Charisma is the most important thing. Being able to socialize. Working out, getting money, etc. is something more for your own self confidence and benefit. They do make getting the attention of women easier, but it will always come down to your personality. Still, it's important to get your money, your body and your mind right since your health is extremely important in the long-term and having a decent amount of money affords you more options to do things in life.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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so i decided to post up an experience of mine that i feel some of you here need to pay attention to. this is for the guys in the last couple of pages that are talking about messing with women who were molested as a child, are bipolar and have anger issues. this is one of them.
so me and this girl got into a fight over something very stupid. i said something that she took the wrong way. it wasn't offensive. she's just stupid. she got mad. i apologized a while later cause i couldn't believe she was mad over it. she said my apology was too late and proceeded to stay mad from early evening to the next day. she has a history of being mad for long periods of time. she's jumped out of a moving car before - yup, shes crazy lol. crazy but cunning.
anyway, the fight blew up and things got worse. i got mad that even after i apologized she has the nerve to remain angry. so i started trolling her. she said some very disrespecful things to me. so i refuse to drive her home, she was being very disrespectful. so she packed her stuff and i dropped her off at the train station. (before she packed though, i took the watch i had bought her without her knowin - yeah i know its petty but this chick is ungrateful and has grown to loathe me because i must be the only guy who didn't shower her with as many gifts as she wanted just for being beautiful).
anyway, i drop her off close to the train station. lol i kicked her out my car. she goes to this party we were suppose to go to together (a halloween party at one of her gay friends). she sends me pictures of how good of a time she's having. saying to me "your loss you b1tch". i dont respond to that. so she calls me at 2am in the morning. hangs up.
so needless to say. we broke up via silence. she then texts me days later talking about she needs me to drop her work uniform at some place. im like if u think i'm gonna do anything for you after the disrespect u showed me over the weekend, ur delusional. so she takes the train to where i live. i meet her at the train station, walked up to her, shook her hand and said "good luck in all your future endeavors", and i handed her the stuff and left.
a couple of days later, she sends me a snapchat of her in the back of a uber with caption "so stressed". i ignore it
a week goes by. and early one morning, i get a message from her asking me to return back to her everything she's ever bought me. now, i'm posting this so you see the thought process of a bipolar/crazy woman.
in snapshot 8 (which was sent the next day), after i said "had business to attend to". she called me to ask me what i was doing at the airport. then she goes, if i give u an address will u drop off my stuff. im like, u got the dresses? lol. she gets mad. i hang up. then she called like 8 times. i dont pick up. these types of girls are fun, but tread carefully fellas lol.
btw, she sent me the "fukk yous" you see in snapshot 7, five separate times. yes, each of those 5 was just as long as what you see in the snapshot.
so me and this girl got into a fight over something very stupid. i said something that she took the wrong way. it wasn't offensive. she's just stupid. she got mad. i apologized a while later cause i couldn't believe she was mad over it. she said my apology was too late and proceeded to stay mad from early evening to the next day. she has a history of being mad for long periods of time. she's jumped out of a moving car before - yup, shes crazy lol. crazy but cunning.
anyway, the fight blew up and things got worse. i got mad that even after i apologized she has the nerve to remain angry. so i started trolling her. she said some very disrespecful things to me. so i refuse to drive her home, she was being very disrespectful. so she packed her stuff and i dropped her off at the train station. (before she packed though, i took the watch i had bought her without her knowin - yeah i know its petty but this chick is ungrateful and has grown to loathe me because i must be the only guy who didn't shower her with as many gifts as she wanted just for being beautiful).
anyway, i drop her off close to the train station. lol i kicked her out my car. she goes to this party we were suppose to go to together (a halloween party at one of her gay friends). she sends me pictures of how good of a time she's having. saying to me "your loss you b1tch". i dont respond to that. so she calls me at 2am in the morning. hangs up.
so needless to say. we broke up via silence. she then texts me days later talking about she needs me to drop her work uniform at some place. im like if u think i'm gonna do anything for you after the disrespect u showed me over the weekend, ur delusional. so she takes the train to where i live. i meet her at the train station, walked up to her, shook her hand and said "good luck in all your future endeavors", and i handed her the stuff and left.
a couple of days later, she sends me a snapchat of her in the back of a uber with caption "so stressed". i ignore it
a week goes by. and early one morning, i get a message from her asking me to return back to her everything she's ever bought me. now, i'm posting this so you see the thought process of a bipolar/crazy woman.
in snapshot 8 (which was sent the next day), after i said "had business to attend to". she called me to ask me what i was doing at the airport. then she goes, if i give u an address will u drop off my stuff. im like, u got the dresses? lol. she gets mad. i hang up. then she called like 8 times. i dont pick up. these types of girls are fun, but tread carefully fellas lol.
btw, she sent me the "fukk yous" you see in snapshot 7, five separate times. yes, each of those 5 was just as long as what you see in the snapshot.
