Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yeah.. Exactly. To me, it's not a huge deal that she believes that because we're only leaving the food out until it cools off, then putting it in the fridge so the health risk is minimal. And it's not THAT much of an inconvenience unless I'm about ready to go to sleep and I have to wait for it. The problem lies in her complete lack of desire to listen to reason or respect my thoughts on the matter. Just flat out said "I'm not debating this" like wtf. I love her, and we've been together for a while and I wanna be with her, but this isn't the first time she has tried to shut down all discourse on topics we disagree on. It really makes me question if this is someone I can be with for the long term.

You're right. She said she got sick from it before, which I know is bullshyt because it's not scientifically accurate. Unless she put a gigantic vat of something scalding hot in the fridge before cooling it in ice first, there's no way this happened with just an ordinary little container of leftovers. But you can't tell her nothin' once she has an idea in her head. I've been in several relationships and have lots of married (or settled down) friends, and hear this often. But this just doesn't seem like something I should just "get used to" because "women are like that". Even if it's just a handful of issues here or there, it is such a turnoff and a frustration for your partner to act like that, replacing productive conversation with yelling and denial. Makes me wanna just say fukk it sometimes.
your girl is gonna teach your kids that stupid shyt. You want stupid children?
 

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I posted in this thread in the very beginning four years ago but, I never took it seriously. In fact, I thought alot of yall dudes were bitter. I called @Reinscarf that hundreds of time. After going through the dating scene the last four years, I find myself saying the same shyt I got mad at him for saying...verbatim :patrice: So either i'm bitter now or I was a naive simp back then. Either way, seeing how much my mentality has shifted, all I can see is how much time and effort I wasted chasing women when I should have been chasing goals and self-improvement. Not that I haven't but, your mission should be number one. Women a distant second. Maybe third after family. And that certainly wasn't the case before. I woke up late as hell.
 

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so every time I seen this bytch since I havent even been the one to say anything first yet she'd start talking to me:patrice:
Im in the locker room sitting down eating with my headphones blasting during lunch and she keeps talking to me starting small talk

Granted, the reason I felt I could ask her for her number in the first place is cuz I thought she was feeling me cuz we'd always talk and shyt and we don't work in the same department but out of all of the girls that work in a different department I prolly talked to her the 2nd most, but after curving me she acts like it never happened, is she trying to just be nice and not have it be awkward or what:patrice: or did I just get friend/co-worker zoned in the nicest way possible:patrice:
I was mentally prepared to never talk to her again and accept that L but she keeps talkin to me:mjcry: I couldnt even look at her, shes too sexy and I know I cant have it:mjcry:
It could just be timing. I went through this before with a girl i was feeling. I tryed to take it to the next level and she shut me down. It sucked but I wasnt pressed. She kept coming around so I just kept being nice to her. At Some point things must have ended up changing in her life cause. Before I knew it she was literally letting me know she wanted to fukk. One day i come to see her and she gives me this super tight ass hug, looking me in the eye, lots of touching. Legit had me like:leon:. Then she flat out said it. I was wearing a nike shirt that read "we have you surrounded" so she reads my shirt and says to "you can surround me anytime":krs: and she was seroius as fucc too. I been fukking with her off and on for almost four years now.

:smugdraper:So if you want my advice. I would continue being nice to her. Act like her curving you aint no thing. BUT continue to persue other women. Ans see what happens. You really have no reason not to be cool with her anyways.
 

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I've never been bitter, when you plug out of the matrix and see things as they are you realize.

It's like how kevm says women are like dessert, its nice to have a dessert but you'll still be fine without one


I posted in this thread in the very beginning four years ago but, I never took it seriously. In fact, I thought alot of yall dudes were bitter. I called @Reinscarf that hundreds of time. After going through the dating scene the last four years, I find myself saying the same shyt I got mad at him for saying...verbatim :patrice: So either i'm bitter now or I was a naive simp back then. Either way, seeing how much my mentality has shifted, all I can see is how much time and effort I wasted chasing women when I should have been chasing goals and self-improvement. Not that I haven't but, your mission should be number one. Women a distant second. Maybe third after family. And that certainly wasn't the case before. I woke up late as hell.
 

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@Asantehene @twan83 @DaRealness

my bad brehs. But you remember that somali chick i was talking about few pages back matching with on tinder?

well, guess who added me on fb yesterday morning strangely for some reason? :why:

and that's not only what's weird...




me: who's this (i know who it is...i'm just playing dumb and wanting to see if she'd come clean or if she'd play dumb too)

her: you look familiar

me: have we crossed paths before?

her: possibly

me: you're the girl from tinder. :comeon:

then i wake up to her blocking me. :what:
 
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