Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Atlrocafella]

There is a fool out there that read 1000 pages of this & still no luck. Even then its about less talk/advice and more about action 1 way or another. You either gotta get it while you are out & about. Or she hunts you down. What may work to pull 1 type of brawd might not work with the rest.

You think the nikka that was in the lambo asked for advice when he was pulling brawds without any words said? Nah he was out being proactive. So simply if you are proactive hoes will fall in your lap. Im sure when the ladies of the coli tell their girlfriends you nikkas made a 2000 page thread about dealing with women they bust out laughing.

why you tryna shyt on this thread for? If you don't like it, skip the shyt. There has been quality advice and gems in this thread that has helped plenty of people change their way of thinking and/or behavior. I think the saying goes "the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result", this thread is simply providing a wide range of options to those who may need a different perspective to gain a different result, not to mention tellin nikkaz to refocus their priorities on more important matters first. Nobody has all the answers, that's why this is a messageboard, to discuss, absorb, and implement ideas in the real world and see what happens. And who gives a fukk what thecoli women tell their girlfriends, we don't know them and they don't know us , if you have something to contribute, drop it, let a nicca take your advice and keep it moving. No need to try and talk down on niccas in here.

 

[karim]

Well I ain't got nothing else to lose plus I'm already chatting it up wit a match right now.
Plus I'm kinda bored she prob gon block me on imessage either way lol

why do you come here if you keep making the same fukking mistakes?

 

[Beerus]

why do you come here if you keep making the same fukking mistakes?

What mistake?
nikka i dont even have her digits no more lmao

 

[MikelArteta]

There is a fool out there that read 1000 pages of this & still no luck. Even then its about less talk/advice and more about action 1 way or another. You either gotta get it while you are out & about. Or she hunts you down. What may work to pull 1 type of brawd might not work with the rest.

You think the nikka that was in the lambo asked for advice when he was pulling brawds without any words said? Nah he was out being proactive. So simply if you are proactive hoes will fall in your lap. Im sure when the ladies of the coli tell their girlfriends you nikkas made a 2000 page thread about dealing with women they bust out laughing.

the day I care again about what a women thinks

its funny because the advice thrown around the most about picking up broads is here it is gasp BE YOURSELF and if someone doesn't like it or appreciate it then cut your losses

who cares about some dude in a lambo

 

[Grams]

why you tryna shyt on this thread for? If you don't like it, skip the shyt. There has been quality advice and gems in this thread that has helped plenty of people change their way of thinking and/or behavior. I think the saying goes "the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result", this thread is simply providing a wide range of options to those who may need a different perspective to gain a different result, not to mention tellin nikkaz to refocus their priorities on more important matters first. Nobody has all the answers, that's why this is a messageboard, to discuss, absorb, and implement ideas in the real world and see what happens. And who gives a fukk what thecoli women tell their girlfriends, we don't know them and they don't know us , if you have something to contribute, drop it, let a nicca take your advice and keep it moving. No need to try and talk down on niccas in here.

the day I care again about what a women thinks

its funny because the advice thrown around the most about picking up broads is here it is gasp BE YOURSELF and if someone doesn't like it or appreciate it then cut your losses

who cares about some dude in a lambo

The funny thing is this guy used a fake example too. Those lambo videos are staged

You think the nikka that was in the lambo asked for advice when he was pulling brawds without any words said? Nah he was out being proactive. So simply if you are proactive hoes will fall in your lap. Im sure when the ladies of the coli tell their girlfriends you nikkas made a 2000 page thread about dealing with women they bust out laughing.

Boy if you don't get

 

[MikelArteta]

First off I’m not terrified of dating, commitment or being in a relationship; I am simply cautious of committing to or dating the wrong woman. At one point I used to love going out on dates or being in a relationship, the excitement, the possibilities ah those were the good old days so to speak. I mean my main requirements are just loyalty, respect, honesty, fidelity and commitment should be easy right? Sadly in this day and age finding someone to match up with those values seems to be like finding a needle in a haystack. Above all, I will never rush into a relationship again. Slow and steady, in the game of love, wins the race.

This is the generation of living of the currency of attention, whether through online dating/apps, social media and the like, the need to be validated by the other sex has never been higher and that seems to be the reality of the modern dating world. Stroking your ego, free dinner dates, manipulation and other games, commitment means so little these days and individuals will "upgrade" in a second for someone they perceive of better of value.