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i agree with this 100%.
if u sense ur girlfriend isn't really as into u as ur into her, when yall go to a social event, if u've got charisma, u'll see her change tune very quickly based off how everyone (male and female) is gravitating towards u.
RealAssanova
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so i decided to post up an experience of mine that i feel some of you here need to pay attention to. this is for the guys in the last couple of pages that are talking about messing with women who were molested as a child, are bipolar and have anger issues. this is one of them.
so me and this girl got into a fight over something very stupid. i said something that she took the wrong way. it wasn't offensive. she's just stupid. she got mad. i apologized a while later cause i couldn't believe she was mad over it. she said my apology was too late and proceeded to stay mad from early evening to the next day. she has a history of being mad for long periods of time. she's jumped out of a moving car before - yup, shes crazy lol. crazy but cunning.
anyway, the fight blew up and things got worse. i got mad that even after i apologized she has the nerve to remain angry. so i started trolling her. she said some very disrespecful things to me. so i refuse to drive her home, she was being very disrespectful. so she packed her stuff and i dropped her off at the train station. (before she packed though, i took the watch i had bought her without her knowin - yeah i know its petty but this chick is ungrateful and has grown to loathe me because i must be the only guy who didn't shower her with as many gifts as she wanted just for being beautiful).
anyway, i drop her off close to the train station. lol i kicked her out my car. she goes to this party we were suppose to go to together (a halloween party at one of her gay friends). she sends me pictures of how good of a time she's having. saying to me "your loss you b1tch". i dont respond to that. so she calls me at 2am in the morning. hangs up.
so needless to say. we broke up via silence. she then texts me days later talking about she needs me to drop her work uniform at some place. im like if u think i'm gonna do anything for you after the disrespect u showed me over the weekend, ur delusional. so she takes the train to where i live. i meet her at the train station, walked up to her, shook her hand and said "good luck in all your future endeavors", and i handed her the stuff and left.
a couple of days later, she sends me a snapchat of her in the back of a uber with caption "so stressed". i ignore it
a week goes by. and early one morning, i get a message from her asking me to return back to her everything she's ever bought me. now, i'm posting this so you see the thought process of a bipolar/crazy woman.
in snapshot 8 (which was sent the next day), after i said "had business to attend to". she called me to ask me what i was doing at the airport. then she goes, if i give u an address will u drop off my stuff. im like, u got the dresses? lol. she gets mad. i hang up. then she called like 8 times. i dont pick up. these types of girls are fun, but tread carefully fellas lol.
btw, she sent me the "fukk yous" you see in snapshot 7, five separate times. yes, each of those 5 was just as long as what you see in the snapshot.
i don't know how the hell u had the patience to deal with that hoe.
although i can tell you were trolling the absolute shyt outta her.
Saysumthinfunnymike
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women like to assign labels and shyt so once u became the "ay this lil nikka over here will boost my self esteem" that's what she want. The only time u can really get out of that is either when she has exhausted her options of fukkin around and want to settle or if she realizes that you ain't on that bullshyt anymore but they'll rarely come to their senses. If all u wanna do is fukk and it ain't happened yet it's best to not even entertain her lol
Nice guy routine = guy who gets to pay for her bills and listen to her problems while she has actual problems with the guys she likes. I'm not saying be some jerk or whatever, but make sure you value your time. If a woman isn't showing any interest in you and is turning you down all the time, simply move on. She's not interested. Don't waste time trying to figure out why and don't get emotionally involved in her not being interested. Definitely don't let her use you as a rest haven that she lays all of her problems on and hits up for resources. Simply move on to another woman who is showing interest. Realistically, none of us know why exactly we like what we like, so trying to figure out some precise logical reason as to why a woman isn't liking you is going to do nothing but give you a headache. Some people love chicken and some people hate it. Don't try to force someone to eat something they hate when there's so many out there that want that meal you have to offer.
