Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Cynical Thoughts]

takes 2 to work u dont do ur part dont waste my time
u dont appreciate what i do and what i sacrifice to make it work and everything i bring to the table

not complicated for me i'll do fine by myself no worries less stress way i look at it

Already knew what it was, before you even replied. I know exactly what you going through.

And you're right i worry about my kids the most. I even was going as far as doing random shyt just so my kids mom could take credit, just so she atleast looks good in their eyes. Its looking like it was all done for nothing.

Ive learned no female(most) is gonna change even to better herself which in turn would improve everyones life she directly effects.

I honestly am afraid for my kids when not in my presence.

 

[twan83]

Already knew what it was, before you even replied. I know exactly what you going through.

And you're right i worry about my kids the most. I even was going as far as doing random shyt just so my kids mom could take credit, just so she atleast looks good in their eyes. Its looking like it was all done for nothing.

Ive learned no female(most) is gonna change even to better herself which in turn would improve everyones life she directly effects.

I honestly am afraid for my kids when not in my presence.

thats what worries me and makes me
i could be a idiot and stay for kids sake and be miserable and hella unhappy and kids will eventually notice
or i could leave and pretty sure i would get blamed even tho its not my fault so i take the heat to make her not really as bad cuz they dont and wont understand till later down the line

either way i lose no matter what

so I'm like it is what it is shouldn't have gotten to this point in the first place

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

thats what worries me and makes me
i could be a idiot and stay for kids sake and be miserable and hella unhappy and kids will eventually notice
or i could leave and pretty sure i would get blamed even tho its not my fault so i take the heat to make her not really as bad cuz they dont and wont understand till later down the line

either way i lose no matter what

so I'm like it is what it is shouldn't have gotten to this point in the first place

Damn breh, i could have written that same post word for word.

We just gotta do whats best for our children breh. That seems like the only way to win is having a peice of mind, knowing you did whats in their best interest.

Cause seeing you unhappy may ultimately train them to think that way of living is ok.

Sometimes you wish people would just do right.

 

[MikelArteta]

So when they do reply back after a few weeks of ignoring them do you reply back or

at one point i used to cae and ignore or whatever, now Its like meh I don't put stock in poeple, someone mesages me I'll message em back they don't message me well shrugs won't hear from me

 

[MikelArteta]

Ive learned no female(most) is gonna change even to better herself

females rarely change because there is always a guy out there who will accept their behavior regardless of how rancid it is

 

[MikelArteta]

the bottom line is that most women are simply unsatisfactory when it comes to having characteristics worthy of wifing up. Men need to call them out and demand more. The problem is men are convinced that they need to offer MORE value to women who are offering less value as time goes on. Oh, you got to work out more, get more money, have a better convo to get with this girl and yet she never has the notion that she needs to have a more pleasing attitude or bring anything to the table. Why? Because so many men are unbelievably weak and thirsty in this western society. Thirsty men are the cause of this nasty behavior from women because they reward a woman regardless of her being quality or not in her actions.

the funny thing is there is a guy out there right now making min wage, or unemployed, a guy out there skinny as rails or fat like hue from the breaking bad a guy out there awkward as hell and there with beautiful good women.

dudes are scared they are losing something great or access , when there are so many single women out there.

 

[MikelArteta]

if you have 500 dollars in your wallet, and you go to the mall and a store is handing out a one dollar bills to everyone who walks by and completes a form/survey/task, and if you wait till the end which could be hours a 20 dollar grand prize the line is full, folks fighting left and right trying to get to the front of the line. Store is taking their time you have to do this and that, are you really going to waste your time and go through all these hoops for one dollar and the opportunity to win 20 when you have 500 in your wallet?

and thats many of the modern woman of today, you have value, and to get what little of substance they are offering you have to do all these tasks and jump through all these hoops

i say

 

[MikelArteta]

single father life here i come saw this shyt coming a mile away it is what it is
more worried bout my kids tho

hope it works out for you breh, I have no kids but I have two nieces and anephew and kids are smart, your the goat dad

 

[MikelArteta]

my experience

OKC:

POF:

tinder:

match beats all, but in terms of freeness yeah okc is ahead, less single moms, women seem to be educated. Tinder is full of bots and the like limit ruined it.

pof is garbage

 

[Rocket Scientist]

This female i know is hella agreeable. Like everything(product) i say she likes it. I could just point to a candy bar on the edge of the shelf and shes like, "i like those, how about you?", im like"sure i guess".
I actually hated that brand.