Narcissism is now running so rampant, and many individuals are just not capable of commitment. People would rather just string people along, women talking to 10 different men telling them the same thing, men talking to ten different women telling them the same thing, communicating with exes, spewing out monogamy isn’t natural and can’t be done in this day and age to validate their cheating. How can you be looking for something of substance if you don’t have substance yourself? It has come to the point where I see loyalty, respect, honesty, fidelity, commitment as more of a

Even when I was in the game so to speak and wide eyed the routine always seemed to follow the same script, rarely if ever fell head over heels for anyone just somewhat meaningless encounters. However once in a while meeting a successful beautiful woman. Learning about her, dates going great, enjoying the interactions, chemistry building, but tick tock it’s only the probationary period aka the honeymoon period where they seemed perfect. However once the routine sets in and the guard is let down and then you truly see their true self and oh eject eject eject.

As time went on I realized that the dating world is not really all that fun and pleasurable like it should be, it almost feels like interviewing for a job in the realm of having to constantly sell yourself. if there is one thing I have learned as I got older is if your dating someone make sure they have the same values and morals as you because that is much more important than looks. However If you dare be patient, screen potential partners to assess their character before you decide to take the next step and invest in them without letting hormones get in the way you are labelled a commitment phobe, and may lose your spot in the queue.

Have I giving up on dating/relationships? No not at all! I just live life and enjoy it and if a great women comes along great if not I carry on.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

There is a fool out there that read 1000 pages of this & still no luck. Even then its about less talk/advice and more about action 1 way or another. You either gotta get it while you are out & about. Or she hunts you down. What may work to pull 1 type of brawd might not work with the rest.

You think the nikka that was in the lambo asked for advice when he was pulling brawds without any words said? Nah he was out being proactive. So simply if you are proactive hoes will fall in your lap. Im sure when the ladies of the coli tell their girlfriends you nikkas made a 2000 page thread about dealing with women they bust out laughing.

so you basically saying this thread is pointless.


brehs need this information to correctly deal with women instead diving head first into hot water.

shyt women are more complicated than men and don't need a thread this long.

 

[Deaf2twothirds]

why you tryna shyt on this thread for? If you don't like it, skip the shyt. There has been quality advice and gems in this thread that has helped plenty of people change their way of thinking and/or behavior. I think the saying goes "the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result", this thread is simply providing a wide range of options to those who may need a different perspective to gain a different result, not to mention tellin nikkaz to refocus their priorities on more important matters first. Nobody has all the answers, that's why this is a messageboard, to discuss, absorb, and implement ideas in the real world and see what happens. And who gives a fukk what thecoli women tell their girlfriends, we don't know them and they don't know us , if you have something to contribute, drop it, let a nicca take your advice and keep it moving. No need to try and talk down on niccas in here.

Im not trynna shyt on the fact ppl giving advice cause everyone can use tips but 1000s of pages worth for a bytch that prolly had 20 dikks in her b4 u. Furthermore that u might only fukk for 3-6 months is OD. If you nikkas put this same time & effort that you chase hoes with into businesses, world events, or shyt that really matters. Then you would be in a much better case. @ the end of the day shyt like this goes to show the women is really most mens biggest downfall. When it should be the other way around.

 

[Youseenmywork]

First off I’m not terrified of dating, commitment or being in a relationship; I am simply cautious of committing to or dating the wrong woman. At one point I used to love going out on dates or being in a relationship, the excitement, the possibilities ah those were the good old days so to speak. I mean my main requirements are just loyalty, respect, honesty, fidelity and commitment should be easy right? Sadly in this day and age finding someone to match up with those values seems to be like finding a needle in a haystack. Above all, I will never rush into a relationship again. Slow and steady, in the game of love, wins the race.

This is the generation of living of the currency of attention, whether through online dating/apps, social media and the like, the need to be validated by the other sex has never been higher and that seems to be the reality of the modern dating world. Stroking your ego, free dinner dates, manipulation and other games, commitment means so little these days and individuals will "upgrade" in a second for someone they perceive of better of value.

Narcissism is now running so rampant, and many individuals are just not capable of commitment. People would rather just string people along, women talking to 10 different men telling them the same thing, men talking to ten different women telling them the same thing, communicating with exes, spewing out monogamy isn’t natural and can’t be done in this day and age to validate their cheating. How can you be looking for something of substance if you don’t have substance yourself? It has come to the point where I see loyalty, respect, honesty, fidelity, commitment as more of a

Even when I was in the game so to speak and wide eyed the routine always seemed to follow the same script, rarely if ever fell head over heels for anyone just somewhat meaningless encounters. However once in a while meeting a successful beautiful woman. Learning about her, dates going great, enjoying the interactions, chemistry building, but tick tock it’s only the probationary period aka the honeymoon period where they seemed perfect. However once the routine sets in and the guard is let down and then you truly see their true self and oh eject eject eject.

As time went on I realized that the dating world is not really all that fun and pleasurable like it should be, it almost feels like interviewing for a job in the realm of having to constantly sell yourself. if there is one thing I have learned as I got older is if your dating someone make sure they have the same values and morals as you because that is much more important than looks. However If you dare be patient, screen potential partners to assess their character before you decide to take the next step and invest in them without letting hormones get in the way you are labelled a commitment phobe, and may lose your spot in the queue.

