Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Brehs really don't put girls on a pedestal don't buy them a drink. I'm literally right now with a chick who was like buy me a drink I was like ok im gonna get you the grossest drink here she laughed thinkin I was joking I was like no really give her ther worst tasting beer here. She was like if you weren't cute I would not acknowledged you But that's the thing if a chick is attracted to you, you could do what the do what you want.
 

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Met a girl for the first time last night that I went to high school with years ago. She was several years after my class and she was really quiet so we never crossed paths then.

I had her as a friend on facebook/Instagram for five years . Talked a bit on there but that social media aura is a bytch :francis:

She opened up more on there with her thirst trapping posts but curved me numerous times when I tried to holla. Even saw her on several dating sites.

She was recently dating some simp yet her dating profiles were still active :mjlol:


Back to last night. I was at a birthday dinner for a school mentor and I see her there :leon: When she first saw me she was like :unsure: being all standoffish like she didn't expect me to be there and didn't know how to react. It was in a banquet hall and after I talked to some brehs at the juice bar , I go sit down at the table she's at. Luckily we have the same friends the most part so it didn't look obvious.

When I came around to talk to her however, she was very receptive. Funny how she tried to sit close to a few of my homies earlier like she was seeing them to throw me off but I didn't buy it.

She goes out with a group including my friends from time to time (like a coli meet-up) and they post about it .

Hopefully I can go to the next one and see if I can know her better.

She's bad as fukk (like a brown eyed blu Cantrell) but I need to get to know her more first :patrice:
 

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Met a girl for the first time last night that I went to high school with years ago. She was several years after my class and she was really quiet so we never crossed paths then.

I had her as a friend on facebook/Instagram for five years . Talked a bit on there but that social media aura is a bytch :francis:

She opened up more on there with her thirst trapping posts but curved me numerous times when I tried to holla. Even saw her on several dating sites.

She was recently dating some simp yet her dating profiles were still active :mjlol:


Back to last night. I was at a birthday dinner for a school mentor and I see her there :leon: When she first saw me she was like :unsure: being all standoffish like she didn't expect me to be there and didn't know how to react. It was in a banquet hall and after I talked to some brehs at the juice bar , I go sit down at the table she's at. Luckily we have the same friends the most part so it didn't look obvious.

When I came around to talk to her however, she was very receptive. Funny how she tried to sit close to a few of my homies earlier like she was seeing them to throw me off but I didn't buy it.

She goes out with a group including my friends from time to time (like a coli meet-up) and they post about it .

Hopefully I can go to the next one and see if I can know her better.

She's bad as fukk (like a brown eyed blu Cantrell) but I need to get to know her more first :patrice:
No. Stop it. She can tell u want her. The awkwardNess is her feeling guilty of curving u. Don't chase this girl. And stop stalking her
 

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So guys, it's been a month since I've been seeing this new nurse woman. Chemistry is off the charts. We can talk for hours and hours and not get bored of each other. Yesterday on some surprise shyt, she scooped me up and we went go cart racing and played in the arcade. She paid for the whole thing then after I took her to my fav BBQ called the Smoke Joint in Brooklyn and we had a good time. I dunno guys but this slowly becoming the best courtship I've had
 

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So guys, it's been a month since I've been seeing this new nurse woman. Chemistry is off the charts. We can talk for hours and hours and not get bored of each other. Yesterday on some surprise shyt, she scooped me up and we went go cart racing and played in the arcade. She paid for the whole thing then after I took her to my fav BBQ called the Smoke Joint in Brooklyn and we had a good time. I dunno guys but this slowly becoming the best courtship I've had

Hopefully this will continue to be good for you man. The last thing you want to do however is to get content with everything. If you really feeling her, be sure to advance the relationship so that she becomes even more invested in you.
 

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Hopefully this will continue to be good for you man. The last thing you want to do however is to get content with everything. If you really feeling her, be sure to advance the relationship so that she becomes even more invested in you.

By advance what ya mean? Ask her to be my woman?
 

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By advance what ya mean? Ask her to be my woman?

Pretty much. She's not just doing these things simply out of the kindness of her heart. At some point, she's going to want to know what direction this is going. You yourself have to figure out what you want out of her so that it can put her mind at ease. It's still a bit early so you have time to just enjoy her company, but sooner or later, you going to have to figure out if she's someone that you want to be with for the long haul or just a temporary fling.
 

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Pretty much. She's not just doing these things simply out of the kindness of her heart. At some point, she's going to want to know what direction this is going. You yourself have to figure out what you want out of her so that it can put her mind at ease. It's still a bit early so you have time to just enjoy her company, but sooner or later, you going to have to figure out if she's someone that you want to be with for the long haul or just a temporary fling.

Myself I have a clear idea that this is someone I would like to be with but she still guarded cuz her last relationship "drained" her and she just don't want to jump into another quickly. Which is fine by me because this slow burn, I'm getting to know her and her me. She slowly dropping the defenses and giving a nikka a chance
 

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Should a man be honest about his sex experience with women or lack thereof or just keep it to himself. I'm 26 and my body count is only 4 unfortunately.
 

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when it comes down to it a woman will want to be with you or not.

money, status, sex game and all that in the end means nothing because guys with all of that and more get played, guys wiht all that and more get left, hell im sure we can all think back to a girl we were feeling/in love with etc. and she ended up a dude who had less than us in the end it doesn't matter. If a woman wants to be with you nothing will stop her not distance, I know a chick whose flying 6 hours 3,000 miles every few months even for a weekend to see her man and this girl is hot and can have literally any man she wants but she only wants one. And if a woman does not want to be with you it doensn't matter what you do, how much money you spend, if you save her life if your the last man on earth.
 
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