Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Youseenmywork]

 

[LezJepzin]

Got a facebook IM out of the blue from a lady friend of mines from Portland, OR saying she's going to be in San Francisco in March and wants to see me. Backstory with her is that we were matched up over seven years ago on E-Harmony when I fukked with the site during a drought. We talked a bit but we never met in person due to the fact that our interactions felt too rushed for me.Even when I was in Portland two years ago to run the Marathon she ran five years in a row prior to the year I ran it I didn't hear from her when I was in town until a month later. Though things didn't work out between us on a higher level , our mutual interests kept us friends on social media.

Fast forward to tonight. She tells me she's going to be visiting the City to also help her friend get situated moving there (she used to live in the Bay). She wants to introduce us I've seen photos of her friends and they don't look bad at all so I like my chances

I'm intrigued by the fact that a girl I used to talk to years ago wants to set me up with one of her friends. Even though it's more like a introduce myself and do the rest than a blind date, it pays to get out there and live your life because someone will notice. Got a lot of "why didn't you have a "friend" to go to Houston with?" questions from females after seeing all the pics from my trip. Guess that put me on the market without looking desperate

Just curious how this girl my friend is looking to have me meet look like but I hope there isn't any animosity from her if me and the girl hit it off.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

When women likes you physically, you don't have to say anything other than "Hello". Trust. If a woman messages you first, that's all they say. They never say more than "Hello" or "Hi (name) how are you?" They dont rack their brain to come up with some funny joke.

Typically I try to discuss something in their picture or profile as an ice-breaker, but don't try too hard.

I've had women tell me that they don't mind if a man makes a sexual comment at them.....as long as he's attractive. If he's not attracted, then they're "offended".

I'm in a no man's land breh...

Even had my homie girl check my profile and she said nothing was wrong with it though she could be lying

Even had my homie send some shyt to 3 chicks I matched up with,and I ain't get shyt back. These chicks be on some "Don't just say Hey" bullshyt, so I go different. Don't even put much effort into it..it has to be my pictures or something.

I honestly think I just give off friend vibes or some shyt...like last option available shyt. I need to fall back but at the sametime..i'm 25,in shape and getting more in shape by the day and I wanna fukk

It's like damn, I take advice what more do I need to do?

 

[360dagod]

I'm in a no man's land breh...

Even had my homie girl check my profile and she said nothing was wrong with it though she could be lying

Even had my homie send some shyt to 3 chicks I matched up with,and I ain't get shyt back. These chicks be on some "Don't just say Hey" bullshyt, so I go different. Don't even put much effort into it..it has to be my pictures or something.

I honestly think I just give off friend vibes or some shyt...like last option available shyt. I need to fall back but at the sametime..i'm 25,in shape and getting more in shape by the day and I wanna fukk

It's like damn, I take advice what more do I need to do?

Breh...you gotta hit the trenches

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

breh, chill. are you getting the same tepid reaction in real life as well?

get your aesthentics/looks up. hit the gym, fix your skin (no dark circles/ razor bumps / acne scars ) and get your hair/teeth right. if a hoe think you 'fine', she will laugh @ every dumb joke you make. period.

That's the game nowadays = hoes don't give a fukk don't really care bout your humor / job / qualities if you look good. either play it or sit on the bench

Yea

Breh...you gotta hit the trenches

I've been taking L's for damn near 2 months straight..

shyt is frustrating...especially since i've been seeking advice and everything.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

A lot of brothas would have went farther if not for certain women.Think with Logic and not emotions.

 

[jilla82]

this whole thread could be summed up with this

 

[Youseenmywork]

this whole thread could be summed up with this

This post is brilliant I've tried to get many guys to listen to this it really should be mandatory listening.

 

[jilla82]

This post is brilliant I've tried to get many guys to listen to this it really should be mandatory listening.

yea man...it really should be.
This video cleared my mind up during a bad breakup.

