Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Breh

Same with Me, I remember people telling MW like damn breh your so lucky , wow you won. While in my mind I'm like this chick is the spawn of satan attempting to ruin and destroy my life literally. I'm screamjnf on the inside how to get the hell out of this situation out of her fangs and nukkaz wishing they were me Every bad thing that has happaned in my life she played a part in, all dudes saw was the exterior not the termite infested roach infested bed bug rat infested insides.

Thats why I'm never like damn he won, or they broke up he lost.

trial and error we learn and believe me and i know u know them errors were painful but it makes u wiser and see the light of what the right thing to do is

ex: girl i was dating just dating i stopped everybody was like WTF man why would u get rid of her she fine as fukk I'm like go head u can holler if u want but at ur own risk u been warned

cut her loose thought she could control me with sex and her looks i was like na u done fukked with the wrong one with that scripted got flipped on her and she couldn't handle me not giving her the attention and sex when she wants got

dissed every single guy who i knew that tried to holler at her right in front of me and begged for a chance i said not happening u dont change overnight it takes time like a seed u plant in soil till it grows and blooms and becomes something beautiful and worthwhile

ur more like a damn weed that wont go away that no matter how many times i get rid of u your still here

 

[Combat Carl]

Am I the only nikka who types in a "Hi!" message to random hoes on POF to see which ones take the bait

 

[aboss4real24]

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Am I the only nikka who types in a "Hi!" message to random hoes on POF to see which ones take the bait

They probably get 1000 messages or as I say fanmail

 

[aboss4real24]

 

[MikelArteta]

My realizations when I should have been sleeping

The realization that my life is a see saw sometimes….I was a loner as a youngster due to a speech impediment I overcame, then became immensely popular in my mid to late teens / early twenties and now that I am older and my little run of fame has gone tepid I appreciate my independence and solitude moments.



The realization that now that I am older, while it could/would/possibly/ehh be enjoyable to be married to or dating Ms. Right, I am not in the least bit apprehensive about it. I live a full life and will never settle just for the sake of it, so adding someone to it would compliment my existence, however it would not make it or break it. Mastering being happy on my own, away from the dreads of co-dependency and the like, life is way too short to be worrying about trivial things, like finding a partner. I'm just delighted being D, free from the clutches of crazy destructive women and finally happy as I've ever been. I reason that having a great correlation with God has helped me immeasurably.



The realization that although I’ve probably said this ten different times in different terminologies and analogies on this blog but if someone wants to walk away out of your life (whether relationship, marriage, friendship) there is absolutely nothing you can conjure up to make them stay. You cannot make someone want you back, whether through jealously tactics, status, improving yourself because what’s done is done. The unpretentious fact is although it might be hard to hear they gave up on you and came to the conclusion they wanted someone better for them (OUCHIE). You cannot control what someone else will do, but you can control how you will react to the situations you are placed in and in this instance all you can do is pick up the pieces (shattered maybe?) and trod along on the road of life hopefully with your dignity intact. I have seen it with my own two eyes that the correct individual for you will never cast you aside. They'll stick it out through the muck and the over pouring of blessings. They will sacrifice and work with you to do whatever it takes to make it continue. Now someone who does not want you? Well adios I say!



The realization that all the time I wasted rotting away in misery and allowing bitterness to creep into my inner soul, battling the constant feelings of anger, self loathing, self pity, self doubt just desiring to know why; pushing people who tried to get close away from me, severing ties, never opening up just being emotionless and jaded. In essence I was allowing the misdeeds of others toward me to slowly destroy the person who I am. I now realize that experiences/relationship whether good or bad teach a lesson, and I have found that sometimes I had to go through the same hard lesson over and over again until I finally learned it. That life is way too fleeting to waste it marinating on the unfaithful and dishonest and individuals who do not have your best interest at heart or care whether you breathe or not. I won't ever be the same individual again and I know that. I'm less trusting for one and much wiser. In spite of this I will never allow anyone again to steal my joy, change my inner core and morals, show/tell someone that I care about them without protecting myself and if it ever happens I'll be damned if I love any less than before.

 

[MikelArteta]

Wife of 31 years had an affair, my story

I suspected something was up with my wife about 6 months ago and about two months ago I became very suspicious. Her phone and bathroom habits changed noticeably. I started snooping and found some texts that confirmed my suspicions.
This was not an unhappy marriage and the news blindsided me. I waited a couple of weeks and hired a private investigator to gather more evidence and confronted her. She denied everything. She knew I was suicidal and heart broken but did nothing to break the affair off. The pain of that is the worst.

I let it lie for another 3 weeks while I contacted a divorce attorneys and got things in order for the split. I confronted her with the proof and she confessed everything. I used her phone to text the AP that day and told him to never contact her again.

A couple of days later I felt so bad for her (go figure) that I told her she could contact him one last time to get closure. The private investigator was able to listen in on that call and it was not good. Said she still loved him, could not give him up, bytched about how unfair it was, basically showed no remorse. Said she did not regret it but regretted getting caught. Needed him now more than ever. Told him she was going to lie to me about the length of the call. And said they would talk another day. Basically could not have been worse.

But I'm very torn because since confronting her with the transcript from the call she has been a model citizen. She is doing everything right to help me heal, taking responsibility for the affair, answering all my questions, showing regret and remorse, turning over passwords, un-friending every male on her Facebook. She says the call was just letting him down easy but I call bull**** and think it was her true feelings.

I might add that she has a very comfortable life, has never had to work and was treated like a queen. Yes I lost focus on her at times but it was to build both of us a brighter future. But we never fought, always had sex and were always friends. I'm worried that she only wants to stay together for the financial aspects as her AP could never come close to the type life she has now.

I could not imagine doing this to her so can anyone give me any insight on cheaters? Do I believe her actions now or what she told him?

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

 

[The Mad Titan]

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Ugly
https://mobile.twitter.com/IForgetHerName/media/grid?idx=1&tid=534596027941003264

 

[prettygiftedgenius]

Ugly
https://mobile.twitter.com/IForgetHerName/media/grid?idx=1&tid=534596027941003264

 

[The Frozen One]

anyways .. just wanna point out .. i've been crafting my game in the past few months...got lucky few times but I've also failed ALOT and still keep on failing, but after every failure i'm learning something about myself and more about the female psychology.

Lesson to you nikkas, don't be scared of failure.. you must fail many times before you can succeed. ..but of course don't make the same mistake twice.. Don't dwell on it too much. But consistently reading here on any other website is not gonna make you change..you have to practice it. Don't think by reading something on here that you will pick it up right away. That's what i used to do..read and think "oh that's easy" and then i will forget or get too caught up in the moment and revert back to my old self.

Remember..this is a complete change in mentality. If you've been failing all your life women, don't expect it to change so quickly it's gonna take months of failure but the one success will feel so rewarding...

Like any other craft, you have to practice and keep building yourself. Change will happen, i can assure you on that.

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

 

[Brandeezy]

Hey brehs do you guys know any hook-up sites? Tinder has dried up and Craigslist is trash. Any others? fukk paying for sex tho

 

[Fatboi1]

bytches these days
My cousin told me my ex and her best friend(The one I used to mess with) not cool no more because her best friend fukked her ex boyfriend.(the girl I used to mess with fukked my ex's ex boyfriend)

Then I heard the girl told my ex's ex boyfriend not to say nothing to her or act like she knows her if he sees her in the streets because she talking with this other boy.