Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[chabvongaBlackus]

Another thing I learned is don't keep asking a woman if she's ok/good/comfortable if you're out with her. May be basic but I learned that at like 16. Be confident that she's good cause she's with you. Don't need to always check in like 'you like the movie? You like the food? Having a good time? Want me to dance for you?'

Truth I messed up with this one chick cz I kept checking for her confirmation .... I looked weak that's why she threw me to the bushes these days If i'm good I don't ask

 

[chabvongaBlackus]

pretty much because no matter how much you want to believe it your not that special, more than likely tom dikk and harry also smash on the first or second date.

If she gives it up that easily whats going to happen when you guys "quarrel" or she gets bored, or she goes away for the weekend. Like I always say cobra gonna cobra, you can charm it, you can bring it home, but the tendencies of the cobra are still there

Sex is fluid....yeah whoever might have smashed on 2nd or 3rd date but it doesn't mean you also never smashed on a 1st or 2nd date....that sh!t doesn't determine relationship quality....I actually prefer it that way because it will determine if a relationship will either be only sexual or mentally and sexually stimulating

 

[TRUEST]

Sex is fluid....yeah whoever might have smashed on 2nd or 3rd date but it doesn't mean you also never smashed on a 1st or 2nd date....that sh!t doesn't determine relationship quality....I actually prefer it that way because it will determine if a relationship will either be only sexual or mentally and sexually stimulating

yeah. i mean, i wanted to speak on this earlier but just decided against it. i see both sides of the argument. if ur girl let u smash the first day, trust, she's let others do the same.

but, those guys in relationship with women who didn't give it up on the first, second or third date, well, here's the thing. just because she didn't give it up to you quickly doesn't mean she hasn't done it in the past to someone else.

to determine relationship material, if using sex as a measure, just ask ur girl what her sexual fantasy is. but do it in a playful way. you'd be amazed at how much sh1t women will reveal to you if they feel u wont judge them.

i've had girls tell me their fantasy is to have multiple men at once. well, when a girl tells u that, im sure u know what to do.

 

[MikelArteta]

yeah. i mean, i wanted to speak on this earlier but just decided against it. i see both sides of the argument. if ur girl let u smash the first day, trust, she's let others do the same.

but, those guys in relationship with women who didn't give it up on the first, second or third date, well, here's the thing. just because she didn't give it up to you quickly doesn't mean she hasn't done it in the past to someone else.

to determine relationship material, if using sex as a measure, just ask ur girl what her sexual fantasy is. but do it in a playful way. you'd be amazed at how much sh1t women will reveal to you if they feel u wont judge them.

i've had girls tell me their fantasy is to have multiple men at once. well, when a girl tells u that, im sure u know what to do.

yeah but in due time you can tell. I remember one of my exes who turned out to be a skank first date she had her hand on my thigh, second time i saw her a few days later she was sucking my dikk and the next time we had sex.

cobra gonna cobra you can hide it and act all innocent but cobra gon cobra

 

[TRUEST]

yeah but in due time you can tell. I remember one of my exes who turned out to be a skank first date she had her hand on my thigh, second time i saw her a few days later she was sucking my dikk and the next time we had sex.

cobra gonna cobra you can hide it and act all innocent but cobra gon cobra

i think every woman in today's world has the potential to do some real skank sh1t.

the ex i spoke off a while ago who i said i had to break up with, well, i slept with her too on the first day we hung out. but, she ended up liking me more than i liked her. i controlled the relationship. i knew she wasn't going to cheat because she was consumed by me. (i know some of yall will be on some oooh u never know blah blah blah). but i'm pretty sure i had her on lock. not to brag or anything. all this woman wanted to do was nurture nurture nurture. thats just her nature.

so, really, there are many signs that can reveal the type of chicks who are likely to sleep around. and while sleeping with someone on the first date is a reasonable indicator, im not sure i can single it out as being a very good one.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Sex is fluid....yeah whoever might have smashed on 2nd or 3rd date but it doesn't mean you also never smashed on a 1st or 2nd date....that sh!t doesn't determine relationship quality....I actually prefer it that way because it will determine if a relationship will either be only sexual or mentally and sexually stimulating

Very underrated post that will go over a lot of guys head. I'll elaborate later.

