From a womans pov, no study to back it, your first result on Google, she's a Dr in
anthropology not even psychology...
Even on a basic level men initiate, decision make, charm, are humerous, knowledgeable, etc etc all of the bat..and all these 'memory trails' I leave mean that I fall in love with you the recipient of all this first? That makes no sense.
She's confusing us liking you with love. Love at first sight is she's hot.
Again it's brehs aka simps with no options that give you no breathing space, that's not love it's scarcity.