Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Atlrocafella]

This is me right now..my girl gets livid when I say I just want some alone time. I just like chilling in my own place and enjoying my own things.

I don't know if its her or that I don't like someone under me 24/7, but I know I would be miserable living with her right now. She recently started nagging me for counting the time we hang out together....


And it's not like I don't like her..we have a great time when we hang out, I just need a break sometimes

Exactly breh.. She hit me last night saying I hurt her feelings by telling her she can't see me when she wants, but I couldn't lie about it
I like shorty, but I don't like her like that to give her a free pass to be up on me whenever she wants to, I don't think I've ever given any woman that type of pass.
She feels like it's an indictment on her, and maybe I'm not feeling her like that..and she possibly could be right , She doesn't WOW me in the personality and looks department, but she's cool..Can't say I wouldn't mind someone who looks like Sanaa Lathan, with the right personality be up under me more often than not.

 

[TRUEST]

Exactly breh.. She hit me last night saying I hurt her feelings by telling her she can't see me when she wants, but I couldn't lie about it
I like shorty, but I don't like her like that to give her a free pass to be up on me whenever she wants to, I don't think I've ever given any woman that type of pass.
She feels like it's an indictment on her, and maybe I'm not feeling her like that..and she possibly could be right , She doesn't WOW me in the personality and looks department, but she's cool..Can't say I wouldn't mind someone who looks like Sanaa Lathan, with the right personality be up under me more often than not.

but wait, you're playing games here. u know damn well ur not that into her. its really that simple. and she's right to feel the way she is. see, i'm all for playing with chicks and fuccking with their heads but I only do it to chicks who deserve it. when a girl is really into u, the least u can do is be compassionate towards her man. she aint going anywhere.

the fact of the matter is, in your case, u only want alone time because u are not that into her. if u were dating ur celebrity crush i'm sure ur alone time will either not exist or it will be conveniently limited to when she's working.

i've dated a ton of chicks and ic an tell u with certainty the only time i want alone time from a chick is when im not really feeling them like that, and i know they will always be there whenever i decide to end my "alone" time.

stop messing with this girl's head and stop lying to yourself about how you feel towards her. u may like her, but u know damn well u aint crazy about her,

 

[Atlrocafella]

but wait, you're playing games here. u know damn well ur not that into her. its really that simple. and she's right to feel the way she is. see, i'm all for playing with chicks and fuccking with their heads but I only do it to chicks who deserve it. when a girl is really into u, the least u can do is be compassionate towards her man. she aint going anywhere.

the fact of the matter is, in your case, u only want alone time because u are not that into her. if u were dating ur celebrity crush i'm sure ur alone time will either not exist or it will be conveniently limited to when she's working.

i've dated a ton of chicks and ic an tell u with certainty the only time i want alone time from a chick is when im not really feeling them like that, and i know they will always be there whenever i decide to end my "alone" time.

stop messing with this girl's head and stop lying to yourself about how you feel towards her. u may like her, but u know damn well u aint crazy about her,

Nicca, did you just repeat shyt I already said ?? How am I lying to myself, when I CLEARLY stated that I like her, but don't like her like that. I acknowledged that she hasn't WOW'd me to the point where I'm crazy over her. She likes me way more than I like her. Also, I do enjoy my alone time, I like to have some weekends to myself and not be bothered with anyone up under me. That's how I've ALWAYS been. You aren't saying shyt that I haven't already said.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

Guys I don't have problem getting dates and stuff but I have a problem vibing with chicks. I'm having a hard time finding a chick who's not scared to be different. I'm very different and proud of it but it seems to kill the chemistry.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Guys I don't have problem getting dates and stuff but I have a problem vibing with chicks. I'm having a hard time finding a chick who's not scared to be different. I'm very different and proud of it but it seems to kill the chemistry.

That won't change. Women are followers. Just something you'll have to deal with.

 

[MikelArteta]

my girl told me she loves me today

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

That won't change. Women are followers. Just something you'll have to deal with.

The problem is not that they're followers because I know women want to be led. It's that its hard finding women who don't think like the rest.

 

[NeilCartwright]

Can someone put me on to the mid 20's game. I turn 22 in March and havent done many bars or clubsIm still on that (college) game where i tell a chick to come over to study, see them around campus or just flat our get a bottle and we drink at my apartment/dorm The only thing i do pretty often is go out for coffee or maybe go to an open mic night.

But apparently you graduate to going out for drinks, head out to the club, etc. I've never really been big on going "out" but can someone help a brotha out. If she's 20 and under i have that on lock but for older women (23+) i need some help

 

[Ohene]

but wait, you're playing games here. u know damn well ur not that into her. its really that simple. and she's right to feel the way she is. see, i'm all for playing with chicks and fuccking with their heads but I only do it to chicks who deserve it. when a girl is really into u, the least u can do is be compassionate towards her man. she aint going anywhere.

the fact of the matter is, in your case, u only want alone time because u are not that into her. if u were dating ur celebrity crush i'm sure ur alone time will either not exist or it will be conveniently limited to when she's working.

i've dated a ton of chicks and ic an tell u with certainty the only time i want alone time from a chick is when im not really feeling them like that, and i know they will always be there whenever i decide to end my "alone" time.

stop messing with this girl's head and stop lying to yourself about how you feel towards her. u may like her, but u know damn well u aint crazy about her,

that's you fam. there have been times i liked chicks but still needd my space from them. maybe its because i'm introverted and shyt...but too much time with any chick can annoy me after a while.

the p*ssy doesn't even matter at that point either. i can love a girl to death but if she starts getting whiny, nagging and shyt i'm limiting her PT

 

[Fatboi1]

my girl told me she loves me today

 

[Fatboi1]

Man I haven't been talking with a chick seriously in months. Getting a lil dry now. Need to get up out the house or something smh. shyt is wack over here. I don't really have friends around my way that I hang out with. The ones I know aren't really my close boys, they just nikkas I know. shyt sucks.

 

[MikelArteta]

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[TRUEST]

Man I haven't been talking with a chick seriously in months. Getting a lil dry now. Need to get up out the house or something smh. shyt is wack over here. I don't really have friends around my way that I hang out with. The ones I know aren't really my close boys, they just nikkas I know. shyt sucks.

hit up a local bar my dude

 

[Fatboi1]

hit up a local bar my dude

Ehh bar down the street is full of white college students. Not my type of spot.

 

[TRUEST]

Ehh bar down the street is full of white college students. Not my type of spot.

U Goto Do Something. Can't be doing the same shyt and expecting the same results. If u have to drive half hour to another bar or lounge or whatever, u better do it.