Action Mike
All praise..
I'm gonna fukk around and lose this bytch with my actions not matching my words. From now on what I say is what I meancompromise too much and you feel L building up
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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I'm gonna fukk around and lose this bytch with my actions not matching my words. From now on what I say is what I meancompromise too much and you feel L building up
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
My chick is down. She only has one and i still have none and im turning 27 this year
She's from the hood (5th ward for the tx brehs) but she acts right. She admitted she's addicted to me, she calls me first every day, she spent money on me on both of our paydays, she does what i tell her, she makes me feel like a king, and she throws that thang back.
One of my ex's is a single mother, she was perfect for me, she wanted me to marry her, but I couldn't get over having my first child with someone who already had a child and looking after someone else's child.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
selectorZen
Rookie
Spendin money on someone elses child is beta as fkIm taking a gamble breh
Im taking a gamble breh
Like I said before I dated a lot of single moms with great values
I'm married too one and let alone I was a single father too
I have a blended family
My daughter real dad wasn't even in her life when I met her then he sort of popped up when I was in the pic and still ended up disappearing he sees her like once a year on some yearly daddy shyt
My daughter already hit him when she was younger with the
look and talk cuz of how I raised her and sees me as her true father she don't ask about him or care either My other 2 kids from ex sees my wife as their real mom my oldest kid my son remembers his real mom but doesn't care either my daughter don't remember her cuz she left when she was 1 and hasn't seen her since then
They might at times as me questions bout real mom but I keep it like this when ur old enough I will tell u the truth and everything u want to know bout her all I can tell u is if she wanted to see u or talk too u she has my contact info so u know what that means then don't you
Me and my wife only have 1 kid together but as a family all the kids see each of us as the real parent
And that the other 2 clowns just show up when they want or if they want too is what the other 3 kids told us
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Like I said before I dated a lot of single moms with great values
I'm married too one and let alone I was a single father too
I have a blended family
My daughter real dad wasn't even in her life when I met her then he sort of popped up when I was in the pic and still ended up disappearing he sees her like once a year on some yearly daddy shyt
My daughter already hit him when she was younger with the
My other 2 kids from ex sees my wife as their real mom my oldest kid my son remembers his real mom but doesn't care either my daughter don't remember her cuz she left when she was 1 and hasn't seen her since then
They might at times as me questions bout real mom but I keep it like this when ur old enough I will tell u the truth and everything u want to know bout her all I can tell u is if she wanted to see u or talk too u she has my contact info so u know what that means then don't you
Me and my wife only have 1 kid together but as a family all the kids see each of us as the real parent
And that the other 2 clowns just show up when they want or if they want too is what the other 3 kids told us
but homie, a childless dude dealing with a single mother is a whole different battle. If you were childless would you have settled down with a single mother. A lot of childless dudes nowadays once they 25+ most women their age got children.
Yes I would of have I stated that I dated a lot single moms before I even had kids and I don't mind it at all almost consider one for a future with too
Could be cuz I love kids cuz my mom has been doing daycare since I was a kid
Could be cuz my dad married my mom when she was a single mom and he had no kids
Could be I just don't give a fukk if she has a kid as long as she is a good woman and the kid ain't off the chain crazy bad ass
But that is me like I said
DarkHorse23
Banned
Can you guys give me some applicable steps on how I can change my mindset and move further from the "nice" guy paradigm and closer to not giving a shyt about women. I think it's easier to not give a fukk and express how you REALLY feel about the opposite online, but being able to take all those feelings and apply them to your real life interactions with women is the challenge for me because even though i have a lot of bitterness i haven't crossed over to the point of "no return", but honestly i don't want to wait for that day to come. I want to start dealing with them the way you should, while remember it's needed and silly to continue having a soft heart for a group of individuals who don't give a shyt about you anyway.
Serious answers please.
Serious answers please.
Honesty i was a shy nice guy for awhile and it just got to the boiling point where I hated how females made me feel and how they treated me that I became the way I am now
I really do get it why u want to be that way but at the same time u should still keep pieces of who u are still
The best advice I can give u is this
U can still be u but understand when to pick ur parts of being that nice to a female
You have to understand not to give so much to a female so soon so fast and when u wanna be all super nice just remember to pull back give her bread crumbs
You don't have to be a a$$hole u can just withhold a lot of urself or feelings back but that takes time and practice to do that u can do that at work or with certain friends that are just acquaintances and they ask what's up u you can say ur changing ur ways for better to be a better you
For me it was so sudden cuz I got so hurt and all the bitterness in me whether it was just people who did it but it was primarily females who made me that way
I just started not caring what others thought about me anymore and just expressed what I truly felt to everybody
When it came to females I withhold a lot of info bout me and gave em small pieces of me till I felt they were worth getting more of me and even when I did open up I still had the no fukks given mentality no matter what and who they are I never put anything past a female
Anymore
The one thing I do truly regret is that nice part of me went away and their were a few females I felt that deserve too see that full side of me but couldn't cuz it's just gone now u only get glimpses of it from me
DarkHorse23
Banned
Thanks. Yeah like i said i'm not there completely, but the rejection, along with the double standards, hypocrisies, enablers(simps, society) negative experiences in college, and the hurtful things black women say about black men is really moving me closer in that direction. I already want to make their life a living hell once they do start paying attention to me. I literally feel like sometimes that i wanna live out the rest of my days just being the biggest dog.
I truly feel u that's why u need to start being more straightforward with ur feelings regardless of course try to be respectful but once they don't show no respect all bets are off then
Which I either give them that real ether or majority time the silent treatment and they all hate that more than anything
Pick and choose ur areas where u show ur kindness but also let it be known and show that don't take ur kindness for weakness either so they know not to fukk with u that way at all
U deserve to be happy and be treated with respect and kindness With the right person but at same time just enjoy u and toughen up urself for the future and getting ur life on point if it ain't. A good woman will come into ur life eventually until enjoy ur time alone and piece of mind of bettering urself in the process cuz once u do any type of female that comes along won't be able to shake ur core or foundation so easily anymore
DarkHorse23
Banned
Yeah that's the mindset i'm trying to have. At 26, just trying to spend the rest of my 20's improving and recreating myself, and reentering the dating game at 30, but i can't lie the isolation and consistent time alone and without companionship(which has been most of my life) really eats at me emotionally. Even as a man we're built to carry many burdens for longer periods of time than women, but idk if being alone and never getting attention from the opposite sex is a cross any person can carry indefinitely.
Hopefully what they say will be true, that if you work hard and improve yourself, that what you want/desire will come. And maybe at that time i'll be so happy that i'm finally getting attention that I won't have the energy or desire to seek revenge, but it's not something i can promise at this moment. But a lot can happen in 4-5 years so we will see what happens.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
I ain't got time for that macho shyt no more.
I want a woman and kids so I gotta take who seems worthy.
Yes I'm not the father but young black males wouldn't do better with any male role model rather than none. If I leave ol girl alone, that's another young black child that grew up without a manly figure to influence him.
DarkHorse23
Banned
I ain't got time for that macho shyt no more.
I want a woman and kids so I gotta take who seems worthy.
Yes I'm not the father but young black males wouldn't do better with any male role model rather than none. If I leave ol girl alone, that's another young black child that grew up without a manly figure to influence him.
And why is that YOUR problem? Let dude who got her pregnant do that. You guys suffering with "Russell Wilson" syndrome frustrate me.
And wanting a woman and kids is fine...but you're SETTLING
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
shyt it is what it is
But if she acts right and her child has a male around to influence and teach him, there's no wrong in that.
Its not about who's problem it is. But black kids need a Male role model in their life.