Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[McPiff]

Random thought that derived from and could apply to many threads but I'll just drop it here.

Simps gassing up broads does NOT hurt the game, it only helps.

It hurts if you also plan on simping and gassing her up, but for a real nikka, it only helps.

Chicks get praised all the time. Praise her and you're 1 in a million. She's gonna be intrigued by the nikka who's not simping though. You'll be a breath of fresh air. nikkas stay telling women how beautiful they are and how much they want to be with them. Instead the focus should be on why she would wanna be with you.

It's just common sense. Picture yourself as a prized free agent in sports. Are you going to be swayed by a team telling you how great you are (which you/she already knows) or by the team showing you how great THEY are. Look at our facilities, look at our banners, look at our fan base.

I just keep seeing cats say "simps fukking up the game" or whatever. More simps simping is only helping you stand out more if you do it right.

you aint never lie my man..

REAL GEM

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

yo brehs, help me decipher this chick.

this girl at work been asking me to hang out with her, wanted me to get her # and snapchat with her, so i finally did. we hung out last week for about an hour, nothing explicit, just talking. Then, she said, we should go to gym together, so now we been to the gym a few times, and last night was where it all escalated.

She snaps me while she is drinking, snapping me pics of herself half naked, talking about how guys can't handle her and shyt. So i started sexting with her (bad idea i guess), she went along with it for about 30 mins, still sending me half naked pics, then all of a sudden she's like whoa, you getting to excitied, i'm joking.

So i basically had to backtrack and tell her, i was just joking around too and i wasn't serious. She's like ya, this is how i joke around and i'm not too serious when i send this kind of messages. I really was like , what a hoe.

Thing is, I'm not really interested in her sexually, she's fun to be around and just someone to kick it with. I do need female friends and friends only, not even with benefits. But i got confused with the mixed messages she was sending. I didn't want her to think i'm a p*ssy and can't handle sexual talks so i went along with it. But now, i think she thinks i want to get in her pants (which i really don't).

I was at the gym with her today, the topic of last night came up, I told her that i don't want any awkwardness between us, and I was just joking around with her head and mess her around with her. She said, ya she was joking too and doesn't want me to get the wrong idea.

Thing is, i'm not really sure if she was serious or was really joking and if things escalate, what should I do? She still wants to hang out and says we should make plans to go out.

I saw about 18 red flags in this post, breh. My advice: KIM.

This chick is crazy. First off, she's over aggressive. And has no concept of sexual boundaries. Did I mention she's crazy?

What you "need" female friends for? I would be cordial at work but never communicate with her outside of that for any reason.

 

[RealAssanova]

yo brehs, help me decipher this chick.

this girl at work been asking me to hang out with her, wanted me to get her # and snapchat with her, so i finally did. we hung out last week for about an hour, nothing explicit, just talking. Then, she said, we should go to gym together, so now we been to the gym a few times, and last night was where it all escalated.

She snaps me while she is drinking, snapping me pics of herself half naked, talking about how guys can't handle her and shyt. So i started sexting with her (bad idea i guess), she went along with it for about 30 mins, still sending me half naked pics, then all of a sudden she's like whoa, you getting to excitied, i'm joking.

So i basically had to backtrack and tell her, i was just joking around too and i wasn't serious. She's like ya, this is how i joke around and i'm not too serious when i send this kind of messages. I really was like , what a hoe.

Thing is, I'm not really interested in her sexually, she's fun to be around and just someone to kick it with. I do need female friends and friends only, not even with benefits. But i got confused with the mixed messages she was sending. I didn't want her to think i'm a p*ssy and can't handle sexual talks so i went along with it. But now, i think she thinks i want to get in her pants (which i really don't).

I was at the gym with her today, the topic of last night came up, I told her that i don't want any awkwardness between us, and I was just joking around with her head and mess her around with her. She said, ya she was joking too and doesn't want me to get the wrong idea.

Thing is, i'm not really sure if she was serious or was really joking and if things escalate, what should I do? She still wants to hang out and says we should make plans to go out.

don't bother breh.

She simply likes the attention you're giving her. @Emperor_ReinScarf said it best and always remember this. Women like creating confusion. It almost always leaves a nikka on the hook like i mean, look....she got you wondering if she was joking or wanted you. She baited you into the trap with her pics and sexting and saw you bite. What you should've done instead was the minute you saw those pics you should've been like, u tryna get it poppin or nah? instead of sexting back and forth.

don't chill with her and if you do, treat her like a friend until 1 of 2 things happen:
- she gets annoyed by your "friends" treatment and stops bothering with you.
- she gets annoyed by your "friends" treatment and wants to fukk you. As in, she gets so bothered and confused by your behaviour/actions, that she has to take matters (not you) into her own hands so that sex happens.

