Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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is it a red flag as well that she hasn't had a bf in a few years too?
this chick i've met up with like 3 times in the last month and a half. she's not giving off a "fancy" vibe and our meet ups have been pretty low key (coffee, dessert, pizza) but last time she hits me up like at 9/10 am "hey good morning" then "i get off 4pm if you wanted to meet up" . i'm working so i just hit her back with the, "we can grab a snack but i gotta get back to work a little afterwards 
. felt like since she initiated the meetup, she couldve attempted to pay (mind you it was only like 12 bucks), but she went out her way to get away from the counter as soon as we had ordered. at what point do you take it as a red flag that a chick aint even pretending that she's down to spend if yall getting together?
. felt like since she initiated the meetup, she couldve attempted to pay (mind you it was only like 12 bucks), but she went out her way to get away from the counter as soon as we had ordered. at what point do you take it as a red flag that a chick aint even pretending that she's down to spend if yall getting together?if that's working out for you, then cool. but it's my experience that women are as interested in attention than anything else. i don't see how you roster these other women without giving the kind of attention that can potentially interfere with the attention you're supposed to give your lady. these other women would obviously seek attention elsewhere so they not really yours anyway.
cant lie...i was talking to a girl recently who isnt promiscuous but told me she hadnt ever had a boyfriend. She had many great qualities...i'm talking ideal partner type qualities so I wouldve overlooked it but I wasnt attracted enough to her. She was a feminist too which was also off putting. Quite frankly I remember telling a mutual acquaintance that if she can get my dikk hard I'd give her a chance and she couldnt so I said eff it (to be fair i was drunk though).
Anyways...when she told me she had never had a BF before, the antennas went up immediately.
Red flags = no bueno...if a chik says she 's a "thug" as regards to anything about her, she's gonna be a headache. Also it seems like she giving you the run around man. Hate to say it, but she prolly lost interest and just keeping you around. Like said in this thread time after time, if she was digging you she's go out of her way to contact you.
If I remember correctly, you're the dude who's still trying to lose his virginity right? I don't blame you, I was there once. We throw our self respect out the window just to get a little taste of the p*ssy. It's a learning process.
not giving the other girls on a roster attn makes it that much easier breh. It's all about supply and demand Ive said it here many times.if that's working out for you, then cool. but it's my experience that women are as interested in attention than anything else. i don't see how you roster these other women without giving the kind of attention that can potentially interfere with the attention you're supposed to give your lady. these other women would obviously seek attention elsewhere so they not really yours anyway.
The rarer something is, the more people will bid up a price. The product in this situation is "attn" and as you have already said demand is high for it.
I'm telling you...get a rotation of 3 chicks and youll see the difference. Even just 1 extra youll see a difference.
yeah I lost my viriginity in august but this is a different chick right here and what i've remotely done with her was suck on her tittys in the park and make out with her in her car and get her half naked but even yet she wasn't ready to let me smash and @Asantehene she told me her folks were excited for her to be talking to someone that could be a potential boyfriend and she told me she was trying to get used to meeting someone who's never been to school with before and the fact she doesnt have sex all that much like she did in the past
don't get me wrong, there are some numbers in my phone that can get a call or text, but once they've had that little bit of attention, it's like a shark smelling a drop of blood. the game is giving just enough without over committing yourself. luckily, everyone knows upfront my job keeps my real busy so i always have that in my back pocket as to why i cant be here or there as much
When I roster these women, it isn't as if they are second and third girlfriends, and they don't get treated as such. I just keep it cool enough for them to know that they are a dating option, they are free to move about as they please. If my situation is over, I know at least that there are a couple of women that I can go at whenever I'm readyif that's working out for you, then cool. but it's my experience that women are as interested in attention than anything else. i don't see how you roster these other women without giving the kind of attention that can potentially interfere with the attention you're supposed to give your lady. these other women would obviously seek attention elsewhere so they not really yours anyway.
, it works out for me, not judging anyone else's outlook on it.
The thing to me as a man get to the point where you can pick up the signs.
If a woman pulls back I pull back, if she gives me attention I'll give her hers. If she's not interested in me I won't be interested in her.
If she puts time and effort into me I'll put time and effort into her.
Dudes get into trouble when they give leeway, to afraid to read the signs and continue to be that ugh he's texting me again type breh.
I treat women like a jug of milk, if she gets sour on me I just dispose and when I feel like it head to the supermarket and pick up a new one.
I don't need to stock my fridge with a bunch of jugs
just in case
If a woman pulls back I pull back, if she gives me attention I'll give her hers. If she's not interested in me I won't be interested in her.
If she puts time and effort into me I'll put time and effort into her.
Dudes get into trouble when they give leeway, to afraid to read the signs and continue to be that ugh he's texting me again type breh.
I treat women like a jug of milk, if she gets sour on me I just dispose and when I feel like it head to the supermarket and pick up a new one.
I don't need to stock my fridge with a bunch of jugs
just in case
Not bashing at all dude I respect everyone in this thread.
I understand why you do that, its better to nor put all your stock in one product in case it's crashes.
I understand why you do that, its better to nor put all your stock in one product in case it's crashes.
When I roster these women, it isn't as if they are second and third girlfriends, and they don't get treated as such. I just keep it cool enough for them to know that they are a dating option, they are free to move about as they please. If my situation is over, I know at least that there are a couple of women that I can go at whenever I'm ready
DeuceZ
Li pitit gason
I remember back in freshman yr, this sista I use to study with was like "you too nice, I need a thug"
I couldn't understand that shyt I was new in the country and that whole concept was like 
but u right I missed out on quantity but as for quality I believe i got a keeper 
FreshFromATL
Self Made
I got way too many chicks...somebody is gonna get hurt 
If you just want fly by the night women manipulation and taking on different characters work.
There is a reason you ask people who are in successful happy ltrs how it began etc. Most would say they were just themselves, that it was just seamless.
There is a reason you ask people who are in successful happy ltrs how it began etc. Most would say they were just themselves, that it was just seamless.
I remember back in freshman yr, this sista I use to study with was like "you too nice, I need a thug"