Asking questions about, how do you know who is the one.

She got a man though. And i tell her i aint about that creep life but shes never direct. But she finds ways to connect us within conflicts in her relationship.

What the fukk is her issue?

Doesn't matter what her issue is.....She has a man.A woman who is having relationship issues avoid them,because they are a red flag.

 

[TheArchitect]

It's a cold world for the inexperienced...Like, what does a nikka do.....

 

[Rocket Scientist]

It's a cold world for the inexperienced...Like, what does a nikka do.....

Stick close to this thread,better to be a late bloomer with no blemishes instead of taking numerous L's.Everything for a reason

 

[TheArchitect]

Stick close to this thread,better to be a late bloomer with no blemishes instead of taking numerous L's.Everything for a reason

I pretty much took the brunt of my Ls in High school, though I took a couple afterwards...

I'm 31, and only have like 3 bodies (which may as well of been dead bodies), which doesn't leave for much experience. I feel as if I'm "behind." The way most females IME view a person like that isn't very favorable. They assume there is something very wrong with you, or don't wanna be bothered with one so under experienced. Some people get lucky, but I haven't had that kind of luck.

It's kind of like walking into the job market: I need a job, but how do I get it if no one will hire me due to being unexperienced?

I also notice that I have the inability to get females "comfortable" around me. I'm one of those cats that have yet to figure out how to steer a convo to a sexual nature without sounding like a pig. So I never really try, yet my friends/others can manage to somehow do the shyt. It's so frustrating. I feel I have some potential, but I just can't unlock due to being paranoid of yet another L....

 

[LordTaskForce]

I pretty much took the brunt of my Ls in High school, though I took a couple afterwards...

I'm 31, and only have like 3 bodies (which may as well of been dead bodies), which doesn't leave for much experience. I feel as if I'm "behind." The way most females IME view a person like that isn't very favorable. They assume there is something very wrong with you, or don't wanna be bothered with one so under experienced. Some people get lucky, but I haven't had that kind of luck.

It's kind of like walking into the job market: I need a job, but how do I get it if no one will hire me due to being unexperienced?

I also notice that I have the inability to get females "comfortable" around me. I'm one of those cats that have yet to figure out how to steer a convo to a sexual nature without sounding like a pig. So I never really try, yet my friends/others can manage to somehow do the shyt. It's so frustrating. I feel I have some potential, but I just can't unlock due to being paranoid of yet another L....

The best advice on getting girls comfortable is truly being yourself. Not caring about impressing them and saying outlandish thoughts from time to time. They'll be like this nikka doesn't really care . If a girl doesn't fukk with your personality you just have to find one that does.

 

[kevm3]

something I've found is that most females simply don't understand the art of being 'appreciative'. They only understand entertainment and being put in check or being in the presence of what they perceive as a superior man. You can sacrifice and do all of that, but that doesn't make a woman sit back and appreciate what you've done. In a lot of instances, it makes her look at you as weaker for whatever reason. Something to understand is that a woman's loyalty and her interest is not tethered to 'what you do for her' or 'what sacrifices you make for her.'

It pretty much boils down to her character and in many cases, how much you keep her entertained and intrigued. Eve, in the Bible, had choice of every tree, but she went for the one she couldn't have, simply because it held intrigue. You see this constantly played out when women constantly get caught in a cycle of misery with losers while shunning the responsible, solid dude.

This isn't to say to become some kind of 'bad boy' loser to impress females, but rather it is to come to the realization that you won't get anywhere trying to 'do' things for females, which is completely contrary to the provider model most of us men were brought up to believe works.