Have I giving up on dating/relationships? No not at all! I just live life and enjoy it and if a great women comes along great if not I carry on.

I believe in my own way ive given up but i will elaborate later this

 

[MikelArteta]

I believe in my own way ive given up but i will elaborate later this

I wouldn't say I gave up but the days of say online dating, the days of chasing, its done

 

[Atlrocafella]

Im not trynna shyt on the fact ppl giving advice cause everyone can use tips but 1000s of pages worth for a bytch that prolly had 20 dikks in her b4 u. Furthermore that u might only fukk for 3-6 months is OD. If you nikkas put this same time & effort that you chase hoes with into businesses, world events, or shyt that really matters. Then you would be in a much better case. @ the end of the day shyt like this goes to show the women is really most mens biggest downfall. When it should be the other way around.

Like I said, you obviously have no idea what you are talking about. What @kevm3 @Emperor_ReinScarf and countless others have mainly been preaching in this thread is the fact that you should put most of your time and energy into YOURSELF, remove chasing a woman your main priority, and that a woman should add to you, not define who you are. Why don't you take a few days and actually read some of the stuff dropped in here instead of picking 1 or 2 post to cast judgement on this whole thread.

 

[Youseenmywork]

I wouldn't say I gave up but the days of say online dating, the days of chasing, its done

I can say i truly have. Ive taken a long look at myself and the areas of my life that need work and have choosen to work on them. Im also more concerned about what type man i wanna become and more importantly my legacy. I also wanna be a better example to my younger brothers while im here well. I no longer have the energy and time to invest to chasing women nor waiting on them to text back or call back. Ive never really been into internet dating or what not. Ive never been big into clubs or nothing like that. I dont drink or smoke so to a lot of people that would make me a lame . Im just trying to live the most healthest live style i can. At 30 i just dont have for have respect for marriage or even a relationship the idea that you have to hope a women does right by you is not worth it to me or worth the time . I just wanna focus on a career and being a GOD fearing man and overall good dude. I think back to my 20s man and how much time i spent pursing these woman and just shake my head now that im 30 .If i would have put that much time into building an empire i would already be successful. How ever many days or time GOD has left for me i just dont wont to waste it on fruitless persuits.

 

[MikelArteta]

I can say i truly have. Ive taken a long look at myself and the areas of my life that need work and have choosen to work on them. Im also more concerned about what type man i wanna become and more importantly my legacy. I also wanna be a better example to my younger brothers while im here well. I no longer have the energy and time to invest to chasing women nor waiting on them to text back or call back. Ive never really been into internet dating or what not. Ive never been big into clubs or nothing like that. I dont drink or smoke so to a lot of people that would make me a lame . Im just trying to live the most healthest live style i can. At 30 i just dont have for have respect for marriage or even a relationship the idea that you have to hope a women does right by you is not worth it to me or worth the time . I just wanna focus on a career and being a GOD fearing man and overall good dude. I think back to my 20s man and how much time i spent pursing these woman and just shake my head now that im 30 .If i would have put that much time into building an empire i would already be successful. How ever many days or time GOD has left for me i just dont wont to waste it on fruitless persuits.

I know exactly what your saying I'm 29 now, I haven't been in a real relationship that lasted more than a few months since gasp wow 2010, not that I struggle getting a date/woman just that the things that used to draw me looks, beauty, sex are not what I care about anymore. Back in the day I would have put up with so much ish, or stay now once the probation period is over and I see them for what tehy are I'm gone. So I'm not going to date, or chase just for the thrill or to do it. I wasted the majority of my 20s in relationships or stuck on exes and I'm happy I put that behind me. I agree that life is way to short to not enjoy it and live for yourself.

And I agree with that hope etc., doesn't matter what you do, steps you take you can end up on that big screen if she "changes". The longer I go without a relationship the easier it gets, I love travelling and I've been to places by myself for cheap. Just last week I went 3000 miles away for 5 days and the whole 5 days there I spent like 100 bucks just on food and it was not all inclsuive, that would be impossible with a woman.

But I do hold fast that having a great woman who sticks bny you and is supportive is GREAT however its so rare. I know firsthand the things women can do, I've been cheated on, gutted, mocked, lied, had my name ruined and I would rather be SINGLE than deal with 98% of women out there

 

[The Mad Titan]

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[The Frozen One]

Fukk what anyone thinks.. This thread has helped me turn into a man.. to all the nikkas dropping gems and to all the nikkas sharing and wanting to improve on themselves

I've learned and applied so much principle over the last 6 months just from this thread alone than I've done in my entire life and I used to waste time reading PUA shyt.