 

[The Frozen One]

don't bother breh.

She simply likes the attention you're giving her. @Emperor_ReinScarf said it best and always remember this. Women like creating confusion. It almost always leaves a nikka on the hook like i mean, look....she got you wondering if she was joking or wanted you. She baited you into the trap with her pics and sexting and saw you bite. What you should've done instead was the minute you saw those pics you should've been like, u tryna get it poppin or nah? instead of sexting back and forth.

don't chill with her and if you do, treat her like a friend until 1 of 2 things happen:
- she gets annoyed by your "friends" treatment and stops bothering with you.
- she gets annoyed by your "friends" treatment and wants to fukk you. As in, she gets so bothered and confused by your behaviour/actions, that she has to take matters (not you) into her own hands so that sex happens.

Thing is though, I don't give her any attention, she actually gives me attention.

She's the one wanting to hang out . She's always saying we should do something. Messaging me asking but to come out.

And I've been treating her like a friend the whole time. Never once , besides last night sexting, I hit on her .

 

[Brandeezy]

Don't know where to start. I feel like I've everything in an attempt to at least attract a woman in these past 5 or 6 years but I've gotten nothing. Problem is that I have no one around to tell me what I'm doing wrong. My pops never put me on game with women and traveled a lot so I didn't see him that much. The 2 or so guys i hung with in high school never did even though they would tell stories weekly of who they were hitting. My uncles? Nope, no cousins, nothing. So basically I had to look at TV and movies for source material. Nowadays I look to here, problem is that I'm not like most guys on here.

I'll be 26 in a couple weeks and was hoping I would at least got a number from a girl or a date before the bday but its highly unlikely unfortunately. With every birthday passing I feel less and less inclined to do the dating game dance. Idk, maybe its the depression talking or that my self esteem is at a all time low. shyt is getting tiring...

 

[RealAssanova]

Thing is though, I don't give her any attention, she actually gives me attention.

She's the one wanting to hang out . She's always saying we should do something. Messaging me asking but to come out.

And I've been treating her like a friend the whole time. Never once , besides last night sexting, I hit on her .

still....its all to get your attention. Nothing more. I bet if you were to pull the trigger and sexually escalate (not sexting), she gonne hit you with the

then you gonne be pissed....for her leading you on or giving you mixed signals.

You wanna know if she with it or nah? Invite her over for drinks and shyt. Just whatever you do, do not take her out.

 

[CrossBones]

Thing is though, I don't give her any attention, she actually gives me attention.

She's the one wanting to hang out . She's always saying we should do something. Messaging me asking but to come out.

And I've been treating her like a friend the whole time. Never once , besides last night sexting, I hit on her .

so yall were so cool together but then she wanted to see if you wanted her, and then after you fell into her trap, she was all nope. reward/punishment, breh. you cant reward shyt like that. stop being available and stop fukking with her. she pulled that little move trying to be cute, so now you have to basically ignore her dumb ass. stop giving her attention, and stop taking her serious. just do you and stop worrying about it. be cool, be distant. but dont trip. she will either get right or get gone, and regardless that means less problems for you. dont ever attach yourself to people who want to string you along

 

[kevm3]

If you need to 'figure a chick out', she's not the one for you. If a woman can't be straight laced with her like for you, then you're wasting your time. There's not a thing the majority of these modern women are bringing to the table for you to waste time figuring them out. I sit back and I really wonder what of value the average modern woman brings that dudes will sit and try to figure them out.

 

[DaRealness]

If a woman can't be straightforward and has to be figured out like a human jigsaw puzzle once she's over the age of 25, then just move on.

Too many dudes are entertaining these silly ass broads and worrying themselves senseless needlessly.

 

[MikelArteta]

don't bother breh.