 

[Gus Money]

Man fukk these hoes! Was supposed to meet up with this girl for a volleyball game.

I texted her two times, "Are you coming for sure" cause this girl is known for flaking on plans.

bytch tells me "Yes" both times.

So I show up to the game and she's nowhere to be found. I text her "Imma assume you not coming huh"

And she has the nerve to text me with a bunch of crying emojis saying "I overslept".

Left her on read. One of the things I hate the most is wasting my time.

The disrespect is unreal!

Breh, this isn't going to be pleasant to read but you need to listen to what people are saying about limiting your attention. You texting her twice to confirm the plans is not a good look, and if you know she's flaky in the first place you shouldn't have gotten your hopes up. She clearly said she isn't interested in a relationship so you need to fall back and stop initiating plans with her. Period.

The thing is, I know exactly where you are right now because a few years ago I was in your exact same position. I got sprung early on and asked a chick "what are we?" before we even really got to know each other. You can guess how that went. Just ease back and focus on other things.

My girl got mad at me because she asked how much I make and I flat out told her its none of her business. I told her I make enough to pay my bills, donate to different charities, splurge on what I want and enjoy life.


She went on a tirade about how finances matter and all this and I said yeah but I can lose my job tomorrow and then what, you'd bounce? I remember when my sister and brother in law just got married dude was making good bread lost his job and was unemployed for almost a year, dude went from making good bread to getting like 1000 a month from the government on ei. The only reason you want to know how much I make is to either cast me as too poor or to compare me to other dudes.

I hate when women do this just shut up and enjoy the ride,

I meant to congratulate you on the new relationship when I saw that thread about her meeting your family. Other than her asking about your income, how's it going with her?

 

[chabvongaBlackus]

I think I failed in my execution as a man....girl came to see me says she doesn't wanna head up so we chill in the parking lot for like a good 30 mins d............her reason was to pick her sister up kinda believed her cz her sis doesn't have a car

 

[kevm3]

yeah. i mean, i wanted to speak on this earlier but just decided against it. i see both sides of the argument. if ur girl let u smash the first day, trust, she's let others do the same.

but, those guys in relationship with women who didn't give it up on the first, second or third date, well, here's the thing. just because she didn't give it up to you quickly doesn't mean she hasn't done it in the past to someone else.

to determine relationship material, if using sex as a measure, just ask ur girl what her sexual fantasy is. but do it in a playful way. you'd be amazed at how much sh1t women will reveal to you if they feel u wont judge them.

i've had girls tell me their fantasy is to have multiple men at once. well, when a girl tells u that, im sure u know what to do.

Yep, if you're going to take a girl seriously only level, you have to give her several "interviews" so to say. Best way is making her feel comfortable and free with her answers to see where her mind is really at. Also you have to do some interrogating and ask guys around the way what they think about her. Sometimes you'll be very surprised at what you'll find.

 

[kevm3]

IF you have to ask a woman 'what are we' or you have to mentally ask yourself 'where do I stand with her', she's certainly not what you want. A woman that is 'wifey' probably will have you asking questions more like, "Man how can I make her get off of me?" If a woman is rather cool towards you and ambiguous, she probably has a lot of guys in the background. Women are emotional creatures buy nature and a lack of emotion displayed towards you means that she is likely expressing it somewhere else. Is it always the case? No... but more times than not it is.

 

[Zach Lowe]

@Ns invite me back

 

[Atlrocafella]

Hope you brehs locked something down for cuffing season. I got mine.

 

[kidsinamerica_]

This bytch flaked on me Saturday, texted me yesterday talking about she got into a car accident and then had to attend a funeral at the same day

She’s just a young, foolish girl. Just one of the many telltale signs of emotional immaturity in a female. Flaky chicks tend to be emotionally immature.

 

[Beerus]

Hope you brehs locked something down for cuffing season. I got mine.

I'm going through dates and dates to find one.
Nothing yet
Got tinder unlimited for 1 month before I throw this shyt in the bushes and man I've been on 2 dates last week, got another one set up for tuesday.
Matches rollin in like crazy

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

It's been mentioned in here mad times.

MAKE THE B!TCH LAUGH YOU BORING AZZ nikkaZ

I hate un-creative nikkaz mayne.