I think the reason this video doesnt resonate with more men is that society/feminism says that men being true to themselves is wrong.
Women even think they want a guy that is slightly submissive...but once you start acting that way everything goes haywire.

Also, you need some experience under you belt to really appreciate it.

 

[The ADD]

Got a facebook IM out of the blue from a lady friend of mines from Portland, OR saying she's going to be in San Francisco in March and wants to see me. Backstory with her is that we were matched up over seven years ago on E-Harmony when I fukked with the site during a drought. We talked a bit but we never met in person due to the fact that our interactions felt too rushed for me.Even when I was in Portland two years ago to run the Marathon she ran five years in a row prior to the year I ran it I didn't hear from her when I was in town until a month later. Though things didn't work out between us on a higher level , our mutual interests kept us friends on social media.

Fast forward to tonight. She tells me she's going to be visiting the City to also help her friend get situated moving there (she used to live in the Bay). She wants to introduce us I've seen photos of her friends and they don't look bad at all so I like my chances

I'm intrigued by the fact that a girl I used to talk to years ago wants to set me up with one of her friends. Even though it's more like a introduce myself and do the rest than a blind date, it pays to get out there and live your life because someone will notice. Got a lot of "why didn't you have a "friend" to go to Houston with?" questions from females after seeing all the pics from my trip. Guess that put me on the market without looking desperate

Just curious how this girl my friend is looking to have me meet look like but I hope there isn't any animosity from her if me and the girl hit it off.

Don't worry about animosity. That's a win/win for you.

 

[TRUEST]

I'm in a no man's land breh...

Even had my homie girl check my profile and she said nothing was wrong with it though she could be lying

Even had my homie send some shyt to 3 chicks I matched up with,and I ain't get shyt back. These chicks be on some "Don't just say Hey" bullshyt, so I go different. Don't even put much effort into it..it has to be my pictures or something.

I honestly think I just give off friend vibes or some shyt...like last option available shyt. I need to fall back but at the sametime..i'm 25,in shape and getting more in shape by the day and I wanna fukk

It's like damn, I take advice what more do I need to do?

try switching up ur pics. have no more than 2 pictures on ur profile. change up those two pictures every 24hours. and when u put up a new pic, swipe a lot. see which set of pictures gets u the most responses and stick to those pics. if u are 6 ft and above, mention that in ur profile. i.e. 6'1. and leave it at that.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

try switching up ur pics. have no more than 2 pictures on ur profile. change up those two pictures every 24hours. and when u put up a new pic, swipe a lot. see which set of pictures gets u the most responses and stick to those pics. if u are 6 ft and above, mention that in ur profile. i.e. 6'1. and leave it at that.

I'm 5'10 but put 6'0

 

[DarkHorse23]

When women likes you physically, you don't have to say anything other than "Hello". Trust. If a woman messages you first, that's all they say. They never say more than "Hello" or "Hi (name) how are you?" They dont rack their brain to come up with some funny joke.

Typically I try to discuss something in their picture or profile as an ice-breaker, but don't try too hard.

I've had women tell me that they don't mind if a man makes a sexual comment at them.....as long as he's attractive. If he's not attracted, then they're "offended".

Cosign

 

[EMainstreet]

Real quick.

Turns out I have a bad ass shawty on my snapchat. She from where I live but is up in New York studying for college.

I talked to her here and there in high school but nothing crazy so it's not like we're friends.

What's the best way to sauce her up?

I'm trying to get some action from her when she comes back down to visit.

I was planning on replying to a snap from her and get that convo going that way.

I just don't want shyt to get friendly with me and her. I want her to know she got dikk waiting for her when she comes to visit...without coming on too strong.

What do you guys think?

 

[delta]

Yea


I've been taking L's for damn near 2 months straight..

shyt is frustrating...especially since i've been seeking advice and everything.

OK... so what have you done differently since? You say you seekin advice, are you actively using it. Don't say you gonna give up on puzzy cuz we both know you gon be back in 2 months and go back doing the same shyt thats not working.