She simply likes the attention you're giving her. @Emperor_ReinScarf said it best and always remember this. Women like creating confusion. It almost always leaves a nikka on the hook like i mean, look....she got you wondering if she was joking or wanted you. She baited you into the trap with her pics and sexting and saw you bite. What you should've done instead was the minute you saw those pics you should've been like, u tryna get it poppin or nah? instead of sexting back and forth.

don't chill with her and if you do, treat her like a friend until 1 of 2 things happen:
- she gets annoyed by your "friends" treatment and stops bothering with you.
- she gets annoyed by your "friends" treatment and wants to fukk you. As in, she gets so bothered and confused by your behaviour/actions, that she has to take matters (not you) into her own hands so that sex happens.

yep women want you to be confused because in confusion you give them the benefit of the doubt.

now you have to backtrack what your saying and I didn't mean it like tis and that trying to stay on her good side and all that other jargon while she can be rude playful etc. and its nothing

If you want a girl step up to the plate and let it be known, if she doesnt want you she will speak in teh gray its for you to pick it up.

IF your frustrated and pondering what to say or do next she aint for you, because another breh isnt doing anything and is winning be that other breh.

its funny as a man you always have to "accept" she sends oy nudes sexting you do the same but then "shes just playful" your moving to fast an dall that other jargon

just cut this hoe down like a cedar tree @World War Z

 

[kevm3]

12-Year-Old Black Boy Suspended for Staring at a White Girl Who Stared Back

Here goes some of that feminism for ya.

 

[LordTaskForce]

Don't know where to start. I feel like I've everything in an attempt to at least attract a woman in these past 5 or 6 years but I've gotten nothing. Problem is that I have no one around to tell me what I'm doing wrong. My pops never put me on game with women and traveled a lot so I didn't see him that much. The 2 or so guys i hung with in high school never did even though they would tell stories weekly of who they were hitting. My uncles? Nope, no cousins, nothing. So basically I had to look at TV and movies for source material. Nowadays I look to here, problem is that I'm not like most guys on here.

I'll be 26 in a couple weeks and was hoping I would at least got a number from a girl or a date before the bday but its highly unlikely unfortunately. With every birthday passing I feel less and less inclined to do the dating game dance. Idk, maybe its the depression talking or that my self esteem is at a all time low. shyt is getting tiring...

You'll be alright fam. The right girl will come across when you least expect it. Focus on your education/job/health/spirituality. Seriously you aren't missing anything in the dating world. You see married men with kids who are mad depressed. Also get a best friend that has some game.

 

[kevm3]

You'll be alright fam. The right girl will come across when you least expect it. Focus on your education/job/health/spirituality. Seriously you aren't missing anything in the dating world. You see married men with kids who are mad depressed. Also get a best friend that has some game.

You're right. He's not missing much. In fact, he's a lot luckier than some of these guys who ended up impregnating some looney woman. It's much worse to have to deal with a woman you severely dislike for the next 18 years and having no idea how your child is being treated and also having the threat of jail hanging over your head.

 

[CrossBones]

Don't know where to start. I feel like I've everything in an attempt to at least attract a woman in these past 5 or 6 years but I've gotten nothing. Problem is that I have no one around to tell me what I'm doing wrong. My pops never put me on game with women and traveled a lot so I didn't see him that much. The 2 or so guys i hung with in high school never did even though they would tell stories weekly of who they were hitting. My uncles? Nope, no cousins, nothing. So basically I had to look at TV and movies for source material. Nowadays I look to here, problem is that I'm not like most guys on here.

I'll be 26 in a couple weeks and was hoping I would at least got a number from a girl or a date before the bday but its highly unlikely unfortunately. With every birthday passing I feel less and less inclined to do the dating game dance. Idk, maybe its the depression talking or that my self esteem is at a all time low. shyt is getting tiring...

heres a quick tip for ya breh, talk to ugly women/women you are not attracted to. be cool, be yourself and have fun. just talk to 'em and be relaxed. dont even try to pursue them, because Im not trying to tell you to do that. Im telling you this, you will notice that you talk to women that you arent attracted to differently than the women you are attracted to. you will be more open talking to women that you dont find attractive, and become a more sociable person once you are getting the hang of it. the cheat code is this: talk to girls you like and girls you dont like the same. once you do that, you will realize that you were stifling yourself and your game. watch how things will change for you.

 

[Humble (Not) Mike Tyson]

I'll be 26 in a couple weeks and was hoping I would at least got a number from a girl or a date before the bday but its highly unlikely unfortunately. With every birthday passing I feel less and less inclined to do the dating game dance. Idk, maybe its the depression talking or that my self esteem is at a all time low. shyt is getting tiring...

simple; stop basing your worth on the women youre gettin'/not getting.

The best relationships are based on common ground. Find a hobbies and develop it. Of course it needs to be one that involves being social, brother.