Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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She just texted me breh. Sent me some fat funny nikkas pic asking who he is ......

Probably some IG nikka that followed her or DM'd her ...


Ignored it.

I'm up 1 brehs


The text came after she facetimed my daugher and she told her to put the phone on me and I wasn't tryna fukk with her. Lol

She folding already?

keep ignoring breh
unless shes telling you nerdnash I want to rekindle the relationship anything else is just breadcrumbs
 

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Wow brehs ...

My ex's sister fed me game last night. Told me everything about the dudey ex is fukking with now. Dude has a condo, good career, money, bmw but he's a lame. In her words...

Says my ex running around with him just to keep her mind off me .. And of course he balls deep in her.

She told me my ex asked her if she should give me another chance....


Then she told me to not text her or anything (which was my plan)

Told me she can promise me my ex is going to crumble. Said she's just out wilding because she's sad.

Side note: I wonder why her sis is feeding me all this info.
 

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Ever heard the saying actions speak louder than words? It doesn't matter what your ex or her sister says when the actions don't match up.

It's like a gift card with no balance, if someone gave you a gift card that says its 100 but you check and if has no balance its useless right?

So does sweet words and promises when they don't match up.

Reality is some new dude is smashing, he's a "lame" but she's with him and not with you. If she's bashing her current bf just think how she's bashing you. And who cares what dude has? it's just another slight she's using against you see NerdNash I'm able to get a dude who is "successful" by society standards.

If a woman is with a lame or a loser over me that pretty much shows what she thinks of me

Right now its like having terminal cancer and being in palliative care, its done its over, however you'll get fed hope and breadcrumbs to make your last few weeks peaceful.

If you applied for a job and the hiring manager you knew for 7 years told you man you have it in the bag its yours, but the job goes to someone else. But he tells you just wait this new dude I hired is a lame I doubt he will last don't apply anywhere else once this dude is gone it will be yours I swear.

A logical person will sit and wonder why didn't I get the job in the first place then? I'm not going to sit and wait while my bills grow larger I'm going to look elsewhere.

Sitting around hoping a woman changes her mind is a LOSING GAME, especially when she's already with someone new

Look at this logically man, she's not with you and she's with someone else yet your being fed bs to keep you on the sideline. Don't worry alex you'll get your spot back just that Colin i s winning and doing everything well at the moment.

Lastly I wouldn't even talk to your ex sister but if you must let her know you don't want to hear anything about her sister, and be cautious becaus she will go back to her sister with everything you have told her. And you can't compete with this dude not talking about what he has bmw and career that means nothing, what I mean is you can't compete with a man who is "new" and "myseterious" and she knows nothing about its impossible, CUT YOUR LOSSES NOW

I've told you before you'll blink your eyes and next year you'll be in the exact same spot.





Wow brehs ...

My ex's sister fed me game last night. Told me everything about the dudey ex is fukking with now. Dude has a condo, good career, money, bmw but he's a lame. In her words...

Says my ex running around with him just to keep her mind off me .. And of course he balls deep in her.

She told me my ex asked her if she should give me another chance....


Then she told me to not text her or anything (which was my plan)

Told me she can promise me my ex is going to crumble. Said she's just out wilding because she's sad.

Side note: I wonder why her sis is feeding me all this info.
 

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Damn, even in my simpatron peak I couldn't hack all that drama I needed my peace of mind.

Her running around with that other Breh should be the nail in the coffin

Sometimes the harshness is needed to finally let go, When you finally see that person you had on a pedestal as a perfect deity. Drunk and grinding on a bunch of dudes in the clubs while your at home drinking hot chocolate wit marshmallows in it listening to 90's r&b songs it should wake you up.

When you finally that person who was perfect in your rose colored glasses vision with some new nukka giving you breadcrumbs to wait and all that while you sit around doing nothing while shes out experiencing that rush of novelty she hasn't felt so long it wakes you up.

I know for me in the past it wasn't until I seen women stringing me along when I saw that facebook status so and so in a new relationship, or they disappeared and popped back up, oh they fell for a dudes charm and he played them wah wah then my cataracts fell out.
 

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Wow brehs ...

My ex's sister fed me game last night. Told me everything about the dudey ex is fukking with now. Dude has a condo, good career, money, bmw but he's a lame. In her words...

Says my ex running around with him just to keep her mind off me .. And of course he balls deep in her.

She told me my ex asked her if she should give me another chance....


Then she told me to not text her or anything (which was my plan)

Told me she can promise me my ex is going to crumble. Said she's just out wilding because she's sad.

Side note: I wonder why her sis is feeding me all this info.
Dont' talk to your ex sister at all. Just cut them off. You don't need anything more to do with her. She's with some "lame" dude then that's on her. Go do you. Chicks will do what they want to do, don't sit around hoping "new " dude will fall off.
 

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Wow brehs ...

My ex's sister fed me game last night. Told me everything about the dudey ex is fukking with now. Dude has a condo, good career, money, bmw but he's a lame. In her words...

Says my ex running around with him just to keep her mind off me .. And of course he balls deep in her.

She told me my ex asked her if she should give me another chance....


Then she told me to not text her or anything (which was my plan)

Told me she can promise me my ex is going to crumble. Said she's just out wilding because she's sad.

Side note: I wonder why her sis is feeding me all this info.
Move on and stop worrying about your ex. Cut all contact with her sister and live your life. You just a backup just in case the new guy screw up. Women always want someone to desire them even if they are with someone else. Be happy with yourself and stop worrying that someone doesn't like you anymore. That's life and you just have to move on and spend your time with people who do enjoy your company.
 

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I'm just going to keep it real. I know we're all about helping each other in here but this is pointless. He's going to do whatever he wants to do. The past few pages is just people talking in circles. Let him figure it out.
 
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Just about all of us has went through a similar situation, and the feeling is a dreadful one, but we made it out.

What I found is that soon after, if she doesn't come back, you'll find another girl that will show you another aspect of what a woman should be. If it was meant to be, your girl will come back. If not, you'll meet another woman that will show you that life can go on and still be great.

The one thing though is that you have to reflect on yourself and see what it is that made everyone proud that she ditched you. if you were the type that is cheating on women and keeping a lot of other women around, God has pulled you out and made you reflect on life. In a situation where you lose your woman, you see now the value of easy women and how they too disappear and ultimately mean nothing. This is basically time-out to reflect. You'll be on track soon.
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Yall right brehs. Me and her sister texts because her sister misses me and wants us back .


Or maybe she wants to fukk me idk lmao

But brehs its day 2 no contact. I gotta stay busy and focused.
 
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