Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Soundbwoy]

It's amazing how Valentine's Day has people deserate

meanwhile I'm like

 

[Rocket Scientist]

meanwhile I'm like

Me too

 

[MikelArteta]

It's amazing how Valentine's Day has people deserate

ill be volunteering
aint celebrated valentines day since my early twenties

 

[kevm3]

Charm is deceitful and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the LORD will be praised.

Chick even lives in my city, my parents would disown me if I ever brought a woman like that home.

I mean it's right there in the Bible. Aka, looks aren't everything... Looks will fade. Sweet words don't mean anything. Some of the sweetest, honey-coated words have the most potent venom.

There was the verse about how the adulterous woman is a deep pit. How true is that? When there is no virtue in a woman, she can drag you into a very large emotional, spriitual pit. It's why guys go crazy when they find their woman has cheated on them. They enter a place in their spirit that they find it hard to get out of, and it was because they were dragged there by that woman they are with. A woman without virtue is destined to wreck you. Most of the great men in the Bible's downfall was the wrong woman. Adam followed after Eve. Sin #1. Samson told his secret to Delilah. Solomon married the wrong woman and started practicing magic, which was forbidden by God. This was the wisest man for his time. This one isn't directly related to dealing with a woman, but it's about lusts that didn't get put under control. David couldn't control his lusts and sent one of his soldiers on the front-line so that that soldier would pass and David could take his wife.

Without virtue, a woman is a whole lot of trouble waiting to happen.

 

[MikelArteta]

I mean it's right there in the Bible. Aka, looks aren't everything... Looks will fade. Sweet words don't mean anything. Some of the sweetest, honey-coated words have the most potent venom.

There was the verse about how the adulterous woman is a deep pit. How true is that? When there is no virtue in a woman, she can drag you into a very large emotional, spriitual pit. It's why guys go crazy when they find their woman has cheated on them. They enter a place in their spirit that they find it hard to get out of, and it was because they were dragged there by that woman they are with. A woman without virtue is destined to wreck you. Most of the great men in the Bible's downfall was the wrong woman. Adam followed after Eve. Sin #1. Samson told his secret to Delilah. Solomon married the wrong woman and started practicing magic, which was forbidden by God. This was the wisest man for his time. This one isn't directly related to dealing with a woman, but it's about lusts that didn't get put under control. David couldn't control his lusts and sent one of his soldiers on the front-line so that that soldier would pass and David could take his wife.

Without virtue, a woman is a whole lot of trouble waiting to happen.

its the old trying to domesticate a cobra, in the end you will always end up smothered

i dont really mess with returnofthekings but there was good article on this

Women of this type have become substantially more common in the modern age, as narcissistic millenials grow up with the presence of social media and the smart phone, along with an increasingly less traditional culture more concerned with clubbing and what Justin Bieber ate for lunch than family formation. This is the beautiful woman who is so insecure about her beauty that she requires constant validation of it in the form of blatant attention from other men, and she will often directly seek out such attention herself. To some degree, this kind of woman will always value the attention of other random individuals more than she values the attention you give her.

This is what makes her hard to be with, because she will constantly and aggressively solicit that attention/validation from other men and stoke your own insecurity in order to satiate her own. You will want her for yourself and you’ll have a vision of her in which she is ideally focused on building something with you, but she will eternally push back against that vision. If at any time you appear to be getting too close to that ideal you want (you two are starting to look like a set pair and she is starting to look like she is truly off the market and in your orbit entirely), she will adjust by deliberately seeking attention from other men in order to balance things out.

She does this because she understands the risk associated with investing in you and allowing herself to become entirely yours: she needs the constant attention and validation of other men in order to deal with her insecurity, and this attention is less likely to come when she is seen to clearly belong to another male in a marriage/relationship. The more available she makes herself appear to be, the easier it is for her to satisfy her insecurity, and the harder it is for you as a man to deal with her.

These women (physically attractive women who are aggressive attention seekers) inflict the most damage on men who have made deep emotional investments in them and are seeking some sort of romantic reciprocity. The physically attractive woman who isn’t an aggressive attention-seeker (yes, they do exist, even today) will not punish you for this, but her more attention-hungry counterpart will. When he’s invested and she responds by seeking the attention of other men and intentionally failing to reciprocate, it can be devastating for the male involved. He will want her, and he will love her, but she’ll never allow him to have her, and that will hurt. The notion that she is instead possibly allowing other men to have her (implied by her direct efforts to seek and welcome their attention even as she pulls away from him) will simply crush his soul. He will be left with a very empty, dark feeling, and arrive at one of the most hopeless emotional states you can ever hope to reach as a man.

When you avoid investing emotionally in these women, you essentially cut this dynamic off at the knees. Her persistent attention seeking will bother you less because you’ve not invested too much emotionally in her, and can thus feel little envy or jealousy. The fact that she is less willing to respond to a man’s expressed love and romantic investment with reciprocation is irrelevant to you, because you’re not offering too much romantic investment. At the end of the day, the physically attractive woman who aggressively seeks attention exercises great control over the emotional, physical and psychological well-being of the men that invest too much emotionally in her (investment which, I must note, she depends on to some degree in order to feed her validation). She cannot control those men who do not make this investment.

 

[Ohene]

Ducktales or not, to me its hilarious to look at that #HOH thread and see dudes rebuking the OP for not stepping in. This is why today's women are so finicky, entitled and stuck up. They've been taught from a early age that especially if they look good that men are to pander to them. Why? because their mom and dad's features are in sync together and give them a pretty face? It's stupid when you think about it and men do a good job perpetuating it. Has nothing to do with being scorned, bitter or malicious even if it was. At the end of the day, OP was the wrong dude to call in that situation and she wasnt hearing it lol.

 

[MikelArteta]

Ducktales or not, to me its hilarious to look at that #HOH thread and see dudes rebuking the OP for not stepping in. This is why today's women are so finicky, entitled and stuck up. They've been taught from a early age that especially if they look good that men are to pander to them. Why? because their mom and dad's features are in sync together and give them a pretty face? It's stupid when you think about it and men do a good job perpetuating it. Has nothing to do with being scorned, bitter or malicious even if it was. At the end of the day, OP was the wrong dude to call in that situation and she wasnt hearing it lol.

entitlement is the disease @Turbulent

 

[The D-List Vet]

Damn @Emperor_ReinScarf i don't think there is any good females anymore, this female just told me she got flipped 10 times last time she got flipped was December and it was only 3 guys

 

[MikelArteta]

Damn @Emperor_ReinScarf i don't think there is any good females anymore, this female just told me she got flipped 10 times last time she got flipped was December and it was only 3 guys

 

[Mr210]

keep hope alive my fellow coli posters

 

[Turbulent]

entitlement is the disease @Turbulent

and things will get worse before they get better

 

[MikelArteta]

and things will get worse before they get better

all i need is one good woman

 

[Soundbwoy]

all i need is one good woman

don't we all

 

[MikelArteta]

don't we all

its crazy thats all it takes but its so hard

 

[Two Stacks]

fukk these hoes. got offered an asst. manager job making 35% more than what i do now.

gotta make a decision.