohhh, the urges....

 

[MikelArteta]

The Disease of Hope….


What we have is so special you don`t understand……

You don`t know them like I do……….

I mean when we first met it was like out of a movie we are destined to be together….


Hope dies last, Hope dies last, Hope dies last.


The connection and chemistry we just clicked from the very first day…..

I just never felt this way about someone before……..

With this space they will come to miss me……

We reconnected after years I know we are meant for each other…….


Hope dies last, Hope dies last, Hope dies last.


Even though they are dating someone new, no one will ever treat them as great as I have and they will soon see and come back to me………

If I just do this and that and work on bettering myself they will realize what they are missing…..

Maybe they are just busy let me try again…………


Hope dies last, Hope dies last, Hope dies last.


We`ve been through so much……

Is that Facebook quote about love about me……..

They want to hang out, I knew they wouldn't give up on us……

They told me that they still love me……….

Maybe they are waiting for me to say something………….


Hope dies last, Hope dies last, Hope dies last.


Everyone thinks what they have is special, a fairy tale and that the outcome will be different and everyone is just a hater or a cynic or never experienced a love like this before. No individual takes delight in being rejected, dumped and especially being replaced as ego and self esteem both take a hit and a wave of emotions come rushing in.


Regardless if the relationship was a disaster from the beginning there still may be a microscopic seed of hope lingering inside. However I am here to pop the balloon of optimism, because if someone desires to be with you they will. It does not matter the distance between you and them, age, status, race, language barriers, job profession etc. etc. etc.; for the simple reason that all it takes for two people to be together is gasp two people wanting to be together. If someone does not yearn to be with you all the hope in the world and manipulative tactics you may pull will just leave you frustrated, angry and squandering precious time that could be better spent elsewhere. Yes people do break up and come back together and even marry and have kids, however I advocate to not drape a rope on the cliff of hope. Life is short as is and it is so much more invigorating spending your time and thoughts on things you can control not on things you have no control over.


Hope dies last, Hope dies last, Hope dies last.

 

[DeuceZ]

havent been in this thread in a hot minute! proposed my girl 2 months ago; been with my girl 8yrs and counting

gotta believe theres still good women out there...dunno where yall cats gotta find them these days tho

 

[T-K-G]

What's the earliest yall done caught feelings for a chick. Before about 2 weeks ago I would have said it was impossible to catch feelings in the 1st week or two. Now that I'm caught up all in my feelings I can't even support that. I don't even open up like this with chicks but I've literally thought about this one more than anyone since my ex fiance.

go fukk a one night stand or do whatever you do to get that post-nut clarity

you'll realize if you actually got any real feelins for em

 

[rogue_riezo]

Been chatting to a girl for 2 or so days, everything was going well. She's smart, funny and seems like good person to vibe with. Yesterday she tells me she has a 6 year old daughter .

Still weighing out whether or not I should try to fukk or just bounce.

 

[360dagod]

Bushes bushes bushes

Red flags early on?

Time to eject

...that nikka not listening breh...lol

 

[Fatboi1]

So the past two days I noticed my ex pretty much holed up in her room. Car in the driveway seemed different from the car I seen her "boyfriend" drive.

Today I found out her "ex" spent like a day with her here. nikka was here yesterday all day. I was a bit confused like cuz I knew her man drove a different car.

She still got a man though

To recap:
My ex, lives in the same house as her ex, still messing with her other ex AND she got a boyfriend.

These girls...

 

[Fatboi1]

@Emperor_ReinScarf

So last week I made it official with the girl I been talking about..

Thing I hate though is shes so fukkin up n down.. N doesnt say why shes mad or upset..

Ill go in more detail later

It's cuz other nikkas she entertaining, doing shyt that's getting her in her feelings still, of course she won't say why. You just the fall guy

Girlfriends aren't like that. That's shyt that happen to other nikkas breh .