Naw you got put in that work. Like dante nero said you have lay the 5 bricks. Talk to 5 women a day for 8 weeks straight. For those that can't add that's 280 women. Patrice said "stick fly paper ever were and see what sticks " . Everything in a man's life is work... that includes women. I got some some shyt coming to this thread in February. I wanna help you guys as much I can but you have to put into action things that you never DONE before ...that means take a chance.
Agree with this. While yes it's great to work on yourself outside of women, the fact is if you want one you have to talk to them. I recommend having multiple outlets to talk to multiple chicks a day. Figure out whatever hobby you like that women would like as well and join a group. I call this your comfort group because you won't feel as pressured, but you will still have feminine energy around you. Maybe you can find a cause to volunteer for. Not only will you be helping a cause, but you will meet women and also network for better jobs.
A man does need to step out of his comfort zone and talk to chicks outside of his circle. It can be a girl you see wearing a nice dress, jacket, or whatever but open your damn mouth. Yes you will get rejected, but you will also be putting yourself in a position to win. You will only win if you're taking shots.
If possible find another male that is meeting woman successfully and figure out what he is doing. Though I don't promote having platonic relationships with females, I will saying having one hot one can also be of benefit. At one of my old jobs I realized how desperate we men look to woman when we don't have the balls to say what we want. It was a sales job and these guys would basically buy anything she wanted to sell them just to get a chance to maybe take her out. Meanwhile, none of these dudes would say "I'm not interested in your products, but I would like to take you out tonight".
The worst thing you can do with a chick is not let your intention be known. For all of those saying yea but I want to get to know her blah blah blah, you can still get to know her after you directly tell her you're interested in her. Believe me, it's one of the most powerful and sense of relief feelings you will have as a man when you let a girl know how you feel upfront.
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