I'm just at the point where I'm enjoying life and not concerning myself much with 'having' a woman. There's just too much you have to deal with for such little reward when dealing with a lot of these women. Past the looks and about a month of decent behavior, then you are left with lies, nagging, stress, disloyalty and a whole other host of possible behavior. The problem these days is that women come in with all of these 'tests', aka lowest common denominator in behavior patterns to see how much they can get away with. Now realistically, why would I want to be tethered to that. Would you invest your money in a bank that psychologically tests you and if you fail their little tests, they start stealing your money? Or how about you being a loyal customer only to have your loyalty rewarded by the bank giving your money to an irresponsible customer? That's just the tip of the iceberg of what you're dealing with.
The key to me is to not even worry about it and just continue enjoying life to the fullest and if you're blessed to find one of those decent women amongst the horde, then cherish it... but if not, still enjoy every day. Life is too short to make your happiness dependent on another.