I said all of that to say stop trying to create some lame routine to 'win over' some broad. You're just making a fake image for her to like, and when you get tired of your acting, she's going to see the real you and peel off. You have to be you at all times, and with that said, focus on the women that are feeling your style while cutting your losses with the ones that aren't. Trying to think up some smooth routine to win over this or that woman that isn't feeling your natural persona is only going to get you in trouble later.
I said all of that to say stop trying to create some lame routine to 'win over' some broad. You're just making a fake image for her to like, and when you get tired of your acting, she's going to see the real you and peel off. You have to be you at all times, and with that said, focus on the women that are feeling your style while cutting your losses with the ones that aren't. Trying to think up some smooth routine to win over this or that woman that isn't feeling your natural persona is only going to get you in trouble later.
God is good brehs
yeah shyt is crazy..
when a female has a certain label on you, its hard to change..
DaRealness
I think very deeply
LOL I think I mentioned on here once one of my FB friends was saying how he was talking with this chick and her whole tone with him was on some "aww bless you, you're so sweet" type shyt and he eventually cut her off. He stated that if she thinks she's gonna pull that nice guy steez on him then she can take that bullshyt elsewhere. Yeah, you gotta stay sharp and watch out for the early signs lest you get played like countless dudes have been.
Real shyt
DaRealness
I think very deeply
^^^Exactly. Unless it's an elderly lady old enough to be my grandmother, I don't wanna hear "awwwww" coming from no woman. 
@Emperor_ReinScarf and @kevm3 are correct in so much they post.
I dont agree with it all, all the time.
But what I do agree with is.
- Be a man confident in what you have to offer 1st before trying to be a man to a woman.
-Do not put any woman thats not your wife or girlfriend on a pedestal, its hard not to when its someone you really like or care about.. but we a woman gets reassured that your there for them they get comfortable and lose interest quickly and even if they dont you create a VERY high standard to live up too going into a relationship. Sometimes you have to make that extra effort to show your interested or you want to take it to the next level...but do not over do it or make it a habit.
-Dont fight for a womans time or attention, I watch women hold tight on to there phones everyday. I watch them at work where they can't text when I'm out and when I lived with a bunch. Its no reason that if a woman is interested in you she won't hit you up at some point during the day or week. Its easier than ever before.
-A woman will let you know what she wants up front quickly if you just ask. Dont try and take it for something its not or read into it, if she likes you she'll let you know, if she wants something she'll let you know. If she just wants to be friends she'll let you know. This is one of the only few instants where actions dont speak louder than words.
-Be happy with yourself and what you do and others (women) will be happy with it too. If your a walmart worker, be the best damn walmart worker you can be. Any woman worth there salt aint going anywhere if you are putting your all into work and them. Dont be ashamed of anything your into, from hobbies, occupation, to religion or moral standards.
-Dont lie to the chicks, dont beat around the bush. Just be straight up, they remember that junk and use it as justification for any and every feeling they have going forward.
-A good woman is a God send and Queen, dont mess over them for the next nikka even if you dont see yall working out.
I dont agree with it all, all the time.
But what I do agree with is.
- Be a man confident in what you have to offer 1st before trying to be a man to a woman.
-Do not put any woman thats not your wife or girlfriend on a pedestal, its hard not to when its someone you really like or care about.. but we a woman gets reassured that your there for them they get comfortable and lose interest quickly and even if they dont you create a VERY high standard to live up too going into a relationship. Sometimes you have to make that extra effort to show your interested or you want to take it to the next level...but do not over do it or make it a habit.
-Dont fight for a womans time or attention, I watch women hold tight on to there phones everyday. I watch them at work where they can't text when I'm out and when I lived with a bunch. Its no reason that if a woman is interested in you she won't hit you up at some point during the day or week. Its easier than ever before.
-A woman will let you know what she wants up front quickly if you just ask. Dont try and take it for something its not or read into it, if she likes you she'll let you know, if she wants something she'll let you know. If she just wants to be friends she'll let you know. This is one of the only few instants where actions dont speak louder than words.
-Be happy with yourself and what you do and others (women) will be happy with it too. If your a walmart worker, be the best damn walmart worker you can be. Any woman worth there salt aint going anywhere if you are putting your all into work and them. Dont be ashamed of anything your into, from hobbies, occupation, to religion or moral standards.
-Dont lie to the chicks, dont beat around the bush. Just be straight up, they remember that junk and use it as justification for any and every feeling they have going forward.
-A good woman is a God send and Queen, dont mess over them for the next nikka even if you dont see yall working out.
Me and my girl worked out our differences
Thanks to my sister
Thanks to my sister
What happen?