Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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every first date i've had his been one involving physical activities. Nothing was a guarantee to be a walk in the park. Some hoes i met online/dating apps and some in person. In both cases, i took em out to do something fun and loosen em up. I avoid starbucks and dinner dates as they are cliche and don't really provide an environment where me and homegirl can loosen up and be comfortable with each other. I like to go on dates where it is a combination of conversation and physical..not just conversation. I find it accelerates the attraction between you and shorty on that 1st date rather than leaving room for attraction to grow over more than 1-2 dates because you risk losing the girl.

but then again, every date is girl-by-girl case. Some girls you gonna have to put in more than 1 date to get her while others you can get on the 1st date. It just depends on her comfort level, her attraction towards you and her trust.

i feel you. i say the guy should only schedule dates he's going to be comfortable in. for me, i like dinner dates. the last girl i took out, i spent about $200. of which 120 was the food i ordered for myself lol and took home the leftovers. the rest was a combination of what she ordered and tips. i tipped well.

i slept with the chick that night. i've learned to perfect dinner dates so i'm not worried about them.

i would do pool but im not really good at it lol. so if u havent slept with a chick, figure out the things ur not good at doing, and make sure you avoid doing those things around her.
 

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i feel you. i say the guy should only schedule dates he's going to be comfortable in. for me, i like dinner dates. the last girl i took out, i spent about $200. of which 120 was the food i ordered for myself lol and took home the leftovers. the rest was a combination of what she ordered and tips. i tipped well.

i slept with the chick that night. i've learned to perfect dinner dates so i'm not worried about them.

i would do pool but im not really good at it lol. so if u havent slept with a chick, figure out the things ur not good at doing, and make sure you avoid doing those things around her.

if i grab food, its usually cuz i'm hungry lol...its not something i pre-plan.

and its not so much dates that i'm comfortable with. Its strategic more than anything.
 

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if i grab food, its usually cuz i'm hungry lol...its not something i pre-plan.

and its not so much dates that i'm comfortable with. Its strategic more than anything.
i hear you. the objective is to be bedding her that night. one thing i've noticed is, when chicks know they gonnna be fuccking u that night, they eat very little on the date. lol. they may drink a lot of wine (as usual) but they'll eat less. thats when u know ur one foot in.
 

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i hear you. the objective is to be bedding her that night. one thing i've noticed is, when chicks know they gonnna be fuccking u that night, they eat very little on the date. lol. they may drink a lot of wine (as usual) but they'll eat less. thats when u know ur one foot in.

never noticed that. :ohhh:

i always thought it was cuz they were insecure about their eating habits and me judging em.

But good looks fam. :salute:
 

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i hear you. the objective is to be bedding her that night. one thing i've noticed is, when chicks know they gonnna be fuccking u that night, they eat very little on the date. lol. they may drink a lot of wine (as usual) but they'll eat less. thats when u know ur one foot in.
Also peep if they eat ice cream
 

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Yo here is my scenario/dilemma.
I met this chick about 7-8 months ago. We both kind of went in w/o wanting anything serious just causal smashing etc..
And let me tell you she got some of the best pum pum I've ever had in my life:banderas: and her head game is ridiculous.

She is one of those chicks that you can do anything to, anytime you want you know?

But about 2 months ago she comes to me on some "We need to figure out exactly what we're doing?" talk :rudy:

Pretty much she caught feelings and has started acting crazy. "Coincidentally" popping up at places I'm at, calling me 100 times if I don't text back, etc..

I swear every time I knock her down her crazy level rises and it keeps getting more dangerous. She is on BAT shyt level :mindblown:

Thing is I'm about to graduate soon and start working in a whole other state. She sent me pictures of her and her friend saying "We could both be yours." :damn:

My question is, Do y'all think it's worth it to get some more since I'm about to bounce out anyway? Or should I just stop before it gets any worse?
 

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I need some help brehs ASAP. I managed to get this girl to come over my crib tommrow. I've known her for a couple years, in passing and through mutual friends plus she lives literally around the corner so she peeps me skating around the neighborhood every now and then:lupe:. Usually I would keep it hot, hi and bye small talk type shyt but nothing to even build a connection of any kind in my mind. Also she's a preachers daughter and I've heard somethings about her other sisters :youngsabo:so my questions is what's the best possible route to get in them guts:steviej:. My past introvert ways worked in my favor cause I feel like she wants to see what the boys about. How could I Initiate at least a make out session so she knows I'm not playing games when it's time to play forreal:demonic:
 
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Yo here is my scenario/dilemma.
I met this chick about 7-8 months ago. We both kind of went in w/o wanting anything serious just causal smashing etc..
And let me tell you she got some of the best pum pum I've ever had in my life:banderas: and her head game is ridiculous.

She is one of those chicks that you can do anything to, anytime you want you know?

But about 2 months ago she comes to me on some "We need to figure out exactly what we're doing?" talk :rudy:

Pretty much she caught feelings and has started acting crazy. "Coincidentally" popping up at places I'm at, calling me 100 times if I don't text back, etc..

I swear every time I knock her down her crazy level rises and it keeps getting more dangerous. She is on BAT shyt level :mindblown:

Thing is I'm about to graduate soon and start working in a whole other state. She sent me pictures of her and her friend saying "We could both be yours." :damn:

My question is, Do y'all think it's worth it to get some more since I'm about to bounce out anyway? Or should I just stop before it gets any worse?

use them and dont tell them ur leaving... fukk them several times and bounce breh :demonic:
 

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Deed done brehs, I broke my FCK before relationship rule but she was so cool that I caught feelings :wow: well today ur boy sealed the deal :takedat: FCK she was so wet(BTW virgin,I am her first she was so damn nervous but idk what happened something took over me and I was just saying all the right words)

Overall it was beautiful A+ she a keeper:mjcry:
 
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