Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Been texting this girl for a few weeks right, then i told her Friday lets meet at this bar on saturday @ 7:30 she agreed. (it was gonna b our first time meeting each other). Saturday come we were texting in the morning, around 2 oclock is when i stopped texting her, nikka 6:30 come around i hit her up askin are we still on for 7:30...no text back till 7:45 "i didnt know if we were still going so i went to dinner with my family"

"I told you friday":wtf:

"How am i suppose to know you havent text me since 2"

:what::camby:
Should have called to confirm instead of texting. If she didn't pick up, make other plans.
 

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Should have called to confirm instead of texting. If she didn't pick up, make other plans.
It doesnt matter of he would have called at 6:30 to confirm. She had already decided she was going to flake out by then so she would have ignored his call and texted him at 7:45 on some "hey i missed your call. I'm out at dinner with my family. whats up?"
 

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Been texting this girl for a few weeks right, then i told her Friday lets meet at this bar on saturday @ 7:30 she agreed. (it was gonna b our first time meeting each other). Saturday come we were texting in the morning, around 2 oclock is when i stopped texting her, nikka 6:30 come around i hit her up askin are we still on for 7:30...no text back till 7:45 "i didnt know if we were still going so i went to dinner with my family"

"I told you friday":wtf:

"How am i suppose to know you havent text me since 2"

:what::camby:

Time to get another shorty, thats a text book flake.... right down to her going silent @ crunch time, coming back with a weak excuse/obvious lie and blaming you when pressed. :heh:


Such a weird feeling you get when you meet different women but they all start seeming kinda the same under the hood. Like do they get some of this shyt from a manual?:dead:
 

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Time to get another shorty, thats a text book flake.... right down to her going silent @ crunch time, coming back with a weak excuse/obvious lie and blaming you when pressed. :heh:


Such a weird feeling you get when you meet different women but they all start seeming kinda the same under the hood. Like do they get some of this shyt from a manual?:dead:

:dead:

I swear these bytches got a playbook somewhere...
 

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Time to get another shorty, thats a text book flake.... right down to her going silent @ crunch time, coming back with a weak excuse/obvious lie and blaming you when pressed. :heh:


Such a weird feeling you get when you meet different women but they all start seeming kinda the same under the hood. Like do they get some of this shyt from a manual?:dead:

That's what's so cold about it.You pretty much come to recognize the patterns and it's amazing how women all over the country can pull the exact same maneuvers.
 

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Been texting this girl for a few weeks right, then i told her Friday lets meet at this bar on saturday @ 7:30 she agreed. (it was gonna b our first time meeting each other). Saturday come we were texting in the morning, around 2 oclock is when i stopped texting her, nikka 6:30 come around i hit her up askin are we still on for 7:30...no text back till 7:45 "i didnt know if we were still going so i went to dinner with my family"

"I told you friday":wtf:

"How am i suppose to know you havent text me since 2"

:what::camby:
Lol @Biggums
 

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Once you learn how to read women life becomes so much easier.

Yes sir. Then you can diagnose them sooner than they expect and drop them when their behavior indicates them as being unworthy . If you get any inkling of doubt when it comes to a woman's actions and you've "been there and done that"... you wont stress as much and you'll just move on to the next one. Stay one step ahead brehs.
 

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I know when a woman is going cold, distant and that's usually when I depart. I don't allow them to slowly wiggle the cord I pull it out.

I don't get friend zoned because I'm ready ahead and kill feelings and demote her in my mind before she can ever demote me.

The signs are always there always


Yes sir. Then you can diagnose them sooner than they expect and drop them when their behavior indicates them as being unworthy . If you get any inkling of doubt when it comes to a woman's actions and you've "been there and done that"... you wont stress as much and you'll just move on to the next one. Stay one step ahead brehs.
 

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I know when a woman is going cold, distant and that's usually when I depart. I don't allow them to slowly wiggle the cord I pull it out.

I don't get friend zoned because I'm ready ahead and kill feelings and demote her in my mind before she can ever demote me.

The signs are always there always

hoes all mindfukked like :dwillhuh:

i stopped msg'ing him and he ain't blowin me up :ohhh:

then they start actin differently, and the power is all yours. :blessed:

hit em with :camby:
 

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That's what happaned with psycho chick who keeps emailing and texting me.

I called one day and picked up from her tone of voice the coldness, so I said eff it.

Didn't call didn't text days turned to weeks turned to months

6 months later the hey how are you bla bla

Almost a year later still getting that I miss you crap



hoes all mindfukked like :dwillhuh:

i stopped msg'ing him and he ain't blowin me up :ohhh:

then they start actin differently, and the power is all yours. :blessed:

hit em with :camby:
 

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Not hating on anyone, but when screening women look for those who have come from a healthy, stable loving family the difference is huge. They Ade more likely to be reliable, caring, giving, quality and healthy to the core.

Flakiness, bitterness, insensitive, insecure, skanky :kony:

I think its nearly impossible for a woman to grow up in a dysfunctional, messed up broken family without receiving some damage
 

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Been texting this girl for a few weeks right, then i told her Friday lets meet at this bar on saturday @ 7:30 she agreed. (it was gonna b our first time meeting each other). Saturday come we were texting in the morning, around 2 oclock is when i stopped texting her, nikka 6:30 come around i hit her up askin are we still on for 7:30...no text back till 7:45 "i didnt know if we were still going so i went to dinner with my family"

"I told you friday":wtf:

"How am i suppose to know you havent text me since 2"

:what::camby:

question: how long exactly were you texting her? why did you wait so long to meet up?
 

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I was thinking of what sharp said how love is a privilege not a right

Love for the most part is conditional....
I can only speak for myself maybe I am wrong – maybe I am right, as everyone has their own definition of the different types of love and all that it entails…….

Definition
un•con•di•tion•al - not subject to any conditions
love - an intense feeling of deep affection

So unconditional love basically means in essence that no matter what acts they may do, no matter what words they may say, no matter the person they become, no matter what, no if and buts…….I will love them. In my humble opinion this can only be possible between God and you, a parent and a child, or expanding the circle a little more a very close blood relative.

I believe that having conditions on love is important as it is about setting limitations on what you will and will not accept in a relationship, or else you become a pushover. Someone who loves you will set limitations on how they require to be treated and if you love them, you will respect those boundaries wholeheartedly. And vice a versa as you should always have the same expectation back, as without boundaries you become susceptible to manipulation.

Unconditional love becomes very conditional for example if someone oversteps your boundaries, whether it’s being cheated on, lied to, abused, slandered, or if they run off with someone new and you’re stuck with all the bills; very soon you are going to start feeling differently once the heart has time to catch up to the brain. As time goes on the pain of being hurt, disregarded, disrespected will overcome any feelings of warmth that you may have had in the past and the love will fade away.

So yes I firmly take the stance that love given should be conditional based upon treatment and respect; it's a privilege, not a right. Of course I do not view it as an on/off switch, as I am human like everyone else. You may always remember the good times and remember the feelings associated with an individual, but those will be in the past and not the present.
 
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