Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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You think she fukking somebody else?
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Nah she aint, like the brotha above said, she showing signs of settling
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DaRealness
I think very deeply
You need to let her go because marriage won't miraculously make things better, I know this from experience.
Mr.bocario
Superstar
Lol I could understand college or high school girls trippin about social media, but its grown ass women smh
It's hard to let go even when you know you should. Because you always think it will get better when you love them.
I'm kinda dealing with the same shyt.
"Women are just a place for you to rest when you get tired (which you can do by yourself just as well). And if they want, they can support you in your conquest and creation. But they better be fukking damn good at both things if they want to stick around."
Y'all agree? Disagree? Thoughts.
Y'all agree? Disagree? Thoughts.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
I know. I've already been there. I'm not implying it's easy to just get up and leave like walking out of a wack movie, but the reality is the pain will be way greater once you're married and then having the pain of divorce, especially if children are involved. It's better to cut ties while you still have nothing to lose.
I feel you.
Trust me. I've already been in this thread crying and complaining lmao
My situation still is shytty. Relationship was rocky then j got caught cheating ... We broke up ... I was depressed all summer. Fought for her back, got her back. Wasn't easy... Was told she "needed space" about 2 times... Then she didn't. Lol smh
Now shyt is still iffy. We not even fukking on the regular
Youseenmywork
KING
Ummm... this gal that i recently met has two phones.
We met Xmas weekend at a club/bar. We were already making out and she was sitting on ya boys lap while whispering shiit that was indistinguishable (due to the elements of the basslines via trap sounds).
Finally got her out on a date several days later, to which i was 10 minutes late for. She was livid brehs. Didn't even hug me upon me arriving at the joint (she suggested Joey's... i thot we were just having drinks but she ordered steak strips and sushi... altho she did tell the waiter to split the tab, i said no).
She says she works in the healthcare industry as (some kind of) supervisor (i dont recall the title exactly, excuse me for i was a little rusty from lack of first dates in a minute. haha) for a group of subordinates (but she just got the gig 2 months ago?). But the conversation was on point or this 25 year old from Somalia, she graduated from University of WA and actually gave her opinion on almost everything we touched upon - whether concurred or contrarian (she's gorgeous brehs, even a waitress who wasn't even serving our table came up to her complimenting her aesthetics, i was like... go away. She doesn't need to be gassed up than im sure she already is. Presumably. LOL).
One of the things that stuck out to me during the convo:
She involuntarily tells me that the second device is for work and that she's on call from clients and cohorts/etc.
I tried to look her up on backpages to see if i'd find her due to the stigma of people having 2 cellies... but alas to no effect (pardon my ignance, but i highly doubt family-oriented women from the Horn of Africa, or any African country - i would assume- would degrade/subject themselves to adult services, but i just wanted to ensure).
Any who, she told me her Bday was on New Years day (and i was heading out of town for NYE... so there was gonna be no rendezvous for us).
We went out for another drink after Joeys and the convo seemed very... it just seemed like she was very uninterested. Like, my ass got friendzoned before the end of outing number one (which is something i'm not used to, if i get the girl out, i'm under the impression/and due to previous experiences... gonna turn it into something romantic, nil platonic, exception back in 2012, i took a Eritrean chick out and i got used for dinner, but i hate to generalize, so i figured i'd give this one a go cuz errbody different).
When we were done with the first drink, she said she had to go home cuz work was early (it was around 11, Dec 30rst).
So she hugged me right outside the bar and said, "Hey, when you get back into town Sat, hit me up."
It didn't sound very convincing.
When i got home, i texted her thanks for coming out, etc. No response.
Didn't text her NYE day. Just because.
On New Years night, i texted her happy bday and Happy New Year.
Once again... no response.
I decided to cut my losses because, like the Eritrean chick, i just assumed that most chicks from Africa (even tho they are 2nd generation, it's still frowned upon-taboo for them to date guys of my ethinicity) just don't fukk with my type romantically.
So that was that.
But part 2 is when it gets interesting:
tbc...
We met Xmas weekend at a club/bar. We were already making out and she was sitting on ya boys lap while whispering shiit that was indistinguishable (due to the elements of the basslines via trap sounds).
Finally got her out on a date several days later, to which i was 10 minutes late for. She was livid brehs. Didn't even hug me upon me arriving at the joint (she suggested Joey's... i thot we were just having drinks but she ordered steak strips and sushi... altho she did tell the waiter to split the tab, i said no).
She says she works in the healthcare industry as (some kind of) supervisor (i dont recall the title exactly, excuse me for i was a little rusty from lack of first dates in a minute. haha) for a group of subordinates (but she just got the gig 2 months ago?). But the conversation was on point or this 25 year old from Somalia, she graduated from University of WA and actually gave her opinion on almost everything we touched upon - whether concurred or contrarian (she's gorgeous brehs, even a waitress who wasn't even serving our table came up to her complimenting her aesthetics, i was like... go away. She doesn't need to be gassed up than im sure she already is. Presumably. LOL).
One of the things that stuck out to me during the convo:
She involuntarily tells me that the second device is for work and that she's on call from clients and cohorts/etc.
I tried to look her up on backpages to see if i'd find her due to the stigma of people having 2 cellies... but alas to no effect (pardon my ignance, but i highly doubt family-oriented women from the Horn of Africa, or any African country - i would assume- would degrade/subject themselves to adult services, but i just wanted to ensure).
Any who, she told me her Bday was on New Years day (and i was heading out of town for NYE... so there was gonna be no rendezvous for us).
We went out for another drink after Joeys and the convo seemed very... it just seemed like she was very uninterested. Like, my ass got friendzoned before the end of outing number one (which is something i'm not used to, if i get the girl out, i'm under the impression/and due to previous experiences... gonna turn it into something romantic, nil platonic, exception back in 2012, i took a Eritrean chick out and i got used for dinner, but i hate to generalize, so i figured i'd give this one a go cuz errbody different).
When we were done with the first drink, she said she had to go home cuz work was early (it was around 11, Dec 30rst).
So she hugged me right outside the bar and said, "Hey, when you get back into town Sat, hit me up."
It didn't sound very convincing.
When i got home, i texted her thanks for coming out, etc. No response.
Didn't text her NYE day. Just because.
On New Years night, i texted her happy bday and Happy New Year.
Once again... no response.
I decided to cut my losses because, like the Eritrean chick, i just assumed that most chicks from Africa (even tho they are 2nd generation, it's still frowned upon-taboo for them to date guys of my ethinicity) just don't fukk with my type romantically.
So that was that.
But part 2 is when it gets interesting:
tbc...
She don't want u
Don't forget about her sister
Lol I hear you breh