Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Spanish class at our university last semester. We talked a little bit over the summer, subtle flirting, but it never really went anywhere because of the distance between us. I started hitting her up again recently, because why not. We both live off campus and she lives about a block away, but our schedules never matched up. She'd also go back home to her parents occasionally, like this weekend. Reason being was because she was just "sad." Idk, she just seemed like an emotional rollercoaster.

Chances are, I'll probably see her around at the local bars.
 

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@360dagod
Spanish class at our university last semester. We talked a little bit over the summer, subtle flirting, but it never really went anywhere because of the distance between us. I started hitting her up again recently, because why not. We both live off campus and she lives about a block away, but our schedules never matched up. She'd also go back home to her parents occasionally, like this weekend. Reason being was because she was just "sad." Idk, she just seemed like an emotional rollercoaster.

Chances are, I'll probably see her around at the local bars.

Just ignore and keep it movin
 

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dude, there's someone out there for everyone. stop thinking so negatively about yourself. if u think ur situation is bad, it can be worse. be thankful for ur current state in life. im in no way trying to minimize the struggles u may be going through, but there are others out there who have it worse than u. some stutter, are way shorter than you, have bad skin, socially awkward, physically deformed.... man the list goes on.

just focus on presenting the best image of urself. i.e. wear fitted clothes, smell nice, and take ur time when you speak to people of the opposite sex. learn to calm down. while many women get got by physical attraction, there are many others who u can get by just how to speak, how u carry urself and words that out ur mouth. if u dont have the physical, focus on other areas of life that i just mentioned.
Absolute Truth..Work with what you have to the best of your ability and step out the house feeling like :takedat:, and the confidence will follow. No, you won't be able to pull every bad chick you come into contact with, but you should FEEL like you can.
 

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This only for ya'll single dudes? I'm out the game but I got g for days when it comes to handling a wife. Not really but ya'll won't know if I'm lying anyway
 

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This only for ya'll single dudes? I'm out the game but I got g for days when it comes to handling a wife. Not really but ya'll won't know if I'm lying anyway
if u got G for days, then speak. pass it on. dont be shy. we dont bite.
 

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Serious question yall what do yall think when a chick's moms is ugly? Do you assume the chick gon turn into that in 20 years??


This one chick I kno she so beautiful but I seen her momma and she looked like Ronald McDonald :huhldup: kinda have me looking at the chick differently​

you can't be serious with that question...if you're talking about weight, maybe, but looks who knows just because YOU find the mother unattractive doesn't mean the daughter will look that way so many years from now. A person doesn't become anymore beautiful as they age unless it's with the help of a fantastic plastic surgeon.
 

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My girl is trying to pressure me about living together and marriage. We've only been together 7 months, and has said she would marry me. :russ:

Coincidentally all her friends have recently got married and she turned 30 a few months ago..so I know she's on that frodo baggins quest for the ring. But I ain't it..I need longer then a few months to vet someone.

I don't realistically see myself married for another 3-5 years tbh so I think I'm gonna have to dead this. It might be better for the both of us:yeshrug:

Yep, don't keep her waiting. If you really wanted to marry her you would. I'll say life doesn't always turn out the way we hope, you say you want to get married later but could meet a woman so great that you can't imagine passing her up and letting some other guy come along. You just don't want to marry this one. Let her go to be with someone who wants marriage.
 

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for anyone man

the floor is yours

One I'm thinking about fight now is never complain to your woman about anything. Women like to feel secure and a man complaining is one that doesn't know how to handle the problem. Years back I was talking bout some issue at work and the wife said 'babe that ain't sexy'. Now if Ive got a problem I tell her about I also tell her what I plan to do about it.
 

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I used to get hurt a lot cause I went out my way to help everyone. I was like Mc hammer in a sense. Helped everyone yet when dark shyt came no one was there.
So I feel I have to make an effort to care less. Because this world is a fukked up place.

I know that feeling..

Im at the point where i block "needy" people for weeks at a time..

I help the homeless but thats it..

I roll solo
 

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One I'm thinking about fight now is never complain to your woman about anything. Women like to feel secure and a man complaining is one that doesn't know how to handle the problem. Years back I was talking bout some issue at work and the wife said 'babe that ain't sexy'. Now if Ive got a problem I tell her about I also tell her what I plan to do about it.

:ohhh:
 

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One I'm thinking about fight now is never complain to your woman about anything. Women like to feel secure and a man complaining is one that doesn't know how to handle the problem. Years back I was talking bout some issue at work and the wife said 'babe that ain't sexy'. Now if Ive got a problem I tell her about I also tell her what I plan to do about it.

Truth. I've had to learn this lesson myself.
 

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I need your help my nikkas! Quick question...

So I was hanging out with this chick, we went on two dates, I fukked once and I was really feeling her.

The red flags I ignored were: she never wanted to put me out on social media, and when I would see her in public settings with people she knows she would act like me and her were just friends.

(I later found out from her that she broke up with her ex a month prior so I put 2 and 2 together and concluded I was a rebound nikka)

This got me annoyed because I was trying to make her my girl and I felt like she was treating me like a side nikka.

I confronted her through text asking what are we and she told me that she likes me a lot but doesn't have time for a relationship right now and that she has to work on herself.

I know that's bullshyt and if she was really feeling me she wouldn't make that lame excuse.

My question is...how should I treat her going forward?

I fukked up because I introduced her to my friends and I basically see her every weekend. It's hard to move on when I see that fat ass in my general vicinity every weekend lmao.

And any other mistakes you saw I made that I can learn from for the